I've been dating this girl for a little over 7 months now and things are way different than they were in the beginning. I love this girl more than anything but all that seems to happen is we'll get into a fight then she'll get all friendly with me again just to get some that night. I don't really know what to do either because she's been there for me through some really rough shit but now it seems to me that I'm just her sex toy. Any help is appreciated. Thanks.

JB

it really doesn't matter what she has been through. she is using you for sex, or just playing with you. either stop loving her, and have fun or dump her and find someone else.

The question that should guide you:

Do you mind only being her sex toy?

Just fuck her so hard that she will never ever want to fuck with you again.

You'd rather be fighting?

I would be content with being a womans sex toy.

Infact, I would prefer it

quote:Originally posted by Cytract:

I would be content with being a womans sex toy.

Infact, I would prefer it

No doubt.

She needs sex, is all.

Yeah, thanks for the replies. Being the sex toy part isn't so bad, but I don't like that the only time we get along is when we are fucking. The constant fighting is what bugs me. I guess you have to sacrifice for fun though. Thanks anyone who replied.

JB

Maybe you should just talk to her about it.

Withhold sex. You'll get whatever you want.

or tell her you have to leave for another bitch after sex ...

Why dont you ask her what your relationship means to her? Believe it or not, girls respond to communication! Its fantastic.

But if you wont do that, I suggest you go with Trippy and withhold from sex. Tell her you just want to talk or watch a movie or something, and watch her reaction. You have to be really careful with doing that though...she could think you just dont like her anymore.

If it turns out the relationship is just about sex, and you have feelings, get out of it! As much fun as just for sex relationships are, if there is emotions someone is getting hurt...its a lot easier to find a new girl than to get over something like that.

quote:Originally posted by Trippy_McGee:

Withhold sex. You'll get whatever you want.

You're a genius.