You guys/girls got any tips, for a girl, on how to get an orgasm while masturbating? (without the help of vibrators, dildoes, or drugs)

i'd like to kno that myself....

It's really hard to get an orgasm for a girl when doing it yourself. I've yet to meet one who can do it. Toys are your friend. Go get toys.

~es

Stimulate your clit and g-spot... here's a link if you don't know where that is, you're welcome.

http://www.findthegspot.com/index.html

-Extant

Finding your g-spot is simple!

I figured that out a long time ago

I need to know stuff like the 7 erogenous zones (Friends lol) and like different stroking patterns that work and stuff.

It's really annoying when you're so fucking horny and it seems no matter how much you masturbate you don't feel satisfied. If I could get an orgasm it would totally help.

Warm running water running over your clit for quite a while will do it.

Don't bash sex toys! They really make a difference ;D.

Everyone is different. Do a google search on "female masturbation" and you'll come up with a bunch of different sites with some very creative tips. I personally find that fingering myself or being fingered does jack shit. It's all about the clitoris, baby.

It can be hard for most girls to reach their g-spot themselves, all I can really say is learn how to work your clit really good.

quote:Originally posted by Sweet_Star_187:

Warm running water running over your clit for quite a while will do it.

Is this where a girl lies in the tub with the faucet on and her legs up in the air and slides under the stream of water?

How many guys know of this common female technique?

^^^totally.

quote:Originally posted by Aunt Jemima:

You guys/girls got any tips, for a girl, on how to get an orgasm while masturbating? (without the help of vibrators, dildoes, or drugs)

take a bath and let the warm water run over your clit, works amazing can even give you multiple orgasm

electric toothbrush with a soft head is supposed to be very good.

running a finger up and down the "shaft of clit" tends to be good-takes a while tho

a friend of mine ,who has a cunny, swears by ice cubes up your bum(makes everything contract apparently..)

a lot of manuals recommend "tweaking" the labia(between thumb/forefinger pulling softly)

the best dildo around(i am told) is "jessica rabbit" or the "egg"

quote:Originally posted by Sweet_Star_187:

Warm running water running over your clit for quite a while will do it.

funny ... that's the first time i've ever heard that ... and i'm a girl, wtf? oh well ... know how to rub your clit real well (works for me ) its harder for you to really reach your "g-spot" cuz of angle and stuff so i just say rub that clit and find the best strokes/techniques that work for you.

The 7 erogenous zones. Lips, neck, breasts, inner thigh, under knee, writs and earlobes I think..

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:



The 7 erogenous zones. Lips, neck, breasts, inner thigh, under knee, writs and earlobes I think..

you forgot two :his wallet,the porsche!

His wallet is useless if it's empty.

Electric toothbrush, as long as it's soft works great, but remember, soft. Otherwise - Pain.

You on any anti depressents by any chance? They do make it alot harder to orgasm.

Other than that; Tried reading sex stories, text over images works for me sometimes.

Whatcha got against sex toys then?

quote:Originally posted by Paranoid_Pothead:

His wallet is useless if it's empty.

Electric toothbrush, as long as it's soft works great, but remember, soft. Otherwise - Pain.

You on any anti depressents by any chance? They do make it alot harder to orgasm.

Other than that; Tried reading sex stories, text over images works for me sometimes.

Whatcha got against sex toys then?

I'm not on any anti-depressants, I've tried the sex stories, they get me pretty worked up, but I can't orgasm just from reading...And I don't got anything against sex toys, It's just that I can't afford them and even if I could, legally, I'm not allowed to buy them. I'm still in high school.

well mabe you shouldnt do thaty anyway.grow grow.

quote:Originally posted by Aunt Jemima:

It's just that I can't afford them and even if I could, legally, I'm not allowed to buy them. I'm still in high school.

So am I. I don't know if they have Spencer's Gifts where you are, but around here, they have a section of sex paraphanelia in all stores. Vibrators for $10; not bad ones either!

I looked there, they have sex "games" and things like eatable "stuff" and lingerie, but they don't have vibrators. I think the mall probably banned them from selling them or something.

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:



The 7 erogenous zones. Lips, neck, breasts, inner thigh, under knee, writs and earlobes I think..

Anyone know the erogenous zones for men?

That could DEFINATELY come in handy

penis, penis, penis, neck, penis, testicles, testicles, penis.



EDIT: I forgot penis

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I think there's more than that...

the ears, neck, balls, dick, uhhh did i say neck? neck is great for buildin up a horniness and uhh if your drunk... kissing the shoulder is great... god that shit felt good

yeah umm the neck is great it tickles alot. not many places on me...

umm my legs i guess, I get really turned on when im rubbing a girl and she just grinds really hard in to my leg, all the way up and then down. EXCLENT

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an rogenous zone for men is the Peranium. When stroked correctly can fel nic and when tickled.

The peranium is the dick lik thing between your cock and your arse hole.

Also girls should be able to have an orgasm easy U MUST KNOW WHAT U WANT AND LIKE SO DO THAT.

My girl can give hrself an orgasm maybe only cause sh dosnt do it much.

Fingure your self with the cum here motion tickling the G-spot, Rub your lit how ever u lik it and fingur your arse.

I bet that will get you off.

EASY

I didn't mean you'd orgasm from reading sex stories; Masturbate at the same time.

It also really depends on what you're focusing on, you've got to find your 'thing' as it is.

Get some guy to buy a vibrator/dildo for you. [Okay, it might just be me who picks up these sort of people on the bus...] - Otherwise, there are DIY alternatives..

Men are the best dildos. Go get one.

quote:Originally posted by Paranoid_Pothead:

I didn't mean you'd orgasm from reading sex stories; Masturbate at the same time.

It also really depends on what you're focusing on, you've got to find your 'thing' as it is.

Get some guy to buy a vibrator/dildo for you. [Okay, it might just be me who picks up these sort of people on the bus...] - Otherwise, there are DIY alternatives..

What does "DIY" mean???

are you serious?

it means Do It Yourself

Some girls swear by hand held shower heads.

Some must lay on their stomachs.

Many must stimulate their nips while they're clit fondling.

Keep that Clit well lubed, too.

Some rub themselves on a pillow or something soft.

A few stand up & watch themselves in the mirr

A Real Woman,can handle herself

Are you a Real Woman?

No...no im not

Sadly, I'm only half a woman

The rest of me I left in some hotel in Taho

quote:Originally posted by SARDONICPILLOW:

are you serious?

it means Do It Yourself

Yeah now I remember, I haven't used that term in a long time is all

Make love to another girl.

quote:Originally posted by Abbess:

Make love to another girl.

Sorry...doesn't sound appealing :S

^^ of course it doesn't. He left out the best part: Make love to another girl, FILM IT, and send it to me! see, way better.



-rage

quote:Originally posted by RagingPussy:

^^ of course it doesn't. He left out the best part: Make love to another girl, FILM IT, and send it to me! see, way better.



-rage

Yes, I can see where I would be tempted to do that, but you see...that poor girl would feel bad because I would steal the show and look a hundred times hotter than her. You'll only want to watch me baby

Maybe, you're one of those sweet sick puppies

who has got to be a web-cam-whore? You know a

lot of time on cam: naked/scantily dressed/

masturbating etc.

Or...maybe not.

Some rare girls find 1/2>1 level TBSP

of nutmeg, very helpful with selfluv.

If you were to go this route, be advised that

many would dis it. Do some research 1st.

Many people just do too much/do it wrong.Then

they are all the dis like that & the dis like

this. & that be good. Everybody is diff & they must take their own way.

Whats with people and Nutmeg? Really, its like eating a tablespoon of cinnimon. (Do it and I'll praise you... idiot)

I am a girl (woman, Lady, Female, ect...) and whenever I masterbate I always get off, and in like 10 min too. (I like to practice)

It used to be very difficult, but you must remember, It is a phycological thing. You have to work your-self up. Think diry thing, Feel your self lightly on your stomach or other areas that you dont really touch too much and give yourself goose-bumps.

Experement alot, but dont hurt your-self... dont ask, it can be done.

I know you can do it.

Oh and getting high whille fucking can really make it feel great.

Raz

quote:Originally posted by Raz:

Whats with people and Nutmeg? Really,. (Do it and I'll praise you.)

I am a girl and whenever I masterbate I always get off,

I know you can do it.

Oh and getting high whille fucking can really make it feel great.

Raz

That'sa right, girl-woman lady-female.

quote:Originally posted by Aunt Jemima:

Finding your g-spot is simple!

I figured that out a long time ago

I need to know stuff like the 7 erogenous zones (Friends lol) and like different stroking patterns that work and stuff.

It's really annoying when you're so fucking horny and it seems no matter how much you masturbate you don't feel satisfied. If I could get an orgasm it would totally help.



Keep on rubbing youll find it.



Aunt Jemima!Huh isnt that the lady on the syrup?