okay, i have known this girl for 2 weeks. the first night we met(on a sunday), we messed around, and were about to have sex, but i couldn't get it up because i drank to much. since then, we have hung out every friday and saturday night and no other times. the situation is...she is grounded and has to sneak out late at night(usually around 11:30pm), she has school, so she cant hang out during the weekdays.

now, to the sex part. i always have to make the first move(which is kissing her), which isn't a problem. but as we start to mess around, she never grabs at me, and im feeling up her breast and fingering her. then our pants come off, and she never grabs my dick, usually at this point, i am still soft. i have to take her hand out place it on my dick, and then she starts jerking me off. then when i get hard and stick it in her, she just lays there with her eyes shut and doesn't make any noise. i try going slow, average, fast, nothing works. i try with her on top and nothing happens.

she said at one point, that she has only slept with one other person. my friend said that it's because she hasn't had enough experiance. does anyone have any ideas why she does this? what should i do about it?

Firstly, talk to her...find out what she likes...fantasizes about...

U made need more foreplay on your part...use your tongue all over her body...try and give her an orgasm by oral...dedicate the time to pleasing her and dont worry about yourself...

The problem is your shit in bed!

Tease her, then just lie on your back and wait.

You're shit in bed and you're rushing into stuff for your own pleasure. Slow down and that the fucking time to know her as a person. I'm sure that's at least part of her hesitation.

you shouldn't be askin us... but her, she's the one who might actually have a clue why

Face it dude...Some girls are near enough dead when it comes to sex.

This is not your fault.

I have been with plenty of girls and all of them, except one, have been jumping around the bed, scratching, biting, moaning, etc, etc.

The one who didn't was a lot like your girl...Fast, slow, hard, soft...Nothing!

My advice to you is to tell her to relax or she isn't going to enjoy it...And to be a little more excited by the fact she's about to get a shag!

Sometimes you have to tell the girl what to do so they know the lay of the land so to speak.

Good luck man!

i do eat her out. i eat her out for a good amount of time too. i finger hr while sucking on her clit, i stick my tounge in her hole, i lick it up and down, and nothing happens, not even a moan. i really dont know what she wants. it's starting to get on my nerves.

Just wait until you are fucking her, and your dick is nice and lubed, and stick it in her ass.

At least that way, you will get some kind of reaction. If that doesn't bother her, scratch, bite, and claw at her while doing it. She might just need a little pain to help her along.

My girl moans a little, but when I start to bite and scratch, her cunt tightens so fucking much, it almost hurts. She loves that shit. I need to get a whip

quote:Originally posted by casperc:

The problem is your shit in bed!

yah man, you gotta stop shitting in the bed!

quote:Originally posted by Unlucky:

yah man, you gotta stop shitting in the bed!

it's all taking place in the back of my car. actually, the last time we had sex, after i came, there was blood on my leg. the next day, i looked in my car, and she left little blood spots on my back seat.

Start talking to her...sex in a car isnt that romantic..

quote:Originally posted by Johnnx:

Start talking to her...sex in a car isnt that romantic..

it is if youre doing it while youre driving.

quote:Originally posted by mrman383:

it is if youre doing it while youre driving.

HAAH hell yeah...

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