Man. This really sucks, i love this girl. I talk to her almost every other night, and we'll talk for hours stright. But befor i told her how i felt about her she was like all cool and flirty. She still is but not as much and sometimes i get the feelin she doesnt like me.

I wouldnt mind some advice. But the think that sucks the most is like when my friends flirt with her it is the worst feelin in the world, except the fact that i love her so much and she doesnt liek me like that i think.

I'm supposed to do somthign with her tommarow like watch a movie or something. If that goes good like we both have fun and flirt maybe i'll ask her if were ever going to be more then just great friends. But i'm afrid of the answer because if its no, i dont really want to do anythign with her anymore.

One last thing then i'm done ramblin on and on. Like this is the first time i've felt like this, and quite frankly it sucks. I feel all depressed and i dont like that feelin.

All comments / flames welcome

Thanks in advance

ive been in the same situation man. it sucks ass dude. In my cases, i get rejected...... like i was so close to getting with this girl like we would hang out a lot and i even took her to prom.... and i asked if we could be more then friends and shes like no proabaly not becuase i dont have the same feelings for you...... even though those nights i was with her the kissing and shit made it almost seem as if we were a couple.... but now she doesnt talk to me anymore and goes out with some other dude. She Also told me she had feelings for another guy at the time.. it sucked ass for her saying that i was really upset . like Max Payne always says "Love Hurts"



[This message has been edited by Willdo (edited 03-11-2004).]

Ok love doesn't really stink. And I just found out the girl that supposidly loved me didn't realy love me but I still love her(well the old her anyway since shes changed in the past month). And consider yourself lucky, I have to live life knowing that the girl I really like will never go out with me no matter what and this girl is the only girl I like at school(I think others are hot but don't like them for their personalites as well) And she never flirted with me or anything and all so look at it this way at least you know you got some sort of chance. And you might want to make sure that she does like you like that because if she doesn't and you ask her things could get a little weird maybe but oh well do whatever your heart tells you. And Willdo love only hurts sometimes but when it doesn't damn its the greatest feeling ever when its true love.

Look mate...All you can do is be honest with her.

Ask her if there is ever going to be more than what you have.

If she says no then tell her you love her and that you can't make that feeling go away.

If it's still a no, then don't see her for a while...Don't see her until you are over the experience.

All the best of luck man!

Yeah I agree with psycho_8b. Just come out and tell her. Otherwise you will regret it. If she says no, get over it.

I had the same sort of situation with a friend. I never told her how I felt, then she started going out with my best friend. And to make it even worst they fucked on a seat sitting opposite me. And then I moved away.

Talk to this girl if she turnes you down then you should leave her alone for a week then call her tell her you still like her but understand that she does'ent like you but try your best to stay friends becouse you would miss her if you never saw her again.

i know how you feel elf. Both me and my friend are really flirty tee hee we have even been known to flirt with on of our teachers... but anyway he's worse then me and he likes her too but only when hes with her and it kills me to see them together

Go for it. Asking yourself "What if" is just as bad as a rejection.

Just don't do anything stupid. I've always felt like shit over this so called 'love". But some part of my mind tells me it could be great. Never lie or decieve her and things will turn out the best they can provided the situation and how both of you feel.