Okay, here is my next lame question... same guy with the bad cum... He like it when I am on top, I swear I am not cordinated to do that, I can't pick up his rhythm, I just can't do it, He only wants to try it that way, like maybe I will get better or something? Any tips?

Okay, next time you are on top, right when you think he is about to cum, sock him in the ribs as hard as you can. Drop down and whisper into his ear, I don't like being on top.

He'll get the message.

Is it really a matter of coordination? First be sure you're comfortable in this position. If you're short of leg and/or if he's on the hefty side, it's much more difficult to maintain a good balance. If this might be the case, remedy this with a pillow on either side of him, to elevate your knees a bit.

On a cushy bed, you're fighting with the spring action, which doesn't always help. Try the floor.

Also, why is he setting the rhythm? He should let you establish the rhythm, and thrust accordingly.

I'm not sure how you're positioning yourself, but sometimes it's more difficult sitting straight up. Bend over and let your hands rest on his shoulders, or on the floor, for leverage.

If all else fails...practice, girl, practice!

Don't like the tast of his come and you two don't have good rhythm together.

Find someone else. That relationship is going no where.

Actually, I like Sol's advice. Nothing like a good rib-shot to tell him what to do

this is all a matter of practice. Just get a pattern stuck in your head and stick to it. If you have to, be a dork and put some music on, and go along with a rythmn thats already set...make sure the song has a good rythmn...nothing spastic, too slow, too fast etc.

quote:Originally posted by Sol463:

Okay, next time you are on top, right when you think he is about to cum, sock him in the ribs as hard as you can. Drop down and whisper into his ear, I don't like being on top.

He'll get the message.

yes do that, then ask yourself this question: was my little bitch punch worth swallowing my teeth?