Alright, so if you guys read any posts before, I had a plan to seduce a girl. I was a jerk to her, then developed depth by having a few serious discussions with her.

Anyway, it was going well, until last night. We were hanging out and I was giving her little kisses (just playfully) and kept teasing her to make out with me. Just like, "Make out with me now..don't be shy" and just being stupid and shit.

I was just about to actually kiss her, when she said the words that all men dread. You know what I'm talking about, the worst thing a guy can hear in that situation. Yup, she said "No. I don't wanna ruin what we already have."

OH FUCK! I was ready to kick her out right then and there, but I kindly after a while finally got her out of the house.

Is there any way to salvage this situation? I need to reverse this horrible phrase,

~Mike

7. once you have her head spinning, make a move as bold as possible. (http://www.totse.com/bbs/Archives/Archive-000002/HTML/20031016-4-004598.html)

The move to physical has to be confident and decisive. Even if she likes you, if you hem and haw and let her make the decision, it is too easy for her to say no and too hard for her to say yes. Being the one to make that call makes you vulnerable and too many women don't like to put themselves in that situation. She may have still said no, but make her put the breaks on it. Don't make her have to say yes. It is going to be hard to fix this now. I just suggest you learn from it.

quote:Originally posted by MikeTheWalrus:

"No. I don't wanna ruin what we already have."

It's okay baby, I don't really like you. I just wanted to use you for sex. So see, there's nothing to ruin.

next time you're in the situation, don't let her say no. don't ask her to say yes. get her hot, playfully or whatever, and make your move beofre she can say no.

"Date...Or date not...There is no just friends"

Yoda - When some green bitch turned him down!

As you see I have an over active imagination!

Anyways...That's what I suggest you do!

Tell her that she'll let you kiss her and fool about so she's just being a tease when it comes to something real!

Sometimes you just have to tell people straight.

Or you can try the suave approach.

Do your regular thing together then out of nowhere go in and kiss her.

If she disapproves tell her you couldn't help it or something.

If she approves then...Well...Problem sol-ved!