ok...I have been going out with my girl friend for like 6 months. we do stuff like the HJ, fingerin, and that kind of stuff. well, i kinda wanna do more...not sex, but like oral and stuff like that. She doesn't really think we should yet...What the hell do i do? I really wanna do that stuff. I want serious responces. Not, "tell her to suck you off, or she gone"! please help.....

thanks

[This message has been edited by bond007 (edited 02-29-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by bond007:

She does really think we should yet...What the hell do i do?

i'm assuming you mean "she doesn't really think we should yet"

do you know why? if not, maybe you should ask

[This message has been edited by RIGHTEOUS IMPIETY (edited 02-29-2004).]

eat her our first

make a liquid transition from fingering her to putting ur mouth there

if u do it right she wont pull away- or if she does LIGHTLY refuse

if she insists then allow her to choose

Mantrid, he said she doesn't want to yet, you can't just start licking her if she doesn't want any of it.

Perhaps she feels uncomfortable, tell her you'd enjoy it.

It might be possible to persuade her, but it depends on your circumstances, ages, and general experience.

Consider whether accelerating things would put her in a position of being more clingy, or more demanding in the relationship. You might find yourself at the mercy of some drama if she in any way feels "guilty" or "weird" about intimacy.

It's always best to let these things progress at a comfortable rate, but if you find you're not getting what you need/want, it's best to move on rather than deal with drama.

If have the answer to all you problems.

Get her drunk and take advantage of her. When she comes round in the morning tell her she made you do it.

[This message has been edited by Stalker141 (edited 03-01-2004).]

Thanks for all the help. I hate waiting for all this to "gradually" happen, but I guess I'll just wait. Thanks again for the advise.

I dont' knwo about anybody else. But I clicked on this and its all fucked up. Can't help ya with what youre asking as i didn't read it but wow its fucked up on the side. hot topics is on the bottum right.

and there isn't the normal navigation bar there

dry spell then tease her

Slowly move down on here while you are fingering here do it smoothly and she won't resist, as for you flovoured condoms are a godsend for less outgoing chicks.

flavored condoms? shit i wouldnt even take the head if my gf made me wear a condom