last night i was at a party where i got very drunk, everyone was having a pretty good time. anyway i hooked up with this chick i know from school who wasn't tipsy at all, don't think she's even been with a guy before. god she was sexy that night.

but anyway before we got to kissing -like one hour after we started talking - she just broke off and said see you at school on monday and that was kinda it, she went off and talked to her friends. i became sober pretty damn quick when that happened, well it was more like a depressed drunk state. im just regretting that i was so drunk, and can't remember how it started. i remember just hugging all the girls there, probably being an idiot, and ending up with her. like i was having a great time but it's all pretty blurry and i wish it wasn't. i guess i'll find out tomorow exactly what happened from all the sober people. i'm usually a pretty quiet guy and i don't know what the fuck's gunna happen tomorrow. her friend said that she stopped hanging out with me coz i was drunk, she doesn't like one-night stands i guess, and that she thought i wouldn't wanna be with her after that.

god whats the point of this post, god im lame sometimes.

and from what i've gathered she doesn't like ppl who do drugs or anything, well i learned that doesn't mean alcohol, otherwise she wouldn't have been hitting on me the whole night. but yea im pretty stoned right now, and just generally anxious. i'm usually crap with girls, so tomorow's probably going to be a complete disaster, i'll be all nervous and won't know what to say. i wish you were allowed to be intoxicated at school, everything would be so much easier!

neway just thought i'd share that with ya, all flaming welcome, well not really. thanks for reading

-wack0

Well find her tomorrow and apologise.

Seriously...Apologise!

Say something along the lines of "Hey...Sorry if I said or did anything the other night that pissed you off...You left quite abruptly."

It starts off a conversation.

After that, the floor is yours, so to speak!

Good luck man.

you got 2 choices.

1)grovel

2) treat her like dirt.....some women like the "bad boys"

but whichever you choose it will be the wrong one...welcome to the adult world and the trying to second guess girls!

haha "whichever you choose it will be the wrong one".

well i'm off to school now, wish me luck

-wack0

ahh well that sucked. what do u guys think about hugging and shit at school, i just felt uneasy about it so i wasn't very affectionate to her. i don't really know if she likes me, i probly made it worse by not doing anything today. i guess ill just take her to the movies and see if she'll kiss me and go from there. its just at school theres so much peer pressure etc, its fucking annoying. im making excuses again...

btw what is the best kind of movie to take a girl to see, like horror?, or chick flicks? ppl say horror movies make them scared and want to hold on to u and stuff, but im thinking she will just not like the movie. and is it good if i get her friend/s to come along? thanks,

-wack0

EDIT: come on people, give me some advice here, help a noob out! btw im 16

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As far as the party goes, no girl worth having wants to be the one that hooked up with the drunk guy. If you don't continue to act foolish, she may eventually overlook your behavior that night.

Refrain from thinking too much about possible relationships, or anything important, while stoned. Having been a 10-year+ pothead, I know that one simply isn't capable of reasonable decision-making while stoned. Just watch Bullwinkle cartoons or write creatively.

As far as what you should do now..."be yourself" and invite her out, what the hell. If you feel like it, you might mention you'd like to show you're not always an idiot like you were when you were drunk. I suggest a lighthearted well-reviewed comedy, since they often put people in a good mood.

Hope things work out.

dont invite her friends

hmm... that really sucked. apparently she was playin me at the party, and never intended to go out with me. she decided to get her friend to tell me that AFTER i asked he to go to the movies. what a bitch. god im such a loser. any other losers here in this world? oh well at least when u don't have a girlfriend you can take lots of drugs and feel better than when your trying to impress her and suck at it. she just wants to be "friends". i mean fuck that. the only other girlfriend i had had a very similar personality. why do i want to go out with these emotionally unstable ppl. i've gotta find someone that actually WANTS to do something. who am i kidding, i've just gotta change myself, hmm what drugs would help me with that mabye speed, i sounds like so much fun. peace,

-wack0

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