ok, well ive got a really good friend who is being abused by a guy who hangs around us. He says to her that he has no respect for girls and he hits her and says he is going to sexually abuse her when shes alone.

She has had a smilar thing happen to her before, and when she told a couple of people they said it was mainly her fault.

she doesnt wont to tell anyone because shes scared he will hurt her.

any idea's will be great.....??

-csc-

Turn him in? Tell someone? Do something, anything will help. The last thing you want to happen is for her to get seriously hurt. And if she has had any romantic feelings for this guy, plus the fact that you hang around him, that does give her a reason. She made a big mistake. Stay far away from him, don't ever let her be alone by herself for fear of it happening, and tell someone about it.

He may just be playing around too. Some girl at my school had that happen to her because her boyfriend and her broke up and the boyfriend got mad and told his friends to threaten to rape her to get back at her. I am sorry to say that the assholes in this world are multipling steadily. It will be alright tho. OH and another thing, don't show fear. They eat off of fear.

Slap a restraining order on him and then get a CCW. He may just be joking but you never know.

If "she" can't figure this out, give him a stick.

If "she" can't figure this out, give him a stick.[/QUOTE]

what do you mean by that ??

quote:Originally posted by DeAtHsTyLe:

If "she" can't figure this out, give him a stick. He'll knock some sense into her.

Thats what I meant to say.

[This message has been edited by DeAtHsTyLe (edited 03-07-2004).]

If you can't give her any useful help then dont waste your time posting in this thread!!

Shes only young, and she doesnt wont to make the same mistake as last time.

quote:Originally posted by Jesse's babe:

If you can't give her any useful help then dont waste your time posting in this thread!!

Shes only young, and she doesnt wont to make the same mistake as last time.



If she is that young she shouldn't be messing with boys.

Useful information: This child should tell her parents.

I think its time for a nap.

If there are witnesses to his threats, a case could be made for assault. If he actually touches her in any way, it becomes assault & battery. Don't dawdle; go to the police.

If there are no witnesses, what's she doing being alone with him?

well, she sounds like she needs help. find out more, gain her trust... .be there if she needs you, but remember -

you cant help those who dont want help.

he sounds like an arsehole who needs a stick shoved up his arse..

take notes on him, what he does, says, where he goes etc...

Right, and use that info to locate a suitable rooftop to put a bullet through his heart from. Use a PSG1.

^^^ sounds like some one has been playing a little too much metal gear solid

she doesn't wont to tell any one because of last time.

I do have her trust.

She doesn't hang around him by her self, infact she doesn't even hang around him, he hangs around her. He does and says all this stuff infront of all her friends but no one even takes any notice of him because every one thinks his full of shit( mainly because he made up a story of him being saved by a dolphin.

She said she can deal with it but i just wonder how shes gunnna deal with it if shes not gunna go to the police, shes not even gunna tell her parents.

She isn't doing anything, shes just letting him do this to her and getting away with it.

People like that need to be fucked in the ass by big dicked black men.

tell her to stop being a bitch and stand up for herself. tell her if she doesnt like what he says, she should kick his ass. dont give me any excuses about how she cant because shes female. we all know men and women are equal.

Nothing can be done until he actually assaults someone. Other than that, you have no dice. Your only option is to wait until somthing happens.

To repeat, making threats is assault. He has already done that.

"assault definition – threat or use of force on another that reasonably makes that person fear bodily harm."

Taken from: http://www.legal-definitions.com/assault.htm

Touching someone is battery.

yea, assault is one of those bullshit charges. i mean hell, ive probably been "assaulted" 20 times in the last week.

quote:Originally posted by mrman383:

tell her to stop being a bitch and stand up for herself. tell her if she doesn't like what he says, she should kick his ass. dont give me any excuses about how she cant because shes female. we all know men and women are equal.

Spot on.

I am sick to FUCKING DEATH, of seeing girls who do literally NOTHING.

All through out highschool, there was always some girl who was getting abused by her boyfriend and always crying out for help and sympathy. One time I started questioning.

Have you told your parents?

Have you told the cops?

Have you told Him to stop?

Have you dumped the bastard?

And all I kept hearing was "I can't" , "he threatened me, so I can't" , But the worst of all, that I kept hearing was the:

"I know.......but I still LOVE HIM"

It was nothing but excuses, and they practically LET this happen.

And this happens over and over. I am seriously losing sympathy for people who beat around the bush and don't do fuck all.

Out of all this, I have seen only ONE success story.

It's sad.

In any case, it seems Jesse's Babe is more concerned with this than the girl in question. Maybe she enjoys it in some perverse way, or maybe she doesn't take it seriously, or maybe she'll learn the hard way. I've said it before and I'll say it again: you can't help someone that doesn't want to be helped.

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

In any case, it seems Jesse's Babe is more concerned with this than the girl in question. Maybe she enjoys it in some perverse way, or maybe she doesn't take it seriously, or maybe she'll learn the hard way. I've said it before and I'll say it again: you can't help someone that doesn't want to be helped.

well, she doesn't wont any help she only told me cause she trusts me and knows i wont do anything if she doesnt wont me to.

But she cant just let him get away with what he does.

I go back to school tomorrow so ill see what he does then.

I will inform you tomorrow after noon of what else he has done and what she has decided to do.

-csc-

Threats are not assault, I don't care what fucking law book says it, that is straight up bullshit. Just like nowadays you can be charged with battery for throwing a cake in someones face, our justice system is ridiculous.

Anyway, knee him in the balls.

quote:Originally posted by 4Sight:

Threats are not assault, I don't care what fucking law book says it, that is straight up bullshit.

Your opinion is irrelevant to the courts.

quote:

Anyway, knee him in the balls.

That would be a battery.

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

Your opinion is irrelevant to the courts.

I consider the courts opinion irrelevant.

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

That would be a battery.



So what?



[This message has been edited by 4Sight (edited 03-08-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by 4Sight:



Anyway, knee him in the balls.

worst. idea. ever.

i know its conventional wisdom and all, but its stupid. first of all, everyone on earth knows the bitch is going to go for a cheap shot. thats what pussies do. second, ive been hit in the balls many many times. as a catcher in baseball, as a running back in football and as a wrestler. you get used to it and you deal with pain. so go ahead, kick him in the nuts, if hes half a man hell beat the living fuck out of you despite the pain. being kneed in the balls hurts, but a crushed scull drops you faster and for the long count.

ok well i was just talking to my friend on the phone and she said she has sorted it out, by telling him to fuck off and all that. But then on the bus on the way home he hit her in the leg and she said it really hurt.

So im gunna see what hes like tomorrow and ill let you'se no tomorrow to see if i can get any more help from you'se.