Well, me and my girlfriend have been going out for some two months. I just found out today that because of past experiences she wants to "avoid that stuff" the rest of her life. Maybe i'm an asshole if this is concerning me, whatever, just looking for some advice.

avoid wut stuff.....sex or long relationships?

anything past first base

anything past first base at all ever?....

i would advice gettin some one new

if a girlfriend doesnt put out then shes just a friend.. fuck that bitch and get yourself some pussy

Amen^

~~<jay>~~

Did she specify on these past experiences? If it was something as extreme as being sexually abused or raped, then I don't blame the girl.

No, it was her with her ex-boyfriends, where the ex decided to try something past first base..

You can either care about her, and accept the fact that you aren't getting any for a while. She will open up eventually, she is just going to have to come to the point where she trusts you.

But, if you don't really love her, and really want sex, just get out now. It's not going to be worth the commitment if that is how you feel.

Ask her what happened. Try to help her overcome her fears and trust you more. Also, ask her if masterbating on her chest counts as past first base.