Ok so me and my girlfriend havent been going out long be i feel i can read her pritty well, and i have this feeling that she likes my friend she seems to laugh at everything he does and talk to him alot,this is starting to get to me alot and i dont know what to do.

quote:Originally posted by casperc:

i can read her pritty well, and i have this feeling that

uh.... ?

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Ok first take a good look at the situation, make sure your not being paranoid, cause youll make youre self look like an ass if you are. If you really believe that something might happen then i would suggest you consult you friend first ie: ask him what he thinks of the situation. If you are like best friends tell him what you think, and he should put you fears to rest. If openly admits to fancying your gf, deck him. To be honest if hes a "real" friend he shouldnt even dream of stealing her. If that fails try consulting your gf, although this is difficult as she could accuse you of being paranoid, overprotective, not trusting her etc. I wouldnt bother enquiring with you gf unless he starts staying round her house/ going out to cinema with her/ drink etc.



Good luck, and if the worst should arise, have a Stella

I know he thinks she is good looking,thats not something he can help she is damn sexy but what i thinking is she maybe likes him and that would suck dick becouse i like her alot, and if they hook up its like loosing a bestfriend and a girlfriend.

if he knows how to spell, she shouldn´t waste her time with you.

I cant spell,but i got a big dick,god just evened it out for me.

So having a girl isn't as easy as you claimed a few days ago now is it?

quote:Originally posted by D-Loc 1605:

So having a girl isn't as easy as you claimed a few days ago now is it?

Consider me owned!

Well mate if your friend even hints that he would steal her, baseball bat his face

hes obviously not worth it

maybe she hooked up with you just to get closer to him. girls are evil. you just have to train yourself to not have those emotional feelings of "love".

they might already be fucking and you have no idea. he just wants sex from her because he is a player, but she wants a relationship with him. the fact that he doesn't want her that bad but is still attracted to her, makes her want him even more. she feels sorry for you because she never wanted to hurt you. she thinks that your a great guy and all, but, she feels that she is to good for you. now, she would never say this, she would instead say that she feels that you two are not right for each other. my advice is to move on to the next girl.

She never hooked up with me to grt closer to him she new him first from collage.

Yea, and after she found out she couldn't get it with him, you were her next choice. Pretty obvious if you ask me...

Cheers,

casperc, this is what so few people would tell you, but it's not that bad of an idea: If she likes him, let them be together. Cut your tie to her, kill the infatuation, and let them date. If she likes him rather than you, there is NOTHING you can do to change that. Play the dignity card: leave the situation before it ruins your friendship. People have no control over who they're attracted to, so if they like eachother, let them be...don't be psychotically attached to her, just let her go, and don't fault your friend if they do hook up.

If they hook up i will stab the shit out of my friend and kick her face till shes ugly and i no longer find her attractive then i will move on.

You don't belong in the dating arena if you get attached that quickly. How old are you? 14? Pain's part of love, deal with it.

I would tell him that if he trys anything, I would gut him like a fish, and then dump him in the fucking river. Make sure you have a knife in your hand when you do it, and stab and slash the air when you say it to further make your point. It works, I have done it, and the guy never came back. Just don't let her find out.