Yeah, I know, I suck. I have never been kissed.

And uh, I'd appreciate it some people could give me some advice on the do's and don'ts of kissing. Thanks.

don't use too much tounge like u tryin to choke her and don't open your mouth like your eating a 1 foot sandwitch...really...theres not 'right' or 'wrong' way to kiss...jus do what feels good and don't over do it

Dude, you kind of do it by yourself. Just move your tongue around in the other person's mouth, you learn as you do it more.

Practice makes perfect.

~es

PS-how old are you, 11?

The best piece of advice you can get is really just go with it. Don't think about it and just let it happen. If you think to yourself, "oh no, am I doing it right?" then you're not. You aren't supposed to worry about whether you're doing it right or wrong, partly because there is no right or rong, and also it's supposed to be fun! Just go with it, and don't think too much. Unless you both have absolutely no fucking clue what you're doing, you should be fine.

Just go with the flow and do not think it through you will just fuck up in the end if you think about it. Also for you first kiss, don't kiss her at an angle (like while shes in your arms sitting on a couch) because it could turn out fucked the second girl I dated I went to make out with her for the first time(with this girl I had made out before) and I did this and it was horrible and I felt really bad. Also girls don't seem to think about it as much if a kiss is bad if its your first time(found out from her friend). So just never think shit through, go with the flow, and angled kisses from behind are harder then they look.

Dont think too much is great advice.

The amount of spit is a pet peeve to a lot of people. It takes time to learn, so dont expect to get it right the first time, but if you end with a river of drool, its not gone well. If you have to keep licking your lips to keep them wet, you need more. It just takes practice.

I dont really agree with the dont kiss on an angle. It's much easier to keep a kiss going if sat on a couch. If you just want a smooch, stand up, but if you want to make out, its worth sitting down. If you can avoid lying down, do. its akward.

Some hints for changing it up (at first dont think about it, but later its fun to change it up)....suck on her lower lip or on her tongue gently, it drives girls wild (well it drives me wild). Touch her with your hands. When you are making out allow your hands to wander. Don't be gross about it and grope her (at first at least). Just stroke her back and such. It makes you seem more interested.

quote:Originally posted by Evolution of A Saint:



PS-how old are you, 11?



Pfft, 17. Yeah, I'm one ugly son of a bitch.

I have taken several boys "lip virginity" Boys most often made mistake is going way to fast. Just slow down, don't wiggle your tongue like it is on fire, just go slow!!!

the best advice i can give you:

if you have ever "played" with someone's earlobe with your tongue and mouth...its like that. just replace the earlobe with their tongue and do the same thing...

hope it helps



~Nympho

From having kissed both guys and girls(many more girls than guys) and talking to many girls about kissing technique I have the following to say:

Don't think about it too much some of these people above with the angle talk and the sitting and standing are getting too technical about the wrong stuff.

On the first kiss and many after keep your tongue in your mouth.

When you do use the tongue, use it playfully gently and smoothly, don't try and get it all in her mouth and whip it around.

Keep your lips just as wide as hers, eating her face is not cool. To many guys are agressive, fast and want to eat the face.

Hold her face with your hand, or her hair (this is the deal maker) even on the first kiss if the passion is there do this. Wait first hold her hips then when it gets good, hug her firmly with one hand in the small of her back and the other across her upper back. Then carress her face.

My ex of two years couldn't kiss very well, she just wasn't into it. My current girlfriend is AMAZING!! She has big soft perfect lips that match mine well. She is so good we can't keep our lips off eachother.

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Man, The best way to practice is at a party. If you suck, blame on the booze.

quote:Originally posted by SilentKill:

Man, The best way to practice is at a party. If you suck, blame on the booze.



I wish it were that easy. I hate parties, and everytime I go to one I feel like stabbing to death each and every person there.

quote:Originally posted by Bromden:

I wish it were that easy. I hate parties, and everytime I go to one I feel like stabbing to death each and every person there.

Ah, same. Don't worry about it.

You seem like a nice guy, the laws of the universe say it will all come back to you one day. And when it does, I told you so.

quote:Originally posted by bexisevil:

Ah, same. Don't worry about it.

You seem like a nice guy, the laws of the universe say it will all come back to you one day. And when it does, I told you so.



That law only works if said nice guy is rich.

CINDY!!!!! help here. how many times have we gone over this? browse the 30 some pages of threads before you post!!!!

quote:Originally posted by bushy:

CINDY!!!!! help here. how many times have we gone over this? browse the 30 some pages of threads before you post!!!!

When people post helpful information, she doesn't need to re-post the same stuff.

Too bad she cannot delete a user from a forum...

I bet your not that ugly...some of the most attractive people i know lost there lip virginity at 18+. You haven't had the right opportunities. Tryptamine, i hope you are a man. Boys kissing boys is so sexy.

here is what you do, get really close like snuggling or something, then lick the side of her face, chicks really dig that

quote:Originally posted by HerpesRatbag:

here is what you do, get really close like snuggling or something, then lick the side of her face, chicks really dig that

That's really a matter a taste, I personally hate it when my boyfriend licks my cheek. Sucking the tongue is good. Don't forget to lean you head to one side a little bit so you don't crush your noses. And if you open up too wide to will hit teeth (funny, but not very romantic)

because it's too dry, right? you need lots of spit for lubrication, suck on a cough drop or something before hand so your mouth is full of saliva

quote:Originally posted by bexisevil:

Ah, same. Don't worry about it.

You seem like a nice guy, the laws of the universe say it will all come back to you one day. And when it does, I told you so.



Lol I thought its pretty funny how you quote him saying when he goes to a party he feels like stabbing everyone there and then you say he seems like a nice guy.

quote:Originally posted by AprenticeChemist:

Lol I thought its pretty funny how you quote him saying when he goes to a party he feels like stabbing everyone there and then you say he seems like a nice guy.

Yep. In cold alleys, late at night, I rape hobos. I've kissed a few dead bums, but it just doesn't feel quite right. What can I say, I'm a nice guy.

Yo tryptamine

I only use tongue, french kisses are the best!

How do you kiss someone without using tongue?

All those stupid movies have them moving their heads around like they're trying to do a dance or something...

I think you just relax your lips, she relaxes hers then you just open and close your mouth around the other persons?

I dunno, I'm guessing.

kissing happens to be awsome....if u do it right....so if its not awsome u kno ur doing something wrong.....and if u dont like parties maybe u should go to a concert, and u can blame it on the mary j.