About
Community
Bad Ideas
Drugs
Ego
Erotica
Fringe
Society
Technology
register | bbs | search | rss | faq | about
meet up | add to del.icio.us | digg it
Go Back   Community > Vices > Sex and Affection
FAQ Members List Calendar Search Today's Posts Mark Forums Read

Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
 #1 
Old 2004-03-01, 03:16
Schraff Schraff is offline
Regular
 
Default Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

So I'm a stupid girl. It's just over my head.

I would think that for every gay male you come across, the first thing you'd think was "Thank god I'm not competing with that guy for chicks!"

Any thoughts?
 #2 
Old 2004-03-01, 03:20
The Misfit The Misfit is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

men are threatened by gay men because they have a preconceived, and largley unbased in fact, notion that the guy is going to hit on them. Would you waste your time hitting on a lesbian? Okay maybe that's a bad example for some of the people here...personally i wallow in my unadulterated heterosexuality, in short i like girls a lot, but i have no problem with gay people, they're doing their thing i'm doing mine.
 #3 
Old 2004-03-01, 03:24
Trippy_McGee Trippy_McGee is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

Gay people are just like anybody else.

90% of them should be nailed to a wall.
 #4 
Old 2004-03-01, 03:35
AprenticeChemist AprenticeChemist is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

I don't have anything against gay people. Theres no difference in gays or straights well besides the ass fucking, and rug munching (sorry not trying to be offensive its just a joke) and the higher girlier voices, the leather pants.
 #5 
Old 2004-03-01, 03:49
Lazzaro Lazzaro is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

Doesn't bother me none. I'm straight. As long as his dick stays in his pants and his tongue stays in his mouth or any other part of the body that can be used sexually for that matter stays within the owners confines, I could care less.
 #6 
Old 2004-03-01, 03:50
Schraff Schraff is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

quote:Originally posted by AprenticeChemist:

I don't have anything against gay people. Theres no difference in gays or straights well besides the ass fucking, and rug munching (sorry not trying to be offensive its just a joke) and the higher girlier voices, the leather pants.

Leather pants are sexy, provided that you have no pores and never sweat. Otherwise, all that sweat just sits there all night, being unable to breathe out, getting smellier and smellier... 0_o
 #7 
Old 2004-03-01, 04:00
Regular
 
Your Happy Place
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

I don't think many straight men are threatened by homosexuals. The idea of "homophobia" is so overused; the concept if not completely invalid has been rendered impotent. There is a difference between not liking gay people and being scared of them or being scared of being one. Those who dislike gay men are so often accused of being afraid that it is nearly impossible to tell if anyone is truly homophobic.

To answer the topic personally, I am not threatened by homosexual men at all. I have worked with several and a few are my friends. I will say though that often they have the annoying characteristics of women without the charm so normally we don’t get along as well as we could, but I don’t prejudge any individual.
 #8 
Old 2004-03-01, 04:26
DeAtHsTyLe DeAtHsTyLe is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

Gay people suck and ass fuck. :-&
 #9 
Old 2004-03-01, 04:35
UrbanTurban UrbanTurban is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

them dudes dont bother me
 #10 
Old 2004-03-01, 05:08
Shiantar Shiantar is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

quote:Originally posted by Schraff:

So I'm a stupid girl. It's just over my head.

I would think that for every gay male you come across, the first thing you'd think was "Thank god I'm not competing with that guy for chicks!"

Any thoughts?

Well, that thought doesn't cross my mind because, on balance, homosexuals only make up 10% of the population and therefore the reduction on competition isn't all that noticeable. Besides, at face appearances gay guys look like straight guys, so in the time it would take for a woman to get to know that a guy is gay (for certain sure) the woman in question is still momentarily off the market while she investigates.

Homosexuality isn't something I find threatening. If anything, I find it comforting. A departure from the biological nature of sex could be viewed as an advancement. After all, the ancient Greeks knew all about homosexuality, accepted it as a social practise, and were arguably one of the most intelligent societies of their era. I find this backed up by the fact that the three most intelligent people who attended my high school (two guys and a girl) are all out-of-the-closet gays.

Although my personal tastes haven't departed from the biological at all -- I'm a tits and ass man and hope to die that way.
 #11 
Old 2004-03-01, 05:28
Evolution of A Saint Evolution of A Saint is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

Hey-less competition when you're hitting on the girls

~es
 #12 
Old 2004-03-01, 05:39
Schraff Schraff is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

quote:Originally posted by Shiantar:

A departure from the biological nature of sex could be viewed as an advancement.

I totally agree. Although furries do kind of wierd me out.
 #13 
Old 2004-03-01, 05:46
D-Loc 1605 D-Loc 1605 is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

quote:Originally posted by Schraff:

I would think that for every gay male you come across, the first thing you'd think was "Thank god I'm not competing with that guy for chicks!"

Any thoughts?

My thoughts exactly.
 #14 
Old 2004-03-01, 06:34
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

quote:Originally posted by Schraff:

So I'm a stupid girl. It's just over my head.

I would think that for every gay male you come across, the first thing you'd think was "Thank god I'm not competing with that guy for chicks!"

Any thoughts?



It don't quite work like that sadly. If your gay keep hush about it just like I don't go running around screaming "I AM STRAIGHT!"

Plus in Homo dominated places like Mass and San Fran they are much more physical and they creep up on you to conform to there ideal.

Basically they are Homo Nazi's. In some places they are literally a gang/mafia.
 #15 
Old 2004-03-01, 09:25
SpecialK9 SpecialK9 is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

[QUOTE]Originally posted by LSA King:

Basically they are Homo Nazi's. In some places they are literally a gang/mafia.QUOTE]

I'm not sure, if I quite understand what you meant.

Do you mean they go to their own places and clubs, so as to be amongst themselves, where they will be left alone and not be harrassed by intolerant people in society?

That indeed, is a strange thing to do. Not?





[This message has been edited by SpecialK9 (edited 03-03-2004).]
 #16 
Old 2004-03-01, 10:06
solitudesblind solitudesblind is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

quote:Originally posted by The Misfit:

Would you waste your time hitting on a lesbian?



YES!

Seriously, I have a hard time believing any one person is COMPLETLY GAY. I think I can take the gayest guy in the world, duct tape him to a chair, and show him porns and nudie pics, and his pants WILL get tighter. If not that's really kinda weird, because it seems like the person does not have the drive to reproduce.
 #17 
Old 2004-03-01, 14:51
Ducky Ducky is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

quote:Originally posted by LSA King:



It don't quite work like that sadly. If your gay keep hush about it just like I don't go running around screaming "I AM STRAIGHT!"

Plus in Homo dominated places like Mass and San Fran they are much more physical and they creep up on you to conform to there ideal.

Basically they are Homo Nazi's. In some places they are literally a gang/mafia.

Exactly. It's not that I have a problem with them being gay, I have a problem when they shove it in my face and make it a problem.
 #18 
Old 2004-03-01, 15:05
Moderator
 
East end
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

Men have this strange idea that any gay bloke they meet is going to try to molest them in some way.

People like myself know that this is not the case.

Some people are just narrow minded, which makes them think that any gay guy is a sex crazed beast when he's anywhere near a human being with balls!

Those are my thoughts!
 #19 
Old 2004-03-01, 15:59
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

Yeah im a dork, but i was watching Degrassi and I saw something where this guy thought this guy liked him just because the guy was gay. It turned out that they gay kid didnt even like him. I think that they are afraid because everyone is kinda bi, and most guys have thought about it. Some are gorssed out, some dont mind, and some like it. I have kissed my bi friend ( he has a bf and gf.) its not that bad, the bad thing is he likes me ( or so my gf told me). I dont care cause its not a big deal. Im already some freaky shit as is.

I can say that regular homosexuality isnt threatning I have a lot of gay/bi friends. but those Raging homosexuals ( you know them) I want to kick there ass casue jsut cause your gay dosnet mean your special, you chose to be gay so you can deal with predjuices and shit.

sorry i got off topic.
 #20 
Old 2004-03-01, 16:06
mrman383 mrman383 is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

quote:Originally posted by psycho_8b:

Men have this strange idea that any gay bloke they meet is going to try to molest them in some way.

People like myself know that this is not the case.

Some people are just narrow minded, which makes them think that any gay guy is a sex crazed beast when he's anywhere near a human being with balls!

Those are my thoughts!

yep, thats how us men are, every last one of us. good thing there are people like you around.
 #21 
Old 2004-03-01, 23:55
Local Hero Local Hero is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

I've no problem with fags. They leave me more women to choose from

And if a fag actually did something suggestive to me, I'd kick his ass in a sec. Then claim self defense.
 #22 
Old 2004-03-02, 10:03
yellowman yellowman is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

Yeah I've got no problems with gay guys but when guys say im cool with them its only because they've never had to actually live with some gay room mate for a long period of time.
 #23 
Old 2004-03-02, 16:54
panic is poison panic is poison is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

quote:Originally posted by mrman383:

yep, thats how us men are, every last one of us. good thing there are people like you around.

Hahahhhahahahaha BRILLIANT!
 #24 
Old 2004-03-02, 17:09
mksnowboarder mksnowboarder is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

quote:Originally posted by Trippy_McGee:

Gay people are just like anybody else.

90% of them should be nailed to a wall.

this has to be the most intelligent view on gay people that i have EVER heard. trippy, do you mind if i quote you on that?

with that said, i dont really have a problem with gay people. personally, the thought of two men having sex makes me want to throw up. but i'm also not so narrow-minded that i think that anyone should base their desicions on what i find appealing or unappealing. i believe i've said it before here on totse, i think gay people are fine, and i have some gay people as "friends", but if one hit on me, i'd break his jaw.

-Ra
 #25 
Old 2004-03-02, 23:44
Johnny_Wild Johnny_Wild is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

I don't think that has ever ran through my head once. Ever. Why the hell would it? I mean, the girls I'm after are usually looking for a man not another friend to get go shopping and get a manicure with.



quote:Originally posted by LSA King:



In some places they are literally a gang/mafia.

Are you serious? When a bunch of gay people get together and dress alike and under-go organized activities, that's called a musical not a gang.
 #26 
Old 2004-03-03, 03:12
Schraff Schraff is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

quote:Originally posted by Johnny_Wild:

Are you serious? When a bunch of gay people get together and dress alike and under-go organized activities, that's called a musical not a gang.



::Chokes on her sardines from laughing so hard::
 #27 
Old 2004-03-04, 23:16
FireBomb FireBomb is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

quote:Originally posted by Schraff:

I totally agree. Although furries do kind of wierd me out.

why do you have a problems with Furs you do know that not all furs are into most fetishes that you see a lot of furs into.

And dont give me that furs are all latent beastialits or some crap like that. It all a lifestyle and rollplaying. I know im a fur my mate is a fur I know tons of furs. yeah some furs include fur in there sex and adult play but its just like rollplaying like everyone else does its a fetish but its also a lifestyle. Furs like myself who are lifestylers we include furry into every part of our lives that doesnt mean we run around in fursuits everywhere but it does mean that we include our animal personalities into who we are and how we act and what we do.

What pisses me off is tons of people think furs are sex craved individuals that do nothing but think about sex when there is a lot more than sex in a furry lifestyle but you tell them to go do research on furry and actually see what its about and there like no i dont care. They dont listen to you they keep thinking what they think and dont take the time to be objective at all.

Also what pisses me off is everyone gets pissy about all the furart they see and that its full of sex and stuff like that but they never think so are reguar lifestyles just take 5 second to search on google and you will find more porn there then you will when you search for furry artwork. The only reason you find adult furry artwork is because we dont charge 30 bucks to see it. Its art work not porn yeah its got a lot of heavey sex in some of it but keep lookin and you will find even more that doesnt have sex in it and is clean. Also look at other artwork thats not furry its got a lot of sex in it too.
 #28 
Old 2004-03-05, 00:23
Regular
 
UK
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

What the fuck is a fur?
 #29 
Old 2004-03-05, 02:49
Schraff Schraff is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

quote:Originally posted by FireBomb:

why do you have a problems with Furs you do know that not all furs are into most fetishes that you see a lot of furs into.

"Methinks the lady doth protest too much"

But seriously, lack of capitalization and run-on sentances annoy me more than furries do. To each his own.
 #30 
Old 2004-03-05, 02:54
Schraff Schraff is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

quote:Originally posted by Oxy-Moron:

What the fuck is a fur?

http://www.portalofevil.com/

Search for "furry".
 #31 
Old 2004-03-05, 03:53
dookiak dookiak is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

I personally live in an area with a lot of gay people, and know a lot of gay people. I have absolutely no problem with the idea of being gay, the only thing that bothers me is the very flamboyant gay people. The type that are very feminine and get all huffy and the such. The real bitches. Now, it is nothing against them, but it is a personality trait I do not like. I can not tolerate it on women, nor can I tolerate it on men, but by hating it on men, some others might look at it as hating gays.

I don't care what your sexual preference is or the things you like to do, its who you are as a person; the attitude.
 #32 
Old 2004-03-05, 04:05
Quantum Quantum is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

Firebomb: Furries don't bother me that much; in fact they are sort of cool(but not cool enough to be one). Animals are cool like foxes, birds, goats ext. However I preFUR(oh P0|\|3D!) humans that look like humans but thats just me. Also I can run up to my friends and scream, "The furries are comeing, the furries are coming!" after we learn about the Revolutionary War where somebody said that but about the Brits.
 #33 
Old 2004-03-05, 06:13
Benchrester Benchrester is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

Why should the ass rangers have MORE rights than the rest of us? The law says, "One man, one woman". Which means the butt munchers CAN get married...so long as it's to a woman. And a dyke CAN get married...so long as it's to a man. I see no problem with that. Would "Mayor" Newsom have had a problem if some guy showed up with a dog and asked for license? How could he, since he arbitarily tossed the law out? Some might argue that the dog can't consent. But, is he NOT consenting? Stick your leg out and if the dog starts humping it, is that consent? One man...one woman.
 #34 
Old 2004-03-05, 08:49
FireBomb FireBomb is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

quote:Originally posted by Benchrester:

Why should the ass rangers have MORE rights than the rest of us? The law says, "One man, one woman". Which means the butt munchers CAN get married...so long as it's to a woman. And a dyke CAN get married...so long as it's to a man. I see no problem with that. Would "Mayor" Newsom have had a problem if some guy showed up with a dog and asked for license? How could he, since he arbitarily tossed the law out? Some might argue that the dog can't consent. But, is he NOT consenting? Stick your leg out and if the dog starts humping it, is that consent? One man...one woman.

You sir are an Idiot plain and simple.
 #35 
Old 2004-03-06, 03:16
Spiffy McBang Spiffy McBang is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

The law is the law.

Which means the law should be changed.

As for the original question... homosexuality doesn't bother me. Screaming flamers bother me- not because they're gay, but because they're a bunch of limp-wristed pussies. (Besides, not all screaming flamers are gay.) I don't handle wimps and crybabies well. But a couple of dudes smoochin? Whatever.
 #36 
Old 2004-03-06, 05:18
Little Pea Little Pea is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

When I was in Arkansas a couple of years ago I went to a gay birthday party. It was my oldest brother's friend's party and there were 0 chick and I think that I was the only straight guy there. A lot of guys were hitting on me, which made me a bit nervous, but after a few beers I was socializing just fine. It was kinda funny, being the only straight guy there that is, because I act and talk and dress like a straight guy while they all had the basic look of that flamer from "Will and Grace". You know, with the neat hair brushed forward with the very front part flared upwards, nice shirts, nice shoes, nice pants. Interesting experience. Nice people too.
 #37 
Old 2004-03-06, 21:48
SpecialK9 SpecialK9 is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

quote:Originally posted by mindnumbinglyintresting:

gay men basicly have (or partialy have) female brains...yada yada yada....



You were either strung out on some drug or you are in immediate need of a lobotomy.

Even, if your brain theory, was right, which it 100% isn't. It doesn't say fuck about what goes on in the brain.

Well, I can at least say, that in your case, it lacks electrical currents.

I could also theorize that, because female brains are smaller, they are dumber than males. Not true either! to say the least. I've never met a woman that was nearly as stupid as you!

Recommendation: Therapy or Lobotomy.

SK9



[This message has been edited by SpecialK9 (edited 03-06-2004).]
 #38 
Old 2004-03-07, 07:04
miridox miridox is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Straight men: Is homosexuality so threatening?

I live in a very straight and conservative community, so I take it as a personal duty to make as many sexual passes on random straight guys, as possible.
 
To the best of our knowledge, the text on this page may be freely reproduced and distributed.
 

totse.com certificate signatures
 
 
About | Community | Bad Ideas | Drugs | Ego | Erotica | Fringe | Society | Technology
Hot Topics