heres the scenario i met this chick a few weeks ago and she likes me(alot), ok shes a hottie and shes pretty nice and all but she can be a lil to clingy at times and she can be a lil bossy sometimes. we will call her girl 1

now lets talk about girl 2, shes also a hottie with a big crush on me (realy big) shes got a nice personality and is realy nice, i met her about a month b4 girl1 and have been good freinds since then.

heres the problem i kinda started going out with girl 1 not thinking much becuase about it becuase girl 2 had a boyfreind at the time, now a week after i started going out with girl 1, girl 2's boyfreind goes and screws some other chick and so girl 2 dumps him. i went roller sk8ing saturday and girl 2 was there but girl 1 wasnt that was when i learned girl 2 dumbed her bf. i was sitting at the snack bar minding my own busness and girl comes up to me and takes my hand and syas "come dance with me please" so i seeing no harm in it go ahead and dance a slow dance with her(i prolly shouldnt have) anyways after the song she said thanks and walked away i dont know what was going on in her head but now im told she "realy realy realy realy realy likes me" exact words from a female freind who keeps telling me to go to girl 2's house but im not sure what to do i like girl 2 a lil more than girl 1 but im already going out with girl 1 so what do i do? girl 1 is 14 girl 2 is 16 and im 15 and confused

Obviously you should go with your heart. Girl1 (I'll call her Vicki) is a control freak. She will try to manipulate you and dominate the relationship. Girl 2 (I'll call her Lori) seems to know what she wants and goes after it without putting up false pretenses.

Get rid of Vicki, you obviously like Lori more but are not sure how to break it off with Vicki, right?

Whichever way you go, be cool about how you dump the other... it's not nice to hurt people's feelings.

-Extant

yea i know its not nice to break fealing and i hate breaking fealings its just yea ur right i should dump girl 1 and go with girl 2 but i just cant seem to get up the courage to dump her (its bean said that the most dangeres thing is a womans anger) i just dont know what to do

Let girl 1 break up with you and go after girl 2

Ways to make girl 1 break up with you: tell her you don't shower: um tell her you have an STD: um tell her your not sure if you like girls younger than you so it's better if you guys are just friends!!

not shower? lol, std no way thers already enough rumours about me going around, the age thing dosnt sound so bad tho thanks somthing to ponder about doing.

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At 15 you have the freedom not to make commitments, and with your capriciousness and indecision, you probably ought not. Date them both. Likely one of two things will happen: one will force you to make a choice; naturally, this is the one who should be dumped. Or you'll eventually figure which one you like better.

yea date them both get the reputation of being a player and be hated by my 19 year old sis who can benchpress 300 pounds and threatend to beat the shit outa me if i was playin around. real smart

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Yea don't date both of them because if they found out you were dating another girl at the same time you'd more then likly loose both and then your fucked(well more like not fucked). And cheating isn't cool because you could hurt someones feelings and get hurt yourself(phsyically) I know if someone was going out with a friend of mine thats a girl and cheated id proboly kick thier ass for the girl. Just do what ever you feel is right and the age thing should work but maybe you could try a different thing like make something up about it just not working.

i agree with u about me getting physically hurt. i was ready to kick girls 2's ex when i heard what he did becuase thats just wrong

quote:Originally posted by dark0vampire0:

yea date them both get the reputation of being a player and be hated by my 19 year old sis who can benchpress 300 pounds and threatend to beat the shit outa me if i was playin around. real smart

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i laughed so hard when i read this...



WATCH OUT FOR THE GORILLA WOMAN SHE IS COMING TO EAT YOU

Dump them both and hold out for the real thing.

date the older one, when under 18 (the girls) always do that, cause the younger they are, the more mood changin cheatin lyin bitchin bitches they are

(yes this was a generalization wich does not count for ALL girls under 18, just most of 'm)