Last night I finally got up the courage to ask out a girl that I had been thinkin about askin. We spent a couple hours as bf and gf, but we didn't really do anything outta the ordinary. No holding hands, no hugging (i was gonna, but at the end of the night her parents were there).

I am very unexpeirienced with relationships. We'll be hangin out sometime next week, does anybody have any hints on how i can take a step forward in the relationship.

also, she's a freshman and im a senior, and everybodies givin me crap about it, am i wrong to do this?

How old are you guys? I think that it might be a bit much of an age difference. Whatever floats your boat though.

My advice for you is to be confident. Confidence will get you almost anything you want from almost any woman, or man. When you do make a move, be sure about yourself, otherwise, she will blow you off.



Took me a long time to learn that. Acutally just figured it out the other day. haha

Don't be forceful, or too aggressive, or it will be a turn off. Women love to be swept off their feet. Get her a small gift, some candy or something she likes, then after you give it to her, grab her up real fast, hold her tight, and give her very passionate kiss, while using your hands to hold, rub, and squeeze her.

She will love it. or slap you. hehe.

quote:Originally posted by ohya?, wellseeabouthat:

Last night I finally got up the courage to ask out a girl that I had been thinkin about askin. We spent a couple hours as bf and gf, but we didn't really do anything outta the ordinary. No holding hands, no hugging (i was gonna, but at the end of the night her parents were there).

I am very unexpeirienced with relationships. We'll be hangin out sometime next week, does anybody have any hints on how i can take a step forward in the relationship.

also, she's a freshman and im a senior, and everybodies givin me crap about it, am i wrong to do this?



umm im a senior and i had a freshman gf last month, its not a big deal except that shes probably way to inmature. you should date someone your own age, unless your also inmature. how old is she?

i am 18 and i fucked a 15 year old. no one gave me shit. everyone knew.

I SUGEST YOU DUMP HER and find someone your age.



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Yeah, but when they are young, you can train them to do whatever you want. They don't have any hangups (unless they are stupid, and closed minded) because the have no experience.

actually the only reason i considered askin her out is cuz she's incredibly mature. She doesn't even look like a freshman.

You didn't go for a hug? What the hell that is the least sexual thing to do. You're just weird as hell, and if you're afraid to hug someone in front of their parents, think of what you'd be afraid of doing in the privacy of just you two.

Find someone your maturity level in dating.

her mom is a crazy bitch, and both her younger sisters were with us

and she's just as unexpeirienced as i am.

belive me, i did plan on huggin her.

The important part isn't what i did, its what i should do next time i see her

You should've hugged her and at least kissed her you fuckin pussy. You're a waste of time. What's her mom gonna do? "Don't touch my daughter or I'll call the police!" If her fuckin mom is that crazy then dump that bitch.

yeah yeah yeah, I thought my ex gf was overly mature. it turns out shes just a psycotic 15 year old with a gruge twards everyone.

hey, lovemetal666

metal sucks, trust me, it does. Maybe you'll figure that out someday

You avoid a very valid point with a lame attack on a genre of music?

...Pathetic fridget bastard

please kill your self right now.... your a senior and u didnt hug her? wats wrong with u? do the world a favor and blow your brains out

Anybody who measures their time with someone as boyfriend/girlfriend in hours is either relating a very odd story or has a hell of a lot to learn.

As of yet, this is not terribly interesting.

I would go so far as to say you're at a level where advice would do you little good because you have absolutely no knowledge on which to build. You have to get some practical experience in spending time with a girl first. Just go out, do whatever, see how it goes, and if you have any specific questions, come back.