ok i have a few questions for yall:

(1) i have never been kissed before (16 yo boy - sad i know). im just wanting to know what makes it good? why people like doing it. and how many guys get a boner while doing it? is it possible for a guy to kiss a girl for like 5 minutes straight and not get a boner?

(2) it takes me like 45 mins to an hour to jack off (minimum). does this mean i wont be able to ever get a blow job? since doubt a girl would like to have a dick in her mouth and bob up and down for that long.

(3) if your having sex with a girl but you stop before you cum, does that count as loosing your virginity? ive read here some people mentioning it, and wonder how many people do it?

(4) dont know why but i dont get boners over girls (but find them very sexy and a turn on but no boner for some reason). i do have a fetish for spanking though so even if im looking at some really good pics i cant ever have a full on boner the full time i jack off, and sometimes its only cemi-soft when i jack it. is that normal?

(5) has anyone got any ideas why i dont get boners over girls? i know ive asked it before but it really bugs me since it will make everything difficult for me ive i every try to have a *sex life* (not likely lol).

thanks very much

I just going to say dont worry about any of this stuff all sounds pritty normal for the most part the not being kissed isent a big deal but i suggest kissing a girl very soon the longer you wait the more scary it will be when you finaly do it.

Do not worry about any of that stuff, it will all come to you naturally when it happens.

Kissing is good because it is. Most people never question it beyond that. On a purely scientific basis, you're putting two areas together which have a very high density of nerve endings, so the sensations are more intimate and intense. Most young guys will get an erection at the drop of a hat, so having one while kissing is a given.

Masturbation and oral sex are like apples and oranges. Couple the fact that she's doing it instead of you, with the fact that her mouth is infinitely warmer and more moist than your hand, and you'll probably find yourself brought to orgasm much, much faster.

Intercourse without orgasm or ejaculation is still intercourse. But on a purely guy-to-guy basis, you're not really seen as a man until you've blown your load inside a woman. Although most women would call you a man-and-a-half if you were able to have sex, stop before you came, and keep going afterward (especially if she can orgasm once, twice, thrice, etc. by your efforts).

Everybody gets erections from different things. Some get turned on by asses, some by tits, some by feet, some by watching intercourse as a third party, and some by such things as small furry animals. Everybody's got something that does it for them. Non-erections aren't a problem, unless you find yourself unable to get an erection in a situation where you really, really, really want/need one. In such a case, go see a male doctor.

Performance anxiety kills more erections than middle age. You say you've never been kissed, and that probably means you've never had a woman strip to her naked ass in front of you and invite you over to the bed. That will be your moment of truth, and if I were you, I wouldn't be at all troubled unless you can't get an erection right then and there.

quote:Originally posted by greemah:

ok i have a few questions for yall:

(1) i have never been kissed before (16 yo boy - sad i know). im just wanting to know what makes it good? why people like doing it. and how many guys get a boner while doing it? is it possible for a guy to kiss a girl for like 5 minutes straight and not get a boner?

(2) it takes me like 45 mins to an hour to jack off (minimum). does this mean i wont be able to ever get a blow job? since doubt a girl would like to have a dick in her mouth and bob up and down for that long.

(3) if your having sex with a girl but you stop before you cum, does that count as loosing your virginity? ive read here some people mentioning it, and wonder how many people do it?

(4) dont know why but i dont get boners over girls (but find them very sexy and a turn on but no boner for some reason). i do have a fetish for spanking though so even if im looking at some really good pics i cant ever have a full on boner the full time i jack off, and sometimes its only cemi-soft when i jack it. is that normal?

(5) has anyone got any ideas why i dont get boners over girls? i know ive asked it before but it really bugs me since it will make everything difficult for me ive i every try to have a *sex life* (not likely lol).

thanks very much

1. Kissing is good because of the insane amount of nerves in the lips. The taste of the other person and etc contribute. I would say that kissing (making out) gives you a good chance for a boner. After 5 minutes, if not a boner at least an increase in arousal. But don't worry about offending the girl with this though, it's purely natural.

2. There is more to a blowjob than the sucking. You should be fine on this, especially once you relax and aren't so self-consicous about it all.

3. Intercourse is defined as penetration, so yes, you would lose your virginity.

4. It's normal.

5. Reasons why? Nerves, some pyscological issue, who knows? But the point is, since I can guess you've never been with a girl before, is not to worry about it too much. Once you're with one, everything will go smoothly. Try not to think about this too much.

maybe you like boys better

or goats. You don't have to worry about kissing them, or pleasing them.

did'nt hsve my 1st kiss til i was 18! don't sweat it ,you'll soon make up for lost time.

MOST BINTS WOULD KILL FOR A BLOKE WHO NEEDS 45 MINS TO COME!!!!!

don't forget most of us make it in 3 mins.

3 minutes? You have prblems my friend. Big fucking problems. Are you single? If not, I'm sure you will be soon, with times like that.