Hi Guys... jus a bit of an issue i'm experienceing during sex with my b/f.

I take too long to cum or dont cum at all.

I mean that feeling is their sometimes when he;s in me...but i jus can't....i did a couple of times and it was great....we've been having sex for a year now....

I don't know whether his dick is too small or whether i'm concentrating too hard.....

He cums really quickly and i know he wants me to cum also...because he's not satisfied if i don't...

Anybody out their can help me?????

Thanks : )

I can cum in about 30 seconds. I'm also a guy, so I have no idea how to help you, and couldn't even imagine your problem. Just thought I'd let you know...

You may need more clitoral stimulation to orgasm...get him to give you oral beforehand...there's nothing wrong with you...

quote:Originally posted by Johnnx:

You may need more clitoral stimulation to orgasm...get him to give you oral beforehand...there's nothing wrong with you...

in addition, if it doesn't matter how/when you cum as long as you do, oral works afterwards too if you feel like you're building up during sex but still don't cum. works for me bit before to get moist, and a bit after so we're both happy

Two Words: Fake It.

Just relax and don't concentrate on cumming.

If my girlfriend demands that I cum, there's about as much chance of me cumming in the next 10 seconds as there is finding a pork chop in a synagogue!

Just relax and whatever happens...happens!

If not, try experimenting with new positions and...Ahem..."Rituals"!

All the best!

quote:Originally posted by sharpie:

I can cum in about 30 seconds. I'm also a guy, so I have no idea how to help you, and couldn't even imagine your problem. Just thought I'd let you know...

30 seconds really? Thats pritty damn fast.

Tell him to finish you off, like make him go down on you so that u can finish up.

Try oral

if he cums really quickly you not orgasming is probably a result of not enough stimulation at all down there.

Try doggy style with him in you and you rubbing your clit.

Ok cool, thanks for the ideas guys.

I guess i'm jus afraid of him thinking that theres something wrong with me when i dont cum.

some drugs help

Dont worry, it often takes a female much longer to cum. You need a real man to eat that pussy and not stop until you have cummed, once that happens you will know what you need. btw- i am single.

quote:Originally posted by truth:

Hi Guys... jus a bit of an issue i'm experienceing during sex with my b/f.

I take too long to cum or dont cum at all.

...

*shrugs*

So? I mean, he came. Right? Where's the problem?

cc

F-O-R-E-P-L-A-Y

touch yourself while fucking him... works for me (obviously only certain positions work for that)... or try going on top

When i am on top of him its great, thats when its easy for me to cum.....

trust me, we;re ravers, so drugs (xtc)only gives u the nrg to go on for hours... no cumming at all....

@corbinm : sweetie pie, i live in South Africa....so the chances of u "eating my pussy" is pretty slim.....

Thanks Again guys

ill make u cum