There is a fucking conspiracy about damn near everything related to sex. There are no clear answers on if a girls first time hurts, there's no clear answer on what the average penis size is, there's no clear answer on whether or not men can have multiple orgasms, there's no clear answer on which is better between circumsized and un-circumsized. I mean, there's the generally accepted answers, but it seems that you can't be sure about anything realated to sex.



It's kind of ironic that the thing most people need advice on is the one thing that almost guarantees a vague answer. It's like, you can tell someone that 6 inches is average all day long but let someone say it's 7 and people would rather think they're inadequate instead of calling someone on their bullshit. Then on the flipside, some people say obviously false things like 3 inches is average just to boost peoples fragile egoes.

It rare to get really useful info on taboo subjects. The thing is, there's no reason for it to be taboo. All this does is make a world full of mis-informed people. I figure if we can fly to the moon or land stuff on mars, we can certainly give the majority of people accurate information on something we will (hopefully) all experience at one time or another.

quote:Originally posted by ChubZero:

There is a fucking conspiracy about damn near everything related to sex.

Doubtful.

quote:Originally posted by ChubZero:

There are no clear answers on if a girls first time hurts,

It does for some girls, for others, it does not. If the girl is very aroused, and already has stretched out her vaginal entrance, she should be ok.

quote:Originally posted by ChubZero:

there's no clear answer on what the average penis size is,

About six and a one quarter inches.

quote:Originally posted by ChubZero:

there's no clear answer on whether or not men can have multiple orgasms,

Some can, some cannot. Try it out for yourself.

quote:Originally posted by ChubZero:

clear answer on which is better between

circumsized and un-circumsized.

It is a matter of opinion for most girls.

quote:Originally posted by ChubZero:

I mean there's the generally accepted answers, but it seems that you can't be sure about anything realated to sex.

Of course you cannot, if you could, then it wouldn't be sex.

quote:Originally posted by ChubZero:

It's kind of ironic that the thing most people need advice on is the one thing that almost guarantees a vague answer. It's like, you can tell someone that 6 inches is average all day long but let someone say it's 7 and people would rather think they're inadequate instead of calling someone on their bullshit.

That is because most people that post a thread like that want to believe that they do have a small penis, it isn't a consious thought though.

quote:Originally posted by ChubZero:

Then on the flipside, some people say obviously false things like 3 inches is average just to boost peoples fragile egoes.

Anyone that says a three inch erect penis is the average needs to get his/her head examined.

quote:Originally posted by ChubZero:

It rare to get really useful info on taboo subjects. The thing is, there's no reason for it to be taboo. All this does is make a world full of mis-informed people. I figure if we can fly to the moon or land stuff on mars, we can certainly give the majority of people accurate information on something we will (hopefully) all experience at one time or another.

No, you can get really good info on most any subject if only you search.

Guswut, you seem to get what I was pointing out, the only thing is most people want a definite answer on things that just don't have one. Like how you said the average size is 6.25 inches. Lets say somebody had a 5 inch penis and somebody asked them what was average. They would say 5 inches. This happens so often that there isn't a definite answer. Then, the statistics they give sometimes seem unbelievable. It is said that only 20% of men have a penis bigger than 6.25, but being 15 with 7 inches I can honestly say it seems inaccurate. I guess it's funny that people expect sexual questions to have definite answers, when in reality, pretty much nothing does. I think I'm kind of contradicting my previous post a little, but it's true either way you look at it.

quote:Originally posted by ChubZero:

Guswut, you seem to get what I was pointing out, the only thing is most people want a definite answer on things that just don't have one. Like how you said the average size is 6.25 inches. Lets say somebody had a 5 inch penis and somebody asked them what was average. They would say 5 inches. This happens so often that there isn't a definite answer. Then, the statistics they give sometimes seem unbelievable. It is said that only 20% of men have a penis bigger than 6.25, but being 15 with 7 inches I can honestly say it seems inaccurate. I guess it's funny that people expect sexual questions to have definite answers, when in reality, pretty much nothing does. I think I'm kind of contradicting my previous post a little, but it's true either way you look at it.

I understand how you are thinking, but you have to understand that just because you've got an above average penis doesn't mean that the average is wrong. All it means is that you are above average, as I myself am average.

Anyways, all of these averages aren't the real average until someone talks to EVERYONE, but they must be somewhat close.

quote:Originally posted by Guswut:

I understand how you are thinking, but you have to understand that just because you've got an above average penis doesn't mean that the average is wrong. All it means is that you are above average, as I myself am average.

Anyways, all of these averages aren't the real average until someone talks to EVERYONE, but they must be somewhat close.

That's EXACTLY what I mean. I'm just stating that alot of people twist around the facts to better suit what they have/want. In my case, it's a matter of it feeling like " come on now, that HAS to be wrong". It's just that I didn't figure my penis was so rare.j/k Seriously though, it's just that alot people act like no information pertaining to sex is credible if it isn't EXACTLY correct. This is probably what makes it so difficult for people to discuss sexual matters openly. I think this is a possible scenario people are afraid of encountering:

Person A: "Dude, my dick is average. It's 6 inches."

Person B: " Dude, your dick is small cuz mine is 8 inches."

Person A: * hangs head in embarassment*

I guess it's just that most people have unrealistic expectations of sex.

You are asking for accurate information on shit that doesn’t matter. Everyone is what they are. They just need to learn to develop their sexuality. The first step is learning that your sexuality is located between your ears. The “facts” you are concerned about are just academic.

"The metaphysically given must be accepted as absolute."

~Rand

I'm not asking for information, I'm only saying that I think the reason alot of people can't get the sexual information they need/want is because it's such a taboo subject, and it doesn't help when people twist the facts up.

I know what you mean ChubZero. People are always asking about questions with no definate answer. I don't think it's a conspiracy though, the only explanation I can think of is just that people are different; for some things there just aren't averages, and people need to understand that. I mean as far as dick size goes, and everyone always wondering whether they are alright, it all just depends on too many things to say. I don't know. I'm a bit below average and I don't care so whatever. Alright enough of my drunken ramblings...

I don't think you are getting my point Chub. Even if they could get accurate consistant answers, they are still asking the wrong questions.

quote:Originally posted by Easy Going:

I don't think you are getting my point Chub. Even if they could get accurate consistant answers, they are still asking the wrong questions.

I get what you're saying, but the fact is that even though they might be the wrong questions, people still ask them. Regardless of why they ask them, they do. Even if only out of curiosity. I don't really care about trivial things like penis size, but people still shouldn't twist the information. That just makes people worry about it more than they have to. What if half the world said told a toddler 2+2=5 and the other half told him 2+2=4? He wouldn't know what to believe. I hope you understand where I'm going with this.



I think twisting any information is wrong no matter what that information is.

You honestly lost me at "Hello".

If you listen to call-in sex shows or read the questions in help columns, people ask the same questions: Over & over & over.

It's partly that their friends/acquantances, don't know much, but like to feel cool, so they repeat the same, stupid misinformation over & over. Trouble is, 'cause they know so

little, the wrong info gets twisted into new wrong info.

Surely, you've noticed people doing that about anything, not just sex. It gives

folks a thrill, to be in-the-know. It don't actually matter, if they are or not. It

just matters to them that they can wear a knowing "smirk". The smirk, often brings just

the sweetest "twinge", in the pants.

Try it! Works huh?