Why is it I always get a great girlfriend who turns out to be a cheater/psycho? My last girlfriend was great and she turned out to be a freak.

And now I just found out that my current girlfriend cheated on me with this guy. Funny thing is, I know, and my girlfriend doesnt know that I already know. She supposed to tell me "something important" tonight in person, but im already feeling like so much shit. She cheated on her last boyfriend, and the one before that too. I have no idea what to do. I really like her, but I dont want her thinking she can just do this whenever the fuck she wants. I hate this

Stab the bitch in the neck with a blunt pencil.

don't tolerate what she did.. even if you like her a lot, don't forgive her.

end it.

The world is full of cheaters, liars, sneaks, and psychos (and Teds).

..can't trust anyone!

quote:Originally posted by RIGHTEOUS IMPIETY:

don't tolerate what she did.. even if you like her a lot, don't forgive her.

end it.

Ditto.... she'll just do it again, and again... she's not worth your time.

-Extant

You, should keep her. Because you are not her

previous men, you are so special (oh I am so proud to know ya). You knew she cheated on her previous men, but you rightly thought, "I

am so way better & special, than those losers

she'll never do dirty to me".

So, you'll see how much I doubt, that you have the facts. How could she cheat on Mr. Special? I mean if you get tired of her, dump

her, you can find more girls just like her if you try. Just find a woman who says the same things & treats people the same.

How can you lose?

quote:Originally posted by RIGHTEOUS IMPIETY:

don't tolerate what she did.. even if you like her a lot, don't forgive her.

end it.That's easier said than done if he really likes her.

I do really like her. I suppose once I talk to her tonight I'll try to see what her side of the story is. Shes out of town right now but her away message online says shes tried of people making up lies about her. Maybe theres two sides to this story. I'lll report back once I talk to her tonight.

she will probably lie, and you know about her history so that doesn't give her story much merit.

don't give in.

Her side of the story? She was in a relationship with you, and she fucked some dude. There's no real excuse for that.

I wont give in, I mainly have it planned on what I'm going to say. I'm not going to be sappy and belive her immediatly when she says "everyone's lying, I didnt do it."

quote:Originally posted by Elfer-:

Her side of the story? She was in a relationship with you, and she fucked some dude. There's no real excuse for that.

She didn't fuck him, she made out with him.

Do as I do. Get naked pictures of the girl. If she cheats put them online. That way if she wants to end it she has to do it nicely. Also there is no excuse for cheating on someone. Not one.

If my girlfriend cheats on me ill put her pics online for u all

quote:Originally posted by Memorex:

She cheated on her last boyfriend, and the one before that too.

What did you expect?

Keep in mind they all seem nice at first. Use some common sense or be abused for life.

I had already liked her too much when I found out about her pervious boyfriends. I didn't care though, I just assumed I was "special" and nothing would happen to me like that. Yeah, I know I was wrong.

I just got back from talking to her. Basically, all that happened was she was drunk and made out with this guy at this party. I told her she can't go on doing that whenever she feels and that I thought that it would stop after her last boyfriend and that I guess I was wrong. She admitted to it up front and said she was real sorry and felt like shit. She told me beforehand that she regretted going and wish she would have been with me. Now I know why. I dont care if I'm a sapp or a dumbass. I really like her and she made one mistake with me. i told her that if anything like this happened again then I would never forgive her and never talk to her again, and that I already dont trust her. she said she was never going to go party for a long time, and was practically in tears the entire time. I like her that much, that I'm giving her another shot. call me stupid, I dont care

yeah, that was probably a bad move.

honestly, if she cheated on you...she'll do it again. once i cheated on my girlfriend, i felt guilty and swore that i would never do it again. and then it happened again...and again. after the first time, i didn't feel bad at all. my advice, dont be so desperate. when girls know that a guy is desperate, they know that they can take advantage of him and they do. have a list of girls in line and if it doesn't work out with one, move on to the next. good luck.

quote:Originally posted by casperc:

Stab the bitch in the neck with a blunt pencil.

Ditto...do it again and again and again.

[This message has been edited by bilzo (edited 03-01-2004).]

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Memorex:

Why is it I always get a great girlfriend who turns out to be a cheater/psycho?



Because you have horrible taste in women? <ducks>

Seriously, though, if you're looking for an exclusive relationship, this isn't your ticket. Dump her.

quote:Originally posted by Memorex:

I had already liked her too much when I found out about her pervious boyfriends. I didn't care though, I just assumed I was "special" and nothing would happen to me like that. Yeah, I know I was wrong.

I just got back from talking to her. Basically, all that happened was she was drunk and made out with this guy at this party. I told her she can't go on doing that whenever she feels and that I thought that it would stop after her last boyfriend and that I guess I was wrong. She admitted to it up front and said she was real sorry and felt like shit. She told me beforehand that she regretted going and wish she would have been with me. Now I know why. I dont care if I'm a sapp or a dumbass. I really like her and she made one mistake with me. i told her that if anything like this happened again then I would never forgive her and never talk to her again, and that I already dont trust her. she said she was never going to go party for a long time, and was practically in tears the entire time. I like her that much, that I'm giving her another shot. call me stupid, I dont care

How can you be so stupid? Oh wait, infatuation.

Son, you can't go through life so blindly. All women have problems, but some have worse problems than others. Don't fuck with this bitch, man. You can't let her play you like that, be a man and make your own rules.

quote:Originally posted by SBTlauien:

my advice, dont be so desperate. when girls know that a guy is desperate, they know that they can take advantage of him and they do. have a list of girls in line and if it doesn't work out with one, move on to the next. good luck.

pay attention here...this is good advice