I've never had a BJ before and my gf has never given one before, but she really wants to give me one (lucky me!). The thing is that she doesn't know how (she knows that she has to put her mouth on the penis but that's it). So, my question is: How can I tell her what to do without sounding like a total pig/pervert???

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Watch and learn.

(I know this has been done before, wasn't going for originality)

tell her to stick it her her mouth and suck on it. just tell her to go back an forth. she'll learn quick.

If she wants to learn, you wont sound like a total pervert. If you look back, there are a bunch of topics on how to give a blowjob well. Or you could google it.

...tell her to start by sensually licking the tip and around it. Then move on to long licks up and down the whole thing. Tell her to try to cover the outer edge of her teeth with her lips so as not to bite/scrape with teeth and to put the top part in her mouth and to suck on it and try to massage and lick with her tongue as she goes. Don't suck too hard. Try to take it as far in as she can (let her know that if it starts to even hurt/feel bad/make her want to throw up slightly, stop). Then tell her to take it out a little then go back deeper (as though you were thrusting into her mouth, but with her head doing the moving).

As this is getting done, tell her not to neglect your scrotum. Most guys like to have their balls licked/ touched/ really softly played with during head. Tell her not to be afraid to use her hands however she pleases (ie massaging your pubic area/ rubbing your inner thighs/ giving you a semi hand job as she goes so as to sort of stimulate deep throat if she cant do it). Tell her to keep some spit in her mouth and occasionally lick everywhere or it will be hard for her to do anything.

As she is going about this, she should alternate between things, dont do the same thing over and over or it gets boring for you and for her. Tell her that if she thinks you are going to come, switch it up. That way it will last longer etc.

Last but most definatly not least...SWALLOW! its easier, she will taste it less, and its just plain good manners!

*edit...by the way...you have to be vocal and tell her what feels good. That way she knows when she is doing good and she knows what not to do....and if you feel uncomfortable telling her what to do, print some stuff up or send her links of how to sites. that way she can read up on it before hand.

[This message has been edited by aloneandbroken (edited 03-01-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by aloneandbroken:

...tell her to start by sensually licking the tip and around it.

that's all i read and all i have to say is... wrong. just tell her what you want. get dirty with it.

Stick it in her mouth, tell her what feels good. Everyone likes something different.

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quote:Originally posted by Ashesofstone:

I've never had a BJ before

Tell her that anything is good and she can't fail because you're gonna be excited just by someone besides yourself/mother/doctor touching your dick.