Okay, i'm not complaining about the sex- even though it's kinda centred on his pleasure, but dammit how do i get him to go down on me. I've hinted, and suggested, but he'll laugh and just kiss me or something. Not being up myself here, but i'm getting sick of this and i'm pretty sure i could find i guy that will. but can anyone give advice on this for now? Please.....

Just ask him. Though you might feel embarassed, he will comply especially if you offer him "sexual pleasure" in return.

He could be uncomfortable or inexperienced in doing it. Maybe had a bad experience with a rank cootch. If he's never been there then my guess is he's not sure what to do. None of us were the first time. But it comes natural when it's staring you in the face.

I'd recommend talking to him about it. Start of the conversation lightly, maybe telling him you don't want to embarass him or make him uncomfortable but you want to talk about.... and see how he reacts.

My personal experience is if 'she' doesn't trim her pubes (if needed), then her personal hygiene is on the level of someone who isn't too concerned.

Hope it works out!

-Extant

DUMP HIM. YOur boyfrined sucks. I love gibving head to my gfs. OMG its so much fun to see that expression on there face when you hit that spot. WOW, the crazy thing is if i could have a friend just a friend who would let me do that to them, i dont want anything more than a pat on the head.

shave, you tarzan woman.

Yea you should shave and be sure to clean it if you do want him to go down on you again if he does. My first gf had a nasty smelling cunt and didn't shave so it was nasty and after like 30seconds I was like fuck this(we only went out for sexual reasons so I didn't care) and just fingered her but it was still kinda nasty. And you should just come out and ask him if hinting isn't working but do it lightly.

Some guys just don't, won't or can't do it. As long as your guy is getting hs pleasure without having to return the favor, absolutely nothing will make him change his mind. You could say "no cunnilingus, no sex for you" but that's like cutting off your nose to spite your face. Thus, I'm with bushy...dump his ass and find someone else.

Don't even bother to ask. If he hasn't done it on his own free will yet, he isnt going to.

All men should be good at eating pussy. Obviously your boyfriend is not... Otherwise he would have already. So get rid of him.

Well maybe the reason he hasn't gone down on her is because he is afraid he will fuck up or maybe he has never done that and is afraid he won't know how.

WASH YOSELF!!!!

no hes not going to. like Cindy said if he gets what he wants hes not going to. maybe if you like nibbled rather hars on his penis he would ( draw a little blood) that will teach him, OMG IF A GIRL COULD BITE MY PENIS AND DRAW BLOOD WITH OUT THAT MUCH PAIN I would marry her.

Can I ask what your ages are? If he doesn't know what to do then he's probably embarrassed about it...if you know what's involved then explain it to him...

You could always refuse his pleasure until he agrees to go down on you...

Have you slept with a lot of people previous to him? If I think a girl has been around in the slightest I won't go down on her to save my life.

i agree with extant, he's probably unsure of what to do, oral sex can terrify people if they've never done it.

don't bother asking, if you hinted, then you don't need to say more, when do you ever need to ask a young hormonal guy to go down on you?

if you wait, he'll get around to trying it, because he'll know and trust you well enough not to feel in the spotlight.

Shaving actually does help, i suggest only trimming it on top, but actually shaving it smooth between the legs and around the vagina so that on first impression, it doesn't look shaved.

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

Some guys just don't, won't or can't do it...

And these guys are call "pussy bitches".

It's not because he's "unexperienced", it's not because you have a dank/hairy/unsightly pussy. He is just a pussy bitch. Kick his ass to the curb.

ok, what i don't understand is, he'll fuck you but he won't go down on you??? WHAT IN THE HELL??? that almost absolutely doesn't make sense ... agree with little pea, he's a pussy bitch and should be kicked to the curb (nicely of course ) *note sarcasm*

My guess is he's not a pussy, he's an asshole. Cindy's right. Maybe he's insecure about his ability to pleasure a girl orally, but even taking that into consideration I doubt it's the main reason he won't do it. He's absurdly selfish, and deserves das boot for it.

Ah I remember this well!

I met this hot James Bond girl looking girl a few years ago. She was seeing someone at the time, but I didn't know that. The first time we were naked together I kissed her and then sucked her big titties, and then went further down and started eating her incredibly sweet snatch.

As I started licking her pussy and tonguing her hole, and even drawing rings around her asshole with my tongue.

As I was eating her pussy she said, "Ah, this feels so good. The other guy I've been seeing won't do this." I said, "Well, I do, so you just lay back and enjoy."

I ate her to a a nice strong orgasm!!

She broke up with the other guy the next day!!!

as pointed out before, dump him, more than enough men around, and loads of them probably nicer, better in bed, and more willing to do anything you would want than this guy

quote:Originally posted by AprenticeChemist:

My first gf had a nasty smelling cunt

how true- all blow up dolls smell of plastic to start with(so i am told).

come on people, here is a guy who calls his penis a "wee wee"!!!

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

how true- all blow up dolls smell of plastic to start with(so i am told).

come on people, here is a guy who calls his penis a "wee wee"!!!



OK maybe your to stupid to realize that was a JOKE dumb shit. I mean who would really say wee wee besides a two year old and not mean it as a joke notice how I also said something along the lines of big floppy vagina so obviously it was a joke. Damn man I swear some people on this forum and dumb as rocks they don't know the difference between joking and being serious.

maybe he actually doesn't think you serious.

if you do get him to do it find out if he likes shaved and for god sake have a shower before you ask. He is never going to go down on you again if your pussy taste like ass.

Anyone and everyone should know how to do it... it's like a human instinct for many people(that is if they enjoy going down on girls). If he has any problem going down on you either it's you or it's that he thinks you've got a nasty cootch.

A lot of you people are retarded.

There are plenty of bitches I would fuck, but never even think of eating their pussy. Some don't deserve it, some are too dirty, and some just aren't worth the extra effort.

Tell him the only way he gets any beaver is if he eats it.Make sure Ward and June arent home

how about instead of the negative, you use the positive. tell him if he goes down on you he can fuck you in the ass, toss you off the bed, then fuck your mother, sister and best friend. that way he does something he doesnt want to do and you do something you dont want to do.

So...that's 5 asshat things she doesn't want to do versus one simple thing he doesn't want to do. I suppose it's logical, considering she's just a dumb bitch and he's da man.

Dumping his ass is more efficient. That way neither has to do what they don't want to do.

omg u w ant him to lick between ur legs,HOW GRoSS :eeek: and then ppl complain about him wanting her ass omg omg ur like so much hypocritis....... !!!!!!!!

dont go down on him until he does the same for you. if he wont, get rid of him.

he is selfish.

bah!

Wash and make sure it doesnt smell like fish. Also make sure you dont have crabs, just imagine him lickin you out and little crabs jumping around and stuff in front of his eyes, that woulnt be nice would it?