I've noticed that guys only, most of the time, likes the girls they choose to like. When there's a girl that likes them and follows them around or something like that, shows interest in them, they don't seem to be interested in them. You know what I mean? Why is that?

You should try playing hard to get. Most guys, though they won't admit it sometimes, like the challenge of trying to get the girl who won't cave into them.

Also guys are generally not on the same wave-length with girls on how to tell if they're liked by a certain girl. Sometimes you need to be painfully obvious to get a guy to understand what to another girl would be perfectly clear.

That is so true. So many times I would be open with how I felt with a guy and he wouldn't give a shit about me. The minute i started paying attention to other guys, dating around...etc he becomes interested. It's not just that guys are (no offence) quite dense to the female mind, they take for granted the attraction of other girls and assume that they will wait around forever until the guy decides that he has no one else to go for so why not go for her? It's quite stupid really. Then, for me at least, when the guy starts paying attention, i tell him to go to hell. Why should i waste my time on a guy so inconsiderate like that? While other girls, i know, will foregive and forget. Not realizing that the minute they do, the guy treats them like dirt all over again. Why are guys so shallow?

quote:Originally posted by Aunt Jemima:

That is so true. So many times I would be open with how I felt with a guy and he wouldn't give a shit about me. The minute i started paying attention to other guys, dating around...etc he becomes interested. It's not just that guys are (no offence) quite dense to the female mind, they take for granted the attraction of other girls and assume that they will wait around forever until the guy decides that he has no one else to go for so why not go for her? It's quite stupid really. Then, for me at least, when the guy starts paying attention, i tell him to go to hell. Why should i waste my time on a guy so inconsiderate like that? While other girls, i know, will foregive and forget. Not realizing that the minute they do, the guy treats them like dirt all over again. Why are guys so shallow?

listen aunt jemima. (i want pancakes now) the fact is that guys can't understand what girls want because girls don't know what they want. they're all fickle dipshits who spend their youths fucking people over for free shit, rides, meals, and other things that cost money, time, and though.

All the guys that can read you like a book or see right through you, are the ones YOU are too fucking stupid to date because you wanted an asshole who looked better rather than someone cool who understood you and loved you. fuck you jemima. fuck ms buttersworth too.

"I'd hit that shit... then sneak out."-Fa'ad

Well I don't know about other guys but if a girls shows interest in me ill go out with her if I like her. Im not afraid for a girl to know how I feel like last year I was like yea I like _____ and the girl wasn't that far from me and proboly heard and my friend was like dude your stupid so I was like so what if she knows. Some guys do stupid shit like Aunt Jemima said. My friend said he liked this one chick and he and everyone knew she liked him she said it a few times and hinted more then enough so that youd have to be blind to not see it and he kept saying how he would ask her out but then he ended up asking another chick out(always way way uglier) and I felt bad for the girl because well I liked her(still do we are friends) and my friend was kinda fucking with her even though he didn't realize it but he would only like her when he thought she was pissed and didn't want to talk to him, and then eventually she gave up and moved on which proves jemimas shit, the worse part was me having to deal with the fact that I really like her but would never get to "be with her" but thats ok now because we help each other out with our problems and shit so its better. Sorry for rambleing on im tired as fuck and don't know what im doing .



Edit- The guy who posted above me is pretty right as well. Girls don't know what the fuck they want alot of the time and when they do they skip the person that they say would be a great guy and go for the asshole. Shit if girls went for exactly what they wanted id be like a pimp(ive had numerous girls say im so sweet and all that other bs which is true but obviosly girls don't really want a guy whos sweet/sensitive/caring/sympathetic yet will still defend them and kick some major ass if the time comes to it)

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quote:Originally posted by Aunt Jemima:

That is so true. So many times I would be open with how I felt with a guy and he wouldn't give a shit about me. The minute i started paying attention to other guys, dating around...etc he becomes interested. It's not just that guys are (no offence) quite dense to the female mind, they take for granted the attraction of other girls and assume that they will wait around forever until the guy decides that he has no one else to go for so why not go for her? It's quite stupid really. Then, for me at least, when the guy starts paying attention, i tell him to go to hell. Why should i waste my time on a guy so inconsiderate like that? While other girls, i know, will foregive and forget. Not realizing that the minute they do, the guy treats them like dirt all over again. Why are guys so shallow?

Look twat, I don't know what kind of dipshits you chase around, nor do I care, but at least have the decency to not stereotype guys like that. Many guys are not like the ones you described, and I don't think I've ever met one stupid enough to do that anyways. So once again we can only guess at what trash you're into.



Ps: If you chase around a guy, and then finally give up and then he runs back to you, then for 1: you're doing something wrong, and 2: you're fucking stupid for chasing a guy around. Fucking wasting your time.

And I second that Fa'ad. Stupid fickle women.

I'm not like that at all. But I have a question, why are GIRLS like that?

quote:Originally posted by YKSH:

I'm not like that at all. But I have a question, why are GIRLS like that?

Well in my opinion it’s an extremely large chemical imbalance in their brains. BUT that would excuse millions of females pulling their stupid crap everyday, which is something I don’t want to give them an excuse for.

Anyways I couldn’t really be arsed typing shit that’s already been typed by the nice people at www.relationshit.com (http://www.relationshit.com) so check it out, not only is it a fucking riot (funny) its got heaps of practical advice. It'll get you out of the "She only wants to be friends" slum, worked for me on numerous occasions.

But in my opinion, ignorance is bliss when it comes to girls (regardless of how much of an asshole I sound like.) Its like they say "If it isn't broken, don’t fix it" sort of thing, if she didn’t say it (or bitch about it) don’t ask or do anything other then what you would do normally. This will severely reduce your chances of finding one of your "He should know how I’m feeling" bitches like our good friend Aunt Jemima because they’ll throw a big tantrum and leave you (No naggy bitch=Happy You)

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It's about compatibility.

You like what you like...Nobody can change that.

How comes chicks will only go for the type of guy they like?

I can't count how many times I've liked a chick...Then she tells me "Sorry...You're not my type!"

Use your loaf love!

It's not just guys you know. It's the same often the same way with women. I think it has more to do with will then anything. Some people cave in and take something that they didn't want to begin with. Others will not. A challenge is nice; however, when it comes to getting into a serious relationship, you go for what you really want and settle for nothing less.

My favorite quote for this would be "play second fiddle for no one".

quote:Originally posted by KittieBabe999:

I've noticed that guys only, most of the time, likes the girls they choose to like. When there's a girl that likes them and follows them around or something like that, shows interest in them, they don't seem to be interested in them. You know what I mean? Why is that?

Doesn't that answer your own question...? We like the girls we like. It makes more sense then liking girls we don't like. If the girls we like are the type that likes us and follows us around then we do stuff with them (ie date, or just hang out and shit) if it's a girl we dun like following us around, why would we start liking someone we dun just because they like us? That is the sound of a desperate person right there...

quote:she married him because he loved her

he loved her because she married him

quote:Originally posted by anonymous_won:

You should try playing hard to get. Most guys, though they won't admit it sometimes, like the challenge of trying to get the girl who won't cave into them.

Hard to get, I hate that game. :O

quote:Originally posted by NewRage:

Doesn't that answer your own question...? We like the girls we like. It makes more sense then liking girls we don't like. If the girls we like are the type that likes us and follows us around then we do stuff with them (ie date, or just hang out and shit) if it's a girl we dun like following us around, why would we start liking someone we dun just because they like us? That is the sound of a desperate person right there...

This doesn't have anything to do with me. I was just asking because that's what I see most of the time. I wasn't sayin this to offend anyone or anything I was just asking gees.