I'm a virgin (and intend on staying that way for the moment), so how do I otherwise pleasure my boyfriend (other than a blow job)? I know he likes his ear sucked on...

Uhhhhh... suck on his ear. Case solved.

-Extant

Girl.. get creative.

Striptease.

Do it on your bed and have him sit in a chair and watch.

Lap dance.

This melts in with the striptease. He'll want some physical contact after watching his girlfriend sexily dance and unclothe herself.

Dry hump.

This is under-rated. Usually, you think if 2 people laying down rubbing pelvises together. There's so much more. IF he's standing behind you and you're messing around, a move guys LOVE is when you bend over and arch your back (if there's a couch or something to lean on). It simulate doggy style and they get a perfect view of your ass. You can dry hump in any position and it's highly erotic. Mmm, i love it.

Suck fingers.

If you give good head and you know it. Suck fingers. Guys get a totally different sensation from the fingers than there dick (well duh). They'll be able to appreciate every movement of the tongue and every gentle suck with their fingers. They'll use their imagination, and wonder what that would feel like on their dick.

Lick nipples.

Guys nipple are sensitive. If you take the right approach, they'll revel.

Bite/kiss neck.

Different people like different pressure with the biting. I like it hard (like draw blood). Sucking always feels good, a little teeth here and there should work for everybody. The more you do it, the more you'll learn what he responds positivley to and what he doesn't like. (Experiement)

Masturbate - give him a show.

Guys get turned on by watching. They are VISUAL creatures. Like women are AUDIO which brings me to my next point..

Talk Dirty.

This has FAR ranginf implications. Sometimes the most dirty, taboo, crazy things can be someone deepest, hottest fantasy. Be careful where you put your limits though, you might cut yourself short. Be liberal with the sexy talk.

These are just a few ideas, if you want more let me know. But hopefully, you'll get your own sex imagination working and think of more.

[This message has been edited by MrMojoRisin (edited 03-16-2004).]

"Tell me how to be a tease! tee hee!"

I am not going to tell you how to make your bf crazy. If you really want to please him, make him cum. Anything short of that, and he will go home mad. You won't know it, but he will be. One day you are going to tease the wrong guy, and get raped. I have seen it happen. I don't feel bad for those women. They are sluts.

It happened to my sister like 3 times. # different guys are in jail because of her teasing guys way older than her.

I am not saying it makes it ok to rape, but it is still wrong for the women to make a man want to do something so bad, and then cry rape when he does it.

If you want to please your bf, get him a hooker, and leave him the fuck alone, since you plan on torturing him him instead.

Stupid bitch.

^ I think you took the post the wrong way.

I answered the question "How do you turn on your boyfriend?" not, "How to make him cum."

Those were great tips Mojo, got anymore up your sleeve?

Welcome back Mojo... no more vacations for you this year... lol

-Extant

I've been slacking in the moderator department. I lurk more than post these days. Just so all the noobs know, I'm watching you!

Ok, turning on guys.. where was I?

Roleplay.

This ties into talking dirty. There's a line between fantasy and reality but everything's game when you're just talking. Roleplaying is week different, in that you're simulating that fantasy into reality. Dress up, get into character, have props. Mental stimulation never hurt anyone - ie. erotica.

Tie him up.

This is a personal preference. Most guys (who don't have a sub/dom preference) will at least try it. Teasing is a major factor with this. Give him some head, incorporate the other techniques. If he likes is GREAT. If he doesn't - he'll want to tie you up.

If he does know himself sexually, and he's generally dominant. It'll turn him on more if YOU are tied up. Buy yourself some handcuffs and collar.

Massage.

This can start off nice and innocent. Have him lay on his stomach and sit on his butt and massage/rub/scratch his back. Lean over and kiss the back of his neck, his shoulders. Make sure your moving your hands from his back to his arms to his neck etc. Kiss him, flip him over and work your hands. Massage his hands, give him a slow, carressing handjob. Don't ignore his balls. Rub his legs, his butt.

*Tip* You can never go wrong with rubbing someone's head or (gently) pulling hair. People like to have their head touched - do it.

Damn Mojo, you're like the Energizer bunny at this stuff... Awesome advice!

quote:Originally posted by stupid noob:

, but it is still wrong for the women to make a man want to do something so bad, and then cry rape when he does it.

^ And that's really furkin' true. Sad, stupid women.

quote:Originally posted by jojabr:

^ And that's really furkin' true. Sad, stupid women.

i know, its so goddamn awful you might have to turn gay, huh?

ts

It always used to be that Suz was Sex and I was Affection.

I think we found her successor.

God Damn.

quote:Originally posted by PSYCH0TIK:

I'm a virgin (and intend on staying that way for the moment), so how do I otherwise pleasure my boyfriend (other than a blow job)? I know he likes his ear sucked on...

dump him and let him fuck someone who isnt a sexually repressed infant. guys dont want to be turned on, we wanted to blow a load in you. so either get to the point or shut the fuck up and get out of our sight.

quote:Originally posted by mrman383:

dump him and let him fuck someone who isnt a sexually repressed infant. guys dont want to be turned on, we wanted to blow a load in you. so either get to the point or shut the fuck up and get out of our sight.

You are the stereotypical shallow male. Go rape a dog because he licked his mouth and made you think of a bj.

quote:Originally posted by DeAtHsTyLe:

You are the stereotypical shallow male. Go rape a dog because he licked his mouth and made you think of a bj.

sorry, not all of us are ass kissing little bitches. shes not willing to do a goddamn thing yet she thinks shes going to turn her guy so she can leave him hanging? fuck that. she needs to grow the fuck up.

Maybe you should ask him how to please him.

quote:Originally posted by SkiPpYP:

Maybe you should ask him how to please him.Thats kinda tricky, cos if he isn't very open or he doesn't know how far you're prepared to go, it can be difficult for him to say.

handjob, its the perfect thing if you dont want to go to far

quote:Originally posted by PSYCH0TIK:

I'm a virgin (and intend on staying that way for the moment), so how do I otherwise pleasure my boyfriend (other than a blow job)? I know he likes his ear sucked on...

offer him anal....that way you stay a virgin and he will be a happy bunny