Well remember that girl I was talking about meeting in like may? We talked monday night, but its like I can't think of anything to talk about to keep the convo going.

In person I can keep one going online I can keep one going, but the phone its just hard. I like having semi-serious convo with people where you can still make jokes about it.

Can some of you help me think of something to talk about?

Just be yourself...talk about whatever comes to mind. I'm sure if you can find things to talk about in person there is things to talk about on the phone.

if you want a good conversation dont do other stuff while on the phone, like post here for example, or do homework or anything like that. when i want to be funny and charming i dont even turn my music on.

quote:Originally posted by oogsmash:

if you want a good conversation dont do other stuff while on the phone, like post here for example, or do homework or anything like that. when i want to be funny and charming i dont even turn my music on.

Well then I'll not turn on my music. I usually always have it on when I'm on the phone.

Ask her questions, then ask her questions about her answers. And so on, make the conversation all about her.

quote:Originally posted by BigMattTheHobo:

Ask her questions, then ask her questions about her answers. And so on, make the conversation all about her.





i know girls who hate that, ost girls want to talk about you, not them..

if your trying to please her just tell her bout your day... dont go into so much detail she gets bored, and to little she feels itsn ot enough.. talk about whatever you can think... but if you truely feel uncomfterable on the phone just tell her... im sure if you explain it to her(what... youd be making conversation ). im sure if she gots 1/6th of a brain.. what i hope she does.. she'll understand...

just think of random things through the week.. talk about it, crack a joke here or there... and dont do other things... these are the steps to becomign a jedi... err i mean talking on the phone

just a little tip, dont talk about the weather. No matter how tempting it is, dont, because i found out that most people talk about the weather when they are really bored and have nothing better to say. Once u get into convo it should speed up with less silence

quote:Originally posted by johnney5:

just a little tip, dont talk about the weather. No matter how tempting it is, dont, because i found out that most people talk about the weather when they are really bored and have nothing better to say. Once u get into convo it should speed up with less silence

Thats the problem there. I sit there and talk and joke for like five minutes straight, then for like another 2.5 minutes its silent. I can't really keep the convo going for too long.

Seeing as I neither of us have met eachother. Its kind of hard to explain what happened during the day, although yesterday me and my guy alex jumped this one kid. Don't know if I should tell her about that.

I had a bout a half hour convo about how people change through high school with my friend danielle today. I was thinking I should recycle a convo topic.

recycle is good. If you've been talking to her for a while and she has nothing to say, just end the conversation.