Anyway, I'll start this damn rant by telling you all the tale of my encounter with a 16 year old female, my first actual "girlfriend".

Anyway, I'm 15, and at a new years party some 2 odd months ago, catch myself drunkenly flirting with this girl that I've known for a few years just from around school, but never really actually known personally. So long story short, we end up making out like... well, a couple of teenagers, at the stroke of midnight.

The next week was rather awkward between us, but she threw a party at her house that weekend, and invited me. Intrigued, I attended, and proceeded to become the drunkest I've ever been in my young life. We chatted and decided we would get to know eachother a bit more then see where that gos.

For the next couple weeks, we hang out and get to know one another, and on weekends, we keep going to the same house partys, and keep going to some bedroom to mess around (sometimes drunk, sometimes not). Her friends told me that I should take it slow because I'm the first guy she's ever been with, even the first guy she's ever kissed, I'm into her enough to realize that I'm not just in it for the poon-tang.

One time we're at some party messing around, she's pretty tipsy, and she says to me "hey partyondudes, put your hand here" and slides it inbetween her legs. I, although also drunk, decline her offer. I respond with "_____, I dont think thats a good idea, because I could see you regretting doing that when you're sober. I'm a guy, and I'm not going to deny that I dont want to, but I'm not going to let us hooking up drunk, and fuck up something nice that we already have."

Then on valentines day I make her this kick ass homemade card that I put copious amounts of effort into, and we decide that were going to start officially "going out". I am obviously a great guy what with turning down pussy from her and making the sweet damn card.

So anyway, we're getting pretty intense, and moving on to last weekend, we're in her room having a crazy make out session. I end up going down her pants for a finger and taking off her shirt, sucking/kissing her breasts etc. before I went down her pants I asked her if she would be OK with it and she said she would. Then we talked about it later this past week, and she said she was totally comfortable with it.

then, today, she dumps my sorry ass out of nowhere. We werent fighting, I was giving her lots of space, and she just said to me right after I had a fat test in history that I was all stressing about, "partyondudes, I think we should take a break from going out for a while, and just be friends".

I didn't bother asking her why she dumped my ass, but I figured there is no reason. I am the perfect boyfriend. even her friends told me she doesnt have a damn reason. But somehow she either didnt like me last weekend, when she practically told me to go down her damn pants, or, liked me then, but somehow her feelings changed so much over the week that she dumped my ass. I will also add that I gave her lots of space over the week, I only saw her twice and they were breif encounters. Then when I go for a longer encounter today she dumps my sorry ass.

Whatever, that brings me to my goddam conclusion. Stay away from 16 year old girls. They are a fucking emotional, moody nightmare. I had heard this advice before, and picked one that seemed like she had a grip on her shit, but look what happened to me. Just stay away.

Maybe you were going too slow gor her?? She might have been really horny and just wanted a fuck.

Amen. There isn't an emotionally-stable 16 year old female out there, I'm sorry to say.

Bad luck man , isay if you really like her then give it a week then call her and see whats going on with this bitch.

Hey, maybe parts of her liked you "too much".

How easy would it be to go too far too fast?

Nature (& what a Dirty Girl She be) is

already slipping you more weird hormones, when your just sitting all by your self. What

about when you're with someone you (or she) is attracted too, then you're getting a lot more weird hormones than you the ones you already find hard to handle.

Which is (?) to make brand new, state of the art kids. Hey, to a 2yr. old...yer getting over the hill.

More than one GPA 3.9, has had a kid & skipped U. let alone, others who've over heated. :?

You should have fucked her, you wouldnt be half as upset now...

Now seriously thats happened to me before, after a few months you find out the real reason she dumped ,

I mean i got dumped "because she wasnt ready for a relationship"... about 2 o 3 months later i found out while argueing with her (about something completely different, we was over that) that the reason she dumped actually had to do with some of my drug habits, which she didnt exactly like... Why didnt she tell me that at the time?, we will never know, she had to lie and say, "i wasnt ready for a relationship".... o well...

Maybe thats because...she was 16 too which she actually was at the time...

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Dude...It's not just 16 year olds...It's every damn woman!

My girlfriend phoned me today and told me she couldn't trust me and it was over...For looking at her phone!

It doesn't matter that my phone is about as sacred as the yellow pages to her but the moment I look at her phone she tells me I can't be trusted and dumps me!

What the fuck?!?!

quote: Stay away from 16 year old girls. They are a fucking emotional, moody nightmare.

Truth.

I have been trying to tell people this for some time.

wow... 16 year olds are very unstable

as of last night, i am dating a 16 year old, as you like to call them....shes amazing, she dosent belive in "love" and neither do i... so thats good, were only gunna last about 4 - 6 months because, well its hard to eplain, but she never dates a guy for longer than that...shes still a virgin, which is pretty cool...so i guesse that the end of the story, o yea, weve known eachother for about 7 months and i think she amazingly beautiful

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It might have been because of my drug habits, actually. I had a 66 day streak going of not smoking pot, and I broke it last saturday, and she came to see me when I was baked, but she didnt seem upset and we still messed around. (holy shit, necking when your high is the best). I asked her if she was upset, and she said she wasnt, and told me that she was going to cuba and would pick me up some cigars. But she's not going to cuba for a couple months. so I don't know... that's some really confusing mind game bullshit.

I think tonight I'm going to do something with this girl thats been wanting me for a long time, but I avoided her because I was taken. I bet I'll get some pussalata tonight. Also, I want to get really drunk, but maybe I'll do that tommorow night. Luckily I have some good platonic female friends so I can cry on their shoulder instead of my on my male friends shoulders.

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all I can say is im 18 and i have learned my lesson twice. Dont date younger they dont know what they want and are overly in mature. i d say id date anyone from 18 to 25 but anything over 23 i would have to get to know them first.

Older girls are more experienced have goals and can still have fun.

quote:Originally posted by partyondudes:

I didn't bother asking her why she dumped my ass, but I figured there is no reason. I am the perfect boyfriend. even her friends told me she doesnt have a damn reason.

Heh, you got enough sunshine and empathy from other posters so I'll dish out the tough love.

This is your first gf. No offense, but you haven't the slightest idea what you're doing yet. You're learning.

Mistakes so far: 1. you made asusmptions and admittedly didn't even bother to ask why things went south. She may have taken that for indifference, like you didn't care, so she didn't bother explaining either.

2. You claimed "I am the perfect boyfriend." Hahahaha. Everyone has room for improvement and most are blind to their own faults.

3. You listened to other people's opinions instead of going to the source. People are more inclined to blow sunshine up your ass instead of telling you something straight up. No one wants to deal with someone who's pissed off and doesn't want to hear the truth.

Maybe the drug thing has something to do with it, maybe not. Unless she was stoned too, the makeout session might have been fun for you but annoying for her. But unless you talk to her, you really don't know what's what and are again making assumptions.

Sure, 16-year old girls (AND guys) are immature and capricious, no matter how "grown up" they think they are. But I don't think that alone accounts for recent events in your life.

quote:Originally posted by Infrared:

Amen. There isn't an emotionally-stable 16 year old female out there, I'm sorry to say.



*ahem*

Hello.

Cindy, although I will admit that when I read your post, I was denying it, it was true for the most part. Actually, now that I think about it, for the whole part. I guess I am just upset because I tried to make the whole thing work, and out of nowhere get dumped on my ass. I took doctor phils advice, what with the always communicating with her and letting her know how I felt, and I don't really think she did the same, because she never brought any problems up with me. and I really shouldn't complain, but what the hell, I am anyway.

partyondudes, life is a game..you have to roll the dice again sometimes.

quote:Originally posted by psycho_8b:

Dude...It's not just 16 year olds...It's every damn woman!

Sort of makes me wish I was born a girl so I could fuck with people's lives to such a extreme.

quote:Originally posted by guernica:



*ahem*

Hello.





See!! Constant need for validation!

quote:Originally posted by Oxy-Moron:



See!! Constant need for validation!

Dumbass.

16 year olds get bored. So do most people.

quote:Originally posted by partyondudes:



Anyway, I'm 15, and at a new years party some 2 odd months ago, catch myself drunkenly flirting)

quote:Originally posted by partyondudes:

It might have been because of my drug habits, actually. I had a 66 day streak going of not smoking pot, and I broke it last saturday,...

I think tonight I'm going to do something with this girl thats been wanting me for a long time, but I avoided her because I was taken. I bet I'll get some pussalata tonight. Also, I want to get really drunk, but maybe I'll do that tommorow night. Luckily I have some good platonic female friends so I can cry on their shoulder instead of my on my male friends shoulders.

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Does this sound like bullshit to anyone else ?

I think you're posting this to sound "kewl" because you have no life and spend your days jacking off while watching the evening news.

"I think you're posting this to sound "kewl" because you have no life and spend your days jacking off while watching the evening news."

alright, even though i have been a member of totse for around two years, and im just talking bullshit, wasting my time on all that posting...

quote:Originally posted by guernica:



*ahem*

Hello.





Whoa, whoa, don't go crazy on me, now...>hands you a couple Xanax<

I kid, I kid.

You know I love ya. And I do apologize for the rash generalization; call it a sudden burst of sympathy for the poster that made me say that. I've just had bad experiences with 16 year olds, as well (No, I'm not a pedo; I'm talking when I was 16-18 along with the girls). Having said that, does an older man like me turn you on?

-Infrared

PS:

quote:Originally posted by guernica:



*ahem*

Hello.



And did you clean out the stable, like you were supposed to? Or were you completely ...

unstable all day long?

quote:Originally posted by Infrared:

Amen. There isn't an emotionally-stable 16 year old female out there, I'm sorry to say.



quote:Originally posted by guernica:



*ahem*

Hello.



I would like to think that I'm emotionally stable too. We all have our days though

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quote:Originally posted by FoodforThought:

We all have our days though



It's the day that you've just bought a new knife set that worries me.

quote:Originally posted by moonmeister:

And did you clean out the stable, like you were supposed to? Or were you completely ...

unstable all day long?



... That doesn't even make sense.

And Infra, yeah I know most 16 year old girls are completely insane and overdramatic and blah blah blah. Which is why I tend to avoid them at all costs. As should everyone else. All the crazy ones should be sent to some isolated island so they get decrazified and then they can come back and the world is a better place. Hmm, being uber hungover makes my brain work good-like...

Yes i know about 16 year old girls.

Shocking but i had something similar happen to me...

Well to put it simple my ex gf and i were together as friends since she was 12 and i was 13 and then when she was 14 and i was 15 we became gf/bf.

Well just after her 16th birthday about two months after it she just stops talking to me...Just basically...Stops being my girlfriend...Cuts off all communication with me...What happens to most girls at the age of 16?...It's simple...They become bitches.

quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:

It's the day that you've just bought a new knife set that worries me.

Well, if no one pissed me off, then I wouldn't have need for it then. And, yea alot of them are crazy. A lot of them over dramatize it though, I can see my little sister is going to be one of them. Thankfully I will be gone by then