my girlfriend cheated on me before, and i posted a topic about it. after we worked thngs out, i decided to stay with her, despite all the bullshit i was getting from everyone i know. a couple days later, i found out she lied about a few things, so i broke up with her then. i was in tears when i broke up with her. i love her so much, and she loves me, and we want to be together, but i ended it because how she lied to me once. that was last night. now today, i cant get her out of my mind. she looked like complete shit today and was crying during school whenever i saw her, and i could barely smile today. this is the first girl i've ever loved and i hate how its over with.

I really want to get back together with her. I thought about it this entire time and I relized that I shouldnt end my love with her just like that. The only thing really holding me back right now is the fact that if i were to go back out with her, everyone would be giving me shit again. even my own sister. now i could put up with it at school, but then id have to go home and hear it from my sister and all of her friends that come over. i couldnt take that. i know that i shouldnt care about what other people think, but i have to live with my sister. shes been trying to break us up since she found out i got cheated on, and she wouldnt accept the fact that we worked things out. now shes finally stopped since i dumped my gf, but now i feel horrible becuz of what im putting her through, and i cant stop thinking about her. i dont know what to do. any help/advice would be thanked

Dude fuck everybody else if you want her back get her back. If people give you shit tell them to fuck off or shut up, you should always go with what you feel is right for you not what other people think. As for your sister tell her to shut the fuck up and get out of your life, who your going out with should be none of her business(unless your going out with an ex muderer/rapist) If your sister really cares about you she wouldn't be giving you shit about this girl since you love her so much. You shouldn't feel horrible for breaking up with her because you did have a good reason but you should talk to her about the stuff she did and try to figure out what would be best.

you didn't work anything out with her though!

from you other post, you mentioned she has a history of cheating... she's lucky to have gotten even a second chance. and then she lied to you again. completely unacceptable if you ask me.

i don't know how you can think you love her.

if you really want to give her another chance, which, might i add, you will end up regretting, then don't give a fuck about what anyone thinks.

I worked plenty out, its just I didnt post a lot of the details.

well that's what you think

^^OBviously its what I think, because its the truth. I'm the one in the situation and know more about it then you.

Anyways, i took a drive with her tonight and told her I wanted to get back together, i just needed a few more days to get everything through my head before we make it official. I've never seen her happier in my life, it just made me feel so good.

Aren't you the n00b who keeps posting stupid ass replies (ie. "Penis")

hehe yeah that was me, i only did that last night cuz i was in the mood i guess.

but it was only like 2 replies...

She cheated and then what did she lie about?

Explain?

I like hearing stories about people cheating for some reason:S

I told her to tell me the truth and she said she only made out with him, but apparently she had her shirt off and there was dry sex involved.

My name is 4sight, and I will tell you what is going to happen. She is going to cheat on you again. Yes sir, no doubt about it. Then you will come back on Totse making a thread about how sad and angry you are. Let me save you the heart break, break up with her. You are going to waste your time and affection on a liar and a slut.

Don't be a fuckin sucker, cuzz that is exactly how she is playin you. You are a sucka ass bitch and she's out humping other cock while you waste emotion on her.

I know you don't wanna hear it, but fuck it. Let her go, I know how love feels and how you're thinking that you can't just let someone go if you love them but if it was really meant to work out you'll be friends. She wasnt thinking of the consequences when she was thinking of you and then (assuming she told you) you found out she was cheating she still lied to you and didn't think of the consequences. The bottom line is, she'll lie again, and would you rather a short relationship with her that ends on bad terms or a lifelong friendship?