I've been going out with a girl for 9 months and the most she's ever let me do is *almost* finger her. We're both 17 and in 11th grade. She's really into that whole Catholic bullshit thing and told me tonight that she is saving herself til marriage and won't do ANYTHING beyond 2nd base. I was crushed. Now i love this girl, but would u people go out with a girl if u KNEW she wouldn't come through for u? fuckin sucks mates.

if you really love her i don't think this would be an issue, but thats just my oppinion

I didn't read past the 4 or 5th line. What the fuck man? It's her beliefs if you're going to let that get in the way to get some pussy you are a sick son of a bitch. Then go bag some whore or something.

Thats how and who she is, I doubt that you'll be able to shake her beliefs on this. This was and is how she was brought up, if you were brought up like that I'm pretty sure you'd be the same way.

Go read this http://www.totse.com/bbs/Forum4/HTML/006678.html

Edit: Had to add the link.

[This message has been edited by Lazzaro (edited 03-14-2004).]

Fuck you for wanting to mess up one of the few "good girls" out there. There are so many whores, it's not funny. You should be happy she has will power and doesn't go along with what society says. Shes an independant thinker that does what she believes is best.

Break up with her because you don't fucking deserve a great girl like her.

Be thankfull shes not a slut.

"Come through for you"? You need to lower your expectations a little. She has as much right to go as far as she feels comfortable as you do to walk away if she's not going far enough to make you happy.

You decide whether her or random poon is more important.

quote:Originally posted by DeAtHsTyLe:

Shes an independant thinker that does what she believes is best.

HAHAHAHAHA! A Catholic, an "independent thinker", especially in sexual matters? Hoo-boy, that's a riot.

But, yeah, if you can't accept her ways, 'tis best to find someone more compatible.

Talk to her and say that you think sex is the next step in a relationship.

the type of girl you've got is the one you'll be wishing for again in the future when you've had your share of sluts and whores......then you'll be kicking yourself in the ass.......then again you guys are in high school.....respect her....and you guys are young....i had a lot of standpoints on subjects.....i used to be anti-drug, anti-sex before marriage, etc......as you grow you mature and you make learned decisions....if you really like her stay with her it will pay in the long run.......or just end it....and go find a slut......

quote:Originally posted by Shonkman:

......or just end it....and go find a slut......

Alternatively you could find a girl that has the same beliefs as you and work from there.

makes you look an areshole for trying to force your way on her and her beliefs out

quote:Originally posted by incubusattack5:

I've been going out with a girl for 9 months and the most she's ever let me do is *almost* finger her.

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!



quote:Originally posted by incubusattack5:

but would u people go out with a girl if u KNEW she wouldn't come through for u?

Or course not. Loser.

quote:Originally posted by Spiffy McBang:

You need to lower your expectations a little.

You decide whether her or random poon is more important.



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I have learned that Real Relationships arent based on sex. She sounds really nice but if you cant live with out sex cheat on her, I guarntee she'll find out and then you wont have to break up with her. If you really cant stay with her break up with her, but thats fucked up if your breaking up with her because of what she believes.

haha!

~~&lt;jay&gt;~~

while your girlfriend is a piece of shit, you also have to face reality. ive already accepted that i will never find a girl whos more sexual than me. you just have to get over it and realize that douche bags teach and train women to think they have a golden pussy between their legs that is to be guarded like fort knox.

Good point, Cindy, catholics are very sexually inhibited. Most don't masturbate, and I have never been with one, but I heard they only use missionary position. Dude, unless you want to be doomed to boring sex with this girl, dump her, and find a normal person, thats not catholic. Thats right, I said it, catholics are not fucking normal. Freaks.

^ ARGH!!!! You cant say that marrying/being with a catholic is dooming yourself to boring sex. Now I am not sticking up for Catholics or anything, but you cant determine someones future sexual attitude by religion. I was raised Catholic and NEVER ONCE was told that missionary position is the only way to go!

You are sitting here telling us that Catholics are freaks and sexually inhibited, but darlin, I invite you to come and live in the deep south. Like out where 4H clubs and rodeo clubs actually have memebers south. You are in the bible bely, meet the southern Baptists. If you want to talk about people who sexually inhibit their children and are known for abstainance until marriage, talk Southern Baptists. School will teach you that sex before marraige will condem you for life, rather than safe sex (but I'm not going to start on that, or this could go on for a long time).

But in reply to the original topic, if you think of leaving her in order to get sex, you don't love this girl. If you try to change her, you have no respect for her whatsoever. If you want to go out and have sex and all that shit, leave this girl now, or you are going to end up hurting her later. You are in 11th grade. You need to ask yourself "How much do I like this girl?" If you can see yourself marrying the girl (your in 11th grade...i doubt it), then decide if it's worth no sex. If you can't see the relationship going much further, just end it.

Here's some friendly high school advice...if you are going to break up with her, I advise you to cheat on her etc. or wait it out. If you break up with her a week after you find out you cant fuck her, she'll know whats up and she'll tell folks whats up. You will get a terrible reputation and will not find another girl who isn't a slut for a while.

see Im not the only one who said to cheat on her!!! HAHAHA. I dont think people should try to find a gf/bf in highschool.

OMFG * I just realized that its 3 pm and i have been walking around with my zipper down all day** FUCK

Alright...In my time on totse i've given more than my fair share of advice based on what i've learned...So listen to this...

And listen good...Sex is natural...Lack of sex is UNnatural.

My advice would be to go out...Find yourself another girl in another town that doesn't know your girlfriend and do as you please to get your sexual fill.

If by some way she finds out then fuck it man...Just straight up tell her that you love her but lack of sex was something you couldn't handle so you had to get it elsewhere...If she has half a brain she will probaly understand...What it boils down to is...Keep your relationship with her going and love her but be sure to get that pie on the side.

SH-out

cheat on her with her best friend. thats the best idea yet.

I hate those prude chatholic bitches, ditch her.

Damn cathlics. Zionists

Sublimal messages with broad sexual insinuations will get you far. Try it. Does she like music? Use some backmasking. You talking dirty and backwards.

Knew this girl, she was a prude too. After awhile, she turned into a slut. She wanted to stay with the guy so much that she just gave it all to him. He left.

And theres another girl, her boyfriend is cheating on her with my sister. The entire school knows, and she thinks she has her boyfriend by the balls.

Whats the point? Some relationships are all about sex, some of them are about other things. I think most of them are about sex. Platonic relationships are a thing that I haven't had much experience in.

Well if you loved her then the sex part wouldn't be so much of an issue. And to who ever said shes an independent thinker thanks for the laugh religion and independent thinking together thats a funny thought. And id just say if you don't think you can just accept youll only be at 2nd base then dump her because its not worth the time if shes that devote to her religion your going to be spending alot of time trying to convert her with more then likly no success. And if I would because I had a girl I loved and I didn't even think id get past 1st base but still was ready to spend the rest of my life with her because I LOVED her, IMO if you love someone then sex shouldn't matter.

Not so much prude as too set in her ways. If she doesn't want to fuck that's up to her but I wouldn't stick around.

Just let me say this: I'm Catholic, born and raised.

I was also a heavy drug abuser, and I've had a lot of sex throughout life with women I'm (obviously) not married to, and I've done just about every dirty, taboo thing you can imagine, after being with 17 girls and being sexually-active for 9 years (I started a bit late in the game, but still had, and am still having, a great time in college/school).

My point? Just because someone comes from a certain religious background doesn't mean they all adhere to it.

Girls: I'm Catholic, large-dicked and will certainly be one of your more memorable fucks. I love Jesus, too!!

-Infrared

If I had pants on, I'd shit them.

Well, since she is a catholic and you want teh 1337 pu55y, you better drop that zero and get a hero, or should i say, heroine. No Infrared, not heroin, heroine

if you love her so much why don't you just marry her