Wait, or go in now? I talk to this girl about so much shit, and it is kind of funny, because i tell her how i love this girl so much and i wont tell her who. and "this girl" is taken too. i asked her what she would think if someone told her they loved her as much as i love "This girl". She said she'd take it as a compliment, but she doesnt think anyone does.



what to do? tell her or wait?

You should probably just tell her. I'm sure she has an idea.

Yeah she isn't stupid, but she's stuck on trying to guess who it is. Kind of amusing, but I've told her so much nice stuff she won't believe it when i tell her. Should be fun.

She almost said, "Well, I dont have that.. I mean she doesn't" Maybe she wants it to be her. But that is just what i want to hear. hah

Then you should definitely tell her. People usually don't like games and such.

The safe bet is just to become her really good friend. If she wants you let her initiate it, because if you go in guns blazsing you might scare her and really piss off her boyfriend.

Remember, she wouldn't be with the guy if he didn't have some feelings for him, so more than likely shes just trying to be nice.

You fucking relationship wrecker. Fuck you for trying to achieve hapiness at the cost of other people.

quote:Originally posted by DeAtHsTyLe:

You fucking relationship wrecker. Fuck you for trying to achieve hapiness at the cost of other people.

i dont know why guys think they're getting away with all this. girls can tell if a guy likes them within like 5 minutes of talking... but still, i see these guys sneaking around thinking that they have NO idea....

but yeah, in the end, tell her, or you WILL regret not doing so... i posted my story about not saying anything once... made some people cry over it too. youll feel better after telling her anyways. go for it

ts

im not trying to wreck a relationship, im just wondering if i should tell her now or not. i would try to keep them together, shes happy with him why wouldnt i want her happy?

^^^trying is the first step to failing.

She already knows dude, its too late. You think you have her in the dark but, of course whenever she's around I bet she's the centre of your focus. Trust me i'm in a similar situation, and i'm just starting to realize that I think she's known all along. hmmmm maybe i should post my stry meh.

If you're happy for her that she's is with a guy she likes then why not just move on?!

If you tell her, she'll have confusion and, most likely, uncomfort to deal with and you'll get shot down because she's happy with her current boyfriend!

Move on bucko!

There's probably a good chance she allready knows and can see exactly what your doing, considers it pathetic, and is trying not to hurt your feelings.

[This message has been edited by Lewneedsrs (edited 03-08-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by PrecisionProcessor:

Best way to get a girl with a boyfriend

She has a boyfriend...God I dun even know you and I already dun like you...

Yes this is a truly terrible thing, this thing you plan on doing. Cheating on someone or getting someone to cheat on someone is one of the most fucked up things you can do to a person. If I believed in hell I would say that there is a special circle of hell for these people for extra torment. It should also be the rest of hell's toilet which would be their only source of food. There is so much pain involved, so much dehumanization, deception, abuse of love, bad bad kharma my friend. Treating people as a means to an end, not just and end in themself.

Also if you truly care for this person, why would you want to cause this suffering to her AND to someone she loves? Besides, would you want to START a relationship with someone knowing that her last relationship ended in someone else coming along and stealing her?

dude same situation happened to me, to cut a long story short it destroyed our friendship to the point that i havnt talked to her since.