anyone ever run into this littler paradox, where if your nice they call you their bitch, and then when you stand up for your rights they call you a jerk...its a fuckin lose lose situation and in the end you always get fucked over...i would give a man a cookie who knew a way around this balogna

just try to balance both out with subtletys, don't overplay the niceness but don't overplay standing up for yourself, just have enough of each so it get's the point across without pissing anyone off or whatever.

BALOGNA

confidence is what you need to stand up for yourself without being a jerk

You can be nice without being their bitch. If they constantly ask/tell you to do something, make them do something for you in return. Sometimes you also just have to say no. If you go to the store to pick up tampons you are a bitch...

quote:Originally posted by NewRage:

If you go to the store to pick up tampons you are a bitch...

Not true, but cleaning up after she removes a tampon makes up a bitch.

quote:Originally posted by Easy Going:

confidence is what you need to stand up for yourself without being a jerk

i think this guy takes the cookie

The answer is easy.

As soon as she starts calling you her bitch, you stand up and say "You're mybitch...BITCH!" and laugh or something!

If she calls you a jerk for standing up for yourself, tell her she's being a bitch and she should grow up...Just before you walk away and be proud of yourself!

If she can treat you like shit and not allow you to stand up for yourself then she isn't worth it mate...Keep moving until you find a girl with respect!

Now then...That'll be a chocolate chip cookie with pieces of toffee in please!

Tell her she better respect you for putting up with her shit so far, or you'll treat her just like you would a guy in her situation...I think she'll understand that it means, "Shut the fuck up or I'm going to knock you out."

you call that a paradox?

check this one out.

if i go back in time and kill my grandfather what will happen to me?

^^^^ You'll be gone from Totse, that's for sure!

quote:Originally posted by Switch72:

^^^^ You'll be gone from Totse, that's for sure!

Unless you have sex with your grandma...Futurama is a great show...

quote:Originally posted by lookimacat:

anyone ever run into this littler paradox, where if your nice they call you their bitch, and then when you stand up for your rights they call you a jerk...its a fuckin lose lose situation and in the end you always get fucked over...i would give a man a cookie who knew a way around this balogna



simple solution...get a new girl, i'll have what psycho_8b is having

fair enough! cookies for all!