When i saw Partyondudes thread, I thought it was totally ironic i stumbled upon it because I'm dealing with the troubles of a 16 year old girlfriend.

She is the biggest emotional rollercoaster i ever got involved with. The only problem is that I am deeply rooted in love with her. I will do absolutely anything for her, and have even attempted the long haul of quitting drugs, which I am still in the throes of.

To the point...Just 2 days ago, my girlfriend, Briana, told me that she didn't want me to care for her, or even to love her....although she blatantly stated she loved me and didn't want me to think that is was because of her not loving me. We have been going out for almost 8 months now, and I even proposed to her 2 months ago, and she said yes, and was all happy about it. We planned on a long engagement so as to not rush into marriage.

She's manic depressed, and bi-polar, so it could just be that fact that she doesnt want to talk to me....but i Feel its much more than that...I also think its because this is the month that her father passed away from a drug OD...and thats why she wanted me to quit drugs...which I am...and she knows it...so what the fuck is her deal? I'm sick of putting up with her emotions and her not even considering mine...I'm not selfish, I just want to be felt...I do absolutely everything and conform for her....WTF man?

Dude, how old are you? 16, and already planning on marriage? jesus.... And just tell her how you feel then, don't bitch about it to us. That's what I did, instead of asking other people about what to do, I asked her. But then again, look where I ended up.

Teenage years are for growing, learning and discovering. Not for making lifetime decisions! Honestly, you're no more qualified than she is in making judgements about what's best for you at this point in your life. Assuming you're also 16, consider 5 years ago, when you were 11. Have you grown (mentally, emotionally, intellectually) since then? Of course you have. In the next 5 years, you'll grow exponentially more.

Everything you said and experienced is "about right" for the circumstances. No one "failed", it's just teenage life and the concomitant extremes of emotions.

Remember what Milhouse Van Houten said about his girlfriend..."We started out like Romeo and Juliet but ended in tragedy." I love that quote and use it often 'cause it accurately conveys both the naivete and poignancy of young love.

beautiful

I am 18, and I am not marrying her during our teenage years....its going to be well after I graduate college...I just asked her to be with me forever, you might say its a promise, not an engagement. See I already asked her about what's going on and she's shying away from saying anything...sying she doesn't know she's just emotionally falling apart, and doesn't want my help, just wants to deal with it herself. I am afraid to let her though, because she's a cutter and I feel I could help her by listening to her...but she obviously doesnt want to talk to me...fuck it i guess...I'm not letting it hurt me that bad, its just my worries for her...

Her dad just passed away from an OD? And you're wondering why she's an emotional timebomb?

Damn.

~es

Damn...i seem to be leaving alot of things out...no, her father died 4 years ago....from a heroin overdose

and i could tell it is about her father a little bit, because my little brother called her and asked her if she was going to come out for Spring Break still, and she said no because Spring Break is the worst time of year, and she was just going to stay in bed all week...

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

..."We started out like Romeo and Juliet but ended in tragedy."...



Wait, Romeo and Juliet ended in tragity as well... Why the "but"?

That was the punchline, see how funny the simpsons really is?

quote:Originally posted by Oxy-Moron:

That was the punchline, see how funny the simpsons really is?

Oh, so the "is" where an "are" should be is also a punchline? (gah, this human humor thing is too much work, I'm going to go reboot, my processor herts [now that is a punchline].)

[This message has been edited by Guswut (edited 03-13-2004).]

I have 3 things to say.

1. You're pussy whipped. Hah.

2. Why the hell would you want to get into a relationship with a trainwreck?

3. Maybe she's being a mental case because SHE'S ONLY 16 and you sucked her into this crazy long term "engagement/promise" thing. You fucking idiot. Sorry, that was harsh but... actually no, you're a fucking idiot.

Are you thick? She's BIPOLAR. She knows she's hurting the shit out of you and she wants to not to have to hurt you.

Now if you can't understand that and think she's selfish when she has a serious mental disorder, maybe you're the selfish one? She can't just wake up and get over it. Sheesh.

quote:Originally posted by Guswut:

Oh, so the "is" where an "are" should be is also a punchline? (gah, this human humor thing is too much work, I'm going to go reboot, my processor herts [now that is a punchline].)

[This message has been edited by Guswut (edited 03-13-2004).]

"Is" is the correct verb because he is talking about a single show not a group of people.

I hate it when people make incorrect corrections.

quote:Originally posted by DeAtHsTyLe:

"Is" is the correct verb because he is talking about a single show not a group of people.

I hate it when people make incorrect corrections.

No shit, re-read my post, and try to understand how that "incorrect correction" was my point (it has to do with the original statement, the word "but", and a bit of thinking).

you're probably right...so im not going to fret that much about it anymore...whatever happens , does for a reason.

Fuck It...

quote:Originally posted by Guswut:

No shit, re-read my post, and try to understand how that "incorrect correction" was my point (it has to do with the original statement, the word "but", and a bit of thinking).

Don't you see, I put together all of the statements and created the ultimate punchline.

quote:Originally posted by DeAtHsTyLe:

Don't you see, I put together all of the statements and created the ultimate punchline.



A winner is you!

stop with the 16 year old emotional girl bullshit, this is the fourth post on 2 days... god! noone cares about you so go die!

~~<jay>~~

heres the good news though. by the time they grow out of being spastic, theyve become ugly and boring. lovely set of options isnt it?

quote:Originally posted by Toke420:

stop with the 16 year old emotional girl bullshit, this is the fourth post on 2 days... god! noone cares about you so go die!

~~<jay>~~

jays right....if ur having that much trouble with your chicks find other chicks to be with...Duh

quote:Originally posted by Elton John:

jays right....if ur having that much trouble with your chicks find other chicks to be with...Duh

Thank you Elton...

~~<jay>~~

[This message has been edited by Toke420 (edited 03-16-2004).]

dont get married, youll just get divorced. People cahnge so much between 16 and 25. You dont really know who the person is going to be liek foreever till mid 20's

Thanks for all of your input....I've already had a change of heart because of this thread, and if it calls for me to move on...then so fuckin' be it 8), I'm ready for a new chick anyway if it calls for it! I think it was just because i was caring too much for her, and trying to do shit for her...and she's not used to it. Just hand me a spliff now please!

dumped the bitch she probably fucked some other dude, and feels all bad about it.

amen to that last one. evan with mental disorders she jus sounds like she gt sumone else nd she cant tell u, cos uve trapped her with ur promise thing (Wtf were u thinkin she ws 14 nd u 16??)