Ok, so this all started about three months ago when I had a party at my house with a coupple of peeps. Since it wasn't a lot of people, I decided to invite a chick. Anyway, I asked her and she said that she couldn't make it that day, but she'd come over the day before to hang.

SO, she comes over and we hang and it's alllllll good. Anyway, she says she's sorry that she can't be there for the party and then

"CASUALY"

Gives me the number of he best friend Alice, (whom I know)who she says I should "really, really call". Anyway, I don't think much of it since I thought she was just using an excuse not to come to the party.

Weeks later things are not working out with girl #1, so I give up on her.

Now this Alice sits in front of me in English and we begin to talk. At fist I think she's cute (I'd hit that!). But as I get to know her, I think I could like her. But in my tiny male brain, I can't comprehend that she could ever like me.

So then, about a week ago, she asks me if I would "acompany" her to lunch. And I do, and we talk and have a grand old time. I notice she's smiling and laughing at stuff that's honestly not funny. So I think "perhaps she's got a crush". Any we get back to school, yadda yadda yadda, nothing happens, we go to class.

The next day we're going to get books and she sees my ID and she's all "aww you look so cute!" I'm thinkin' "it's a pic from this year!" and she's talking to me about how we should "hang out" sometime.

Now it's been a coupple of days and we hardly talk, I've tried starting up a conversation with her, but she isn't very eager to now.

So here's the question: should I call her and talk to her about doing some stuff? The thing is I could, but I don't know if she's knows I have her number. Would it be wierd or should I just go 4 it?

-Dazed and Confoozled

remember, people in general want what they cant have. so maybe you should back off a little and see if she regains interest. if not then maybe you insulted her or something...

^^^^

I have tried that before and it usually doesn't work, usually it just backfires and if they WERE intrested they give up.

Yeah, it sucks!

Dude

Girls are fucking nuts. You'll probably never know the real answer unless you just go up and ask her directly "whats going on with us" or "is there anything between us" because if she not talking to you much rightnow, then you can't lose out if she says she only likes you as a friend, and if she does want you- then you're set.

But honestly, they're all crazy.

OK, looks like you need some feminine assistance for this one and I AM IT! OK, well, I think the girl #2, the one that sits infront/behind you in english class likes you. First of all, you should have got the hint when the friend gave you her number. Second, it should of hit you that she likes you when she talks to you and seems interested in you and SAYS we need to hang out sometime. Now, girls like chasing the guys, and they want the guys to do all the asking and flirting etc. I think you should talk to her more, seem interested (because girls, like most of you, dont seem interested for a while because they are waiting for you to react) and ask her to go somewhere. Have fun and I hope I helped.

...Maybe it's that time of month?

Girls are weird like that, you know.