Ok. My friend is going to meet his girlfriend tomorrow (Wednesday). He says that her friends are going to be there. I've never met his girlfriend or any of her friends.

I'm not exactly the best looking guy. I've never done anything with any girls. I'm thinking something might happen though, because I guess they've seen me, but I've not seen them, and they think I'm alright looking.

What should I do or say to just stay cool and maybe get some action? I just get really nervous around girls, probably more than others. I think it's because I was always called fat or ugly when I was younger and I never really did anything with anyone. I've finally found a group of people who I can hang out with, that don't care what I look like.

Thanks in advance for any advice.

dude, just be yourself, i mean, act like you normally do when your around your friends, you will do ok.have fun, and good luck.

quote:Originally posted by PaperSwansAreFun:

Ok. My friend is going to meet his girlfriend tomorrow (Wednesday). He says that her friends are going to be there. I've never met his girlfriend or any of her friends.

I'm not exactly the best looking guy. I've never done anything with any girls. I'm thinking something might happen though, because I guess they've seen me, but I've not seen them, and they think I'm alright looking.

What should I do or say to just stay cool and maybe get some action? I just get really nervous around girls, probably more than others. I think it's because I was always called fat or ugly when I was younger and I never really did anything with anyone. I've finally found a group of people who I can hang out with, that don't care what I look like.

Thanks in advance for any advice.

Don't go with the intent of getting "action". That's probably what makes you nervous.

Go with the intent of making new friends. that way you're more relaxed and then you can just see where it goes.

Your intuition usually tells you when your expectations are to high = you get tense.

Have a good time, that's important!