im a 17 year old male. i had a girlfriend of 10 months who i broke up with about 5 months ago. she is also 17. there was some, but not a lot of post-breakup sex and we didnt really talk too much.

we just started talking again about a week ago and she told me how she was going to have to be the designated driver for her drunk mother on saturday night. being the kind generous person i am, i offered her my house to stay at to get out of it because i knew my dad was going to be gone for the weekend.

well im sure you can guess the rest. we had good sex. after a little rest we had sex again and she left in the morning.

im not really sure what im asking...maybe im just trying to see if i have any morals. comment as you like.

Meh, sounds like a fun time was had by all. What's the moral issue? There is none. Some girls just want sex and would rather have it with someone they're familiar with.

thats just what i needed. thank you cindy. some of my less "experienced" friends have been giving me some flak about it...

I've had occasional sex with a few of my ex's for years. Don't worry about it. Good arrangement for everyone.

But be ever careful of the "hidden feelings." Sometimes girls develop feelings that fester inside them and eventually end up exploded all over your face on a saturday night when your leaving to sleep in your own bed after an especially good bout of sex. Don't get me wrong though, if this doesn't apply, then don't worry about it. But I would always keep an eye out for that.

^^ yeah, ive been trying to keep that in mind lately, seeing as how it took her a really long time to get over the breakup...

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

Meh, sounds like a fun time was had by all.

You can have a fun time with me cindy...