Ok well im a guy, and sex with condoms ruins the whole thing. I hate them, and i cant feel anything its like having a baloon on my penis. only one of the girls i have had sex with was on the pill so w didnt need one, they are always to tight I mean like really tight around.

I was wondring what does it feel like for a girl to have sex with and with out a condom? Which do you perfer? Can you feel a difrence? and if so what?

yes there is a difference, sex without a condom is soo much better. you can definitely feel the difference... it just makes sex that much better. i'm not saying i don't enjoy sex with a condom, i just like it more without one.

well, it feels good both ways for me, and yes i can definitely tell the difference ... prefer without cuz it just feels soo much better ... not saying sex with a condom is bad, i just prefer without and i'm on the pill so yeah ...

I never Use a condom ! ,, I HATE that crap ... takes away 90 % of the feeling !

Sweet warm soft pussy ,, dude fuck the condom ... ( I got yeast on my dick and almost had a son .. had to do an abortus )

Still not gonna use a condom ,, prefer whacking it

quote:Originally posted by devilsAngel:

well, it feels good both ways for me, and yes i can definitely tell the difference ... prefer without cuz it just feels soo much better ... not saying sex with a condom is bad, i just prefer without and i'm on the pill so yeah ...

i think all girls need some kind of contraception, when they come out with that male pill im going to get it. sure condoms protect you but they hurt.

Did you ever think of getting a bigger condom?

quote:Originally posted by bushy:

I was wondring what does it feel like for a girl to have sex with and with out a condom? Which do you perfer? Can you feel a difrence? and if so what?

Personally, I find that the benefits of using condoms outweigh the bad aspects.

With or without, the sex still feels warm and soft and silky. There's a diminished sensation of stimulating friction, but I find whatever keeps me from coming quickly is a bonus.

Plus, if you (or your current partner(s)) have multiple partners or extensive sexual histories, condoms give you the ability to crawl away from each situation without wondering about contracting STDs.

I've had sex with condoms on, condoms off, where the woman was on the pill, when she was on the pill and we used spermicide as an extra measure of precaution.

See, the tiny tiny tiny chance that something might go wrong and she might get pregnant gnaws at both of us. She's responsible enough to take the pill and take it regularly, and I feel that the condom fulfills my responsibility by keeping my sperm out of her. Spermicide alone, doesn't quite make me feel safe, since the effectiveness is dependent on so many factors.

If I could find a condom that was extra-strong AND had a spermicide in it, I'd buy stock in the company that makes it, and feel completely at ease.

If you don't happen to like condoms, that's fine. If you find that condoms are too tight, or too short, or break easily, consider switching brands or styles -- they're the most versatile of contraceptive devices and one of the few ways that men can unilaterally take command of their sexual choices and safety.

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^^^you're a smart guy, but there seems to be a bit of a trend in this forum. A lot of the guys in this forum are way too paranoid when in comes to birth control. I see a lot of "I can't wait until the male pill comes out so I can take it and use a condom while my girlfriend takes her pill and uses spermicide." I mean, come on. I understand that there is a cause for concern, but you don't have to go overboard. It seems like you're treating sex like a dangerous animal and the more protection from it that you have the better.

And if STDs are an issue, which they should be, get tested with your partner. That's the only way to be sure. I've considered getting tested, although I don't really need to. If just seems like the most responsible thing to do. Either way...

quote:Originally posted by Little Pea:

^^^you're a smart guy, but there seems to be a bit of a trend in this forum. A lot of the guys in this forum are way too paranoid when in comes to birth control. I see a lot of "I can't wait until the male pill comes out so I can take it and use a condom while my girlfriend takes her pill and uses spermicide." I mean, come on. I understand that there is a cause for concern, but you don't have to go overboard. It seems like you're treating sex like a dangerous animal and the more protection from it that you have the better.

And if STDs are an issue, which they should be, get tested with your partner. That's the only way to be sure. I've considered getting tested, although I don't really need to. If just seems like the most responsible thing to do. Either way...

Oh, I'm not worried about STDs -- all of my partners I've either used protection with or have been virgins. Nobody wants to give somebody else an STD ... at least, nobody I've yet met.

What I'm worried about, to be perfectly honest, is the fact that if my girlfriend WAS to get pregnant, any decisions about whether or not she'd have an abortion would be completely out of my hands. I know a lot of women say that they 'couldn't raise a kid right now' but also admit that they 'don't know what they would do' if the situation ever came up. What kind of message is that supposed to send me?

So in that regard, sex IS a dangerous animal. One with a hefty price tag and an 18-year lifspan. One you can't give away.

I mean, if the government were to pass a law giving me 'abortion/termination rights' I'd be all for it -- it would give me the same degree of freedom as my girlfriend if the worst were to happen.

And I know that most women aren't out there to get a meal ticket when they go and engage in sex, but for a situation that arises out of equal effort and mutual consent, I can be left holding the shitty end of the stick rather easily. It's not exactly an option to have a woman sign a contract saying 'yes, if I get pregnant by so-and-so, I'll have an abortion', and neither is the simpler verbal agreement.

So, short of taking the 'male pill' or having myself vasectomized, I have to protect myself. And every other guy out there who values his future and his livelihood -- I'd advise you to do the same. Murphy's Law is no more evident in action than when it comes to sex.

Sex without a connie is great...You can feel everything...It's awesome!

You may want to try getting the ultra thin types.

I hear they are pretty cool.

quote:Originally posted by The_Rabbi:

Did you ever think of getting a bigger condom?

It still feels like a balloon

quote:Originally posted by Little Pea:

^^^you're a smart guy, but there seems to be a bit of a trend in this forum. A lot of the guys in this forum are way too paranoid when in comes to birth control. I see a lot of "I can't wait until the male pill comes out so I can take it and use a condom while my girlfriend takes her pill and uses spermicide." I mean, come on. I understand that there is a cause for concern, but you don't have to go overboard. It seems like you're treating sex like a dangerous animal and the more protection from it that you have the better.

And if STDs are an issue, which they should be, get tested with your partner. That's the only way to be sure. I've considered getting tested, although I don't really need to. If just seems like the most responsible thing to do. Either way...



thank you pill, finally someone who understands.Its not that i hate sex its just i dont like condoms, and i dont want to put all the presure on the girl so i wear one, If they have a guy pill i would glaly take it. and plus I know all the girls i do stuff with and I know i dont have anything to pass around.

quote:Originally posted by Little Pea:

^^^you're a smart guy, but there seems to be a bit of a trend in this forum. A lot of the guys in this forum are way too paranoid when in comes to birth control. I see a lot of "I can't wait until the male pill comes out so I can take it and use a condom while my girlfriend takes her pill and uses spermicide." I mean, come on. I understand that there is a cause for concern, but you don't have to go overboard. It seems like you're treating sex like a dangerous animal and the more protection from it that you have the better.



Fuck you dude, you have no idea what its like having a baby. I've got a girl pregnant by not even having sex. I'm going to take every percaution i can. No fucking clue the kind of strain a baby puts on young adults.

so SHUT THE FUCK UP!

whoa.. just had to get out a little negative energy