ok there is a girl who i know loves me i have been told she confirmed it and so on, but i want to know if it would be safe if i kissed her a few times once or more, i know thats how relashionships start in the movies and stuff but is it a good move in real life.

ya man! go for it. thats how most things begin!

besides, what have you got to lose. do it today!

Yeh i guess i got nothing to loose seeing that she loves me and all, ill kiss her then ask her out.

quote:Originally posted by fire_fly:

Yeh i guess i got nothing to loose seeing that she loves me and all, ill kiss her then ask her out.

from the sounds of it, you probably havnt dont this sort of thing before, so here are a few simple things to keep in mind:

kiss her with your lips closed at first, just once to see how she reacts. if she wants more, give her more. if not, then you havnt done anything that would bother her a lot anyways! yay! also, close your eyes. its creepy otherwise (plus you get all kinds of strange cyclopse things going on). any other questions?

LOL thanx for the advise, you are right about me being new to this, from what i hear this girl isnt shy, as in she's not friget, when would be the right time to make a move on her when we go out.

quote:Originally posted by fire_fly:

LOL thanx for the advise, you are right about me being new to this, from what i hear this girl isnt shy, as in she's not friget, when would be the right time to make a move on her when we go out.

just go and sit somewhere nice and quiet with her and talk for a while. then, when theres a lul in the conversation, look in her eyes, then slowly move in. easy!

True but im a lil shy, any ideas how to overcome that lol.

quote:Originally posted by fire_fly:

True but im a lil shy, any ideas how to overcome that lol.

whenever I'm scared of something (eating something really spicy, jumping off something really high, kissing someone for the first time, etc.) I just do it before I can talk myself out of it. with my current gf I said to myself "I'm going to kiss her now. I WILL.", then while I'm doing it, I think 'maybe that isnt such a good idea', but its too late, and it worked! just do it before you get too nervous. DONT look before you leap.

Just calm yourself down before you meet her, think about it in the grand scale of things, her not letting you kiss her will nock you back but its not that big of a deal.So just be calm and dont stress about it!

If that dont work a few shots of booze should calm you down!

Just go for it man...Talk to her when you are alone then out of nowhere kiss her.

It's a pretty simple technique...Works too!

Clam nerves and a cool head will allow you to kiss her. And who knows, maybe she'll kiss you first You'll be fine.

quote:Originally posted by fire_fly:

i want to know if it would be safe if i kissed her a few times once or more,

As for the kissing thing go for it, I personally would take any chance I could to kiss a girl. I dun know what it is but I REALLY like kissing...My whole order of what I like is really kinda screwed up...I like getting head the best, then kissing, then sex...anyways back on topic, you know she likes you so make the move...

And that part i quoted was bothering me, what are you trying to say there? I didn't think it was a typo so I'm assume you are trying to say something you can't get out...You wanna know if you should kiss her a few times? Or just once? OR a few times at one point? or...

my technique for the first kiss is to plant one or her lips closed mouth, then another juicier one but still closed, then implement the tongue. If it goes that far, and this is your first time, my advice would be don't just open your mouth and stick your tongue in there and swirl it around for 5 minutes straight. Kiss her open mouth, slide your tongue in leave your mouth open for a few tonsil twirls then close the kiss. Rinse and repeat...then kiss her on the neck, bite her ear, slide your hand up her shirt, roll her nipple between your forefinger and thumb for awhile, kiss her on the lips and take off her pants...you'll know what to do from there cowboy!

(i kid, good luck)

Earth to fire_fly:

She doesn't "love" you, she lusts for you or likes you but that is it.

My advice is to become friends with her, then before you cross that barrier that will mean you will only be friends you should do something cool together and then take her home and give her a goodbye kiss.

It will all be worthwhile if sher holds you around the waist and kisses you back. If not go for the cheek and you won't be totally shamed.

if you haven't ever kissed anyone before, and your super nervous.. let me tell you something... its not as hard as you think...

first time i ever kissed a girl i was nervous as fuck... but i just reminded myself.. you gotta start someday right? specially when it comes to kissing a girl... it will happen someday no matter what... im also shy.. just remind yourself she likes you obviously s you got nothin to lose...

give it a shot man, and good luck... i dunno if you smoke weed but when i get stoend im not nervous at all.. retards that part of my brain

just dont miss... this girl kissed me once and it was her first time and se was on my lowerlip/chin

~~<jay>~~

yeah do it. two weeks ago I had the perfect opprtuinty and i didnt do it. Now I regret that I have to wait till next time. I hope thats not to far away cause i realy like this girl.

Hey man, just go for it, you'll love it. One thing you need to keep in mind is that she'll let you know when to give her more, and when she wants tongue, give it to her, but be very gentle about it and don't just stick your tongue in her mouth, gently caress her tongue and her lips as you pull away. If you think she's experienced in this area, just follow her lead and she'll make life so much easy for you.

This is what I did when I first kissed a girl. Chilling in my room watching a movie, movie ends. Put on a cd [dont' remember which one]. Let the song get heavier I think the song was Mr. Rogers by koRn. Then just said fuck-it she's my girl I'm allowed to do this, got on the bed kind of layed on top of her missionary position and just went for it. Best thing I ever went for.

This was when I was in like 7th grade.

Thanx for the help people, we are now going out, most likely because of youse peoples help.

post the details of what happened. How did it play out? you cant just say thanks to all. GAH . we need the 411.

theres no way to learn how to kiss. theres some things in life you gotta learn on your own. kissing is one of them. its also easier and less scary than it looks. and its really fun to do.

shut up.^^^^^ we want details of how it went down, who, what where when, and what circumstances, and how u made the move.POST

quote:Originally posted by fire_fly:

Thanx for the help people, we are now going out, most likely because of youse peoples help.

way to go killer.