I was at work the other night and this chick comes in and asks for help...I help...we kind of conversate...I walk away and was like whoa...minutes later I leave the store to go out and see if I could catch her...well I said "nice car" she said thanks and left....

...Now everyone asks if I got a number...and didnt...but I felt something "click or work out" for this female.

I saw SOMEONE that looked like her...but this girl was pissed. Ill never see her again............................................. ............................dammit

Let this be a lesson to you. Next time have the guts to go for it.

Most people don't learn this lesson so easily though.

Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice through 143 times....

Fuck regret. thats all i have to say. You snooze, you lose.

did she come after you? no, so you arent missing out on much. fuck the convential wisdom that its the sole responsibility of a male to push the issue.

That "click" is very easily felt by one side and not the other. Often the one who doesn't feel it will notice that the other person did, and then you have no chance- anything you do will be tainted by the notion that you're doing it because you want to de-pants her. I suppose I shouldn't say no chance, but suffice to say that's the rule and exceptions are far from common.

In other words, don't worry about it. If that "click" was the only sense you had of anything, nothing was gonna happen, and you would only wind up more disappointed if you did get her number.

quote:Originally posted by Spiffy McBang:

That "click" is very easily felt by one side and not the other. Often the one who doesn't feel it will notice that the other person did, and then you have no chance- anything you do will be tainted by the notion that you're doing it because you want to de-pants her. I suppose I shouldn't say no chance, but suffice to say that's the rule and exceptions are far from common.

In other words, don't worry about it. If that "click" was the only sense you had of anything, nothing was gonna happen, and you would only wind up more disappointed if you did get her number.

You think? She laughed when I was grunting at stupid shit at work...then made a comment...and thats how the convo started................

I'm just offering a possibility based on what you've said. You have to judge for yourself what she was thinking. If you believe she did have her eye on you, then resolve to try a little harder next time you're in that situation. If you come to the conclusion she really wasn't feeling it, then seek a little more evidence the next girl is checking you out, or get a stronger "click", before contemplating a move.