me and my girlfreind r 14. she wants to have sex but i dont relly want to yet.

i dont want her to think im scared or lose her cos shes so damn hot. ant ideas

Massive massive amounts or oral.

Dude at 14 it is a fact that you will eventually lose her. As far as the sex well it is funny that she is pressuring you to do it. Ask her why she wants to so badly?

man wouldn't it be damn funny if she got pregnant? teach her to mess around so early,

but serously to prevent that from happening, wear a condom and give her the pill with her drink



oh and that birth control pill too

Dont have sex with her ... she is not ready..see rant in the Should I have sex with her thread.

If you loose her because you wont have sex, forget her she is not worth it.

She probably just feels pressured to do it. Societies openness about sex has made younger kids think that sex is awesome (dont get me wrong, when your old enough it is), and they all want to have sex.

Tell her her virginity is sacred and explain why you dont feel right about it.

For some reason all these sex threads make me think of the episode of that 70s show. Where the priest said "sex is like the force from star wars, if you abstain from it it'll make it so much more better later on".

May the force be with you.

quote:Originally posted by aloneandbroken:

Dont have sex with her ... she is not ready..see rant in the Should I have sex with her thread.

If you loose her because you wont have sex, forget her she is not worth it.

She probably just feels pressured to do it. Societies openness about sex has made younger kids think that sex is awesome (dont get me wrong, when your old enough it is), and they all want to have sex.

Tell her her virginity is sacred and explain why you dont feel right about it.

AMEN. the man is talking sense.listen to him boys and girls.

Have sex with her. You'll thank me when you're sixteen.

Do it for the experience pussy.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

AMEN. the man is talking sense.listen to him boys and girls.

'Course, that's a girl you're referring to.

I would stop short of calling virginity sacred. That obviously goes directly against what she thinks of it at the moment. If you're going to say something like that, say it like that's how you think and that's why you don't want to, not like she should necessarily agree. Works better that way.

Other than that, I'm with her.

quote:Originally posted by aloneandbroken:

Dont have sex with her ... she is not ready..see rant in the Should I have sex with her thread.

If you loose her because you wont have sex, forget her she is not worth it.

She probably just feels pressured to do it. Societies openness about sex has made younger kids think that sex is awesome (dont get me wrong, when your old enough it is), and they all want to have sex.

Tell her her virginity is sacred and explain why you dont feel right about it.

Hear, hear!

Honestly, how could you pass up such an opportunity?

She WANTS to have sex with you! And as a bonus, according to you she is HOT!

Dude, get a box of condoms and fuck her brains out!

If I had such an opportunity, I'd take it in a second. Perhaps this is why I haven't gotten such an opportunity... =\

I come across as a man? Wow. that sucks...i guess the post was rather ambiguous. But yeah, spiffy does not lie...i am a girl!

You up above me. Yes you up there. Go back to the bridge you live under. SHE IS 13. When kissing makes the chick crazy, she is not ready to have her brains fucked out. At least you suggested they dont get stds...that was polite.

[This message has been edited by aloneandbroken (edited 03-11-2004).]

Maybe ask her dad first.

Listen to me right now have sex with her and enjoy it becouse you will regret it if you dont,just think about it when you look back in 6 moths time and you dident fuck her you will be kicking yourself.

HAVE SEX WITH THIS GIRL!!!!!!!!

I say have sex with her for so you have some experience because when you land another chick later on you are going to feel clueless, scared, and intimidated.

Sure she doesn't understand what she is really getting herself into but so what? Women are objects ment to be used by men.

......

If it's my sister, I'll murder you.

I would say go for it, but you don't want to so don't. You shouldn't have to do anything you don't want to, think about if the roles were reversed try and put yourself in her shoes.

Are you scared of losing it or don't you think you are ready?

yeah im gonna fuck her brains out while iv'e got the chance

You are a douche bag.

Do it make up for future expierences you need to learn why not now! Use protection though

quote:Originally posted by samuelbrind:

yeah im gonna fuck her brains out while iv'e got the chance

Are you a fucking moron? Dun listen to the majority of people on this board, most of them are lonely men who are sad that they will die a virgin. The only people who made any sense in their posts were the ones saying not to do it. Everyone saying to have sex with her said you should "so you don't miss out" (that was the most coherent argument other than just "do it"). So you don't miss out sounds like first hand experience to me... If you don't want to then don't. Like someone pointed out, you are both 14, it won't last. If you have sex now, chances are that when you break up, you will not get back together again. Sometimes people will come back to there first puppy love, but usually not if they have sex with them.

To be honest when I was 14 I would have had sex with a hot chick, but I also wanted to. You said you don't so don't! There will be other chances later, don't worry about it. I'll probably come back to this later cause right now I'm kinda pissed and forgot my main argument...for the love of god you guys are only in...what 8th grade?

Edit: (this still isn't my main argument so expect more later...possibly) Elf makes a good point

quote:ask her dad

He does make a point, but make her do it. Give her your cell (most kids have one now adays) or just a phone and tell her to call her/your mom/dad and ask them if it is ok. No shit she won't do it, but it will make her think about what she really wants to do...

[This message has been edited by NewRage (edited 03-11-2004).]

First off, you and her are 14, so dont expect this to last long. Believe me, i should know.

Just do it, but make sure shes on the pill or your wearing a sock. Dont want to become a father at 15, yo know what i mean?

Yeah I agree with the others,

You definatly will regret it a year from now. I had the chance to fuck theese 2 hottttttt girls when I was 14 too and passed it up. I look back and say "Why the fuck did I not fuck the shit outta theese 2 hotties" I slept in between them and had arms around both the whole night. The girls friend(whom I didn't know really.) even told me the next day I coulda had them both.

I am almost 16 and get pussy bi-monthly, I still look back at thoose fine girls and just wonder why I didnt fuck em. After you get serious ass for the first time, you will feel like a man and be pleased with yourself.. well maybe that part is just me

If you still have time to get her, do it before she lets go of you.