yeah so im 15 and i lost my virginity about a month and a half ago to some chic. i used protection AND i didnt even come. well here it is a month and a half later and she thinks shes pregnant and im freakin cuz this could ruin my life. does anyone know any drugs she could abuse that would make her have a miscarriage?

Why does she think she's pregnant, and how do you know you're the father... I'm not saying it's impossible that you impregnated her (assuming you're telling the truth about using a condom and not coming), just that for all intents and purposes, it is indeed impossible for you to have impregnated her.

If it has been that long, tests would now work. Get one done. She is probably just late.

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Follow their advice.

If what you say is true, I'd be amazed if she were pregnant by you.

And what makes her "think" she's pregnant? Sounds like she's getting all worked up and the stress is messing with her menstrual cycle. Quit contemplating drug abuse and get a test.

quote:Originally posted by br14n:

yeah so im 15 and i lost my virginity about a month and a half ago to some chic. i used protection AND i didnt even come. well here it is a month and a half later and she thinks shes pregnant and im freakin cuz this could ruin my life. does anyone know any drugs she could abuse that would make her have a miscarriage?

What do you mean "she thinks"? A month into it you would KNOW if your pregnant. Tell her to hit herself in the stomach as hard as she can a couple times a day for a week if she wants to make sure she has a miscarriage.

quote:Originally posted by LSA King:

What do you mean "she thinks"? A month into it you would KNOW if your pregnant. Tell her to hit herself in the stomach as hard as she can a couple times a day for a week if she wants to make sure she has a miscarriage.

Not only is that a stupid idea, it also wouldn't work. No one would be able to punch themselves in the stomach hard enough to miscarriage the child, the human mind won't allow it at all.

Listen to Deadlycindy, get a damn pregnancy test, and if it turns out positive, take her down to a abortion clinic.



[This message has been edited by Guswut (edited 02-29-2004).]

Drug abuse to cause a miscarraige??? I hope you end up with a retarded crackbaby you have to look after.

They have pills to abort the baby in the first trimester. It's like 95% effective too. But yea, have you ever thought maybe she had sex with someone else?

no, she def didnt do it with anyone else.

I just went thru the same thing. Only the condom ripped and I bought her the monring after pill. What you need to do is get her an at-home pregnancy test. If shes positive, I suggest you sit down with your parents and talk to them about this. If they know you acted about it a mature way (Your only 15), they will be far less disapointed then if you had just been freaking out. If she's not, then breathe a sigh of relief and get another test a week later to just make sure (Pregnancy tests can sometimes give false negatives). If you can't tell your parents, look up a Planned Parenthood institute that is around where you live. Talk to them about it and find out what you can do. As far as I know, everything they do is held in confidence. Good luck to you and I hope she isn't pregnant.

you see? this is why you should vote for the democrats, becaus they support abortions(sp?)!!

hope it'll work out man, becaus, yeah, it really could ruin you'r life!

//Do'h!!!//

Dude, a lot of young girls will say they are pregnant for the attention, to get a guy to stay with her, and marry her, or to try to save a relationship. I now have a 4 year old, because this bitch said she was pregnant, got me to stop using condoms, then got pregnant, cheated on me, and fucked with my head by saying it want my kid, or that it might be.

She went back and forth the whole pregnancy, until the baby was about 3 months old, then I ordered a paternity test, Shes mine, and now the bitch doesnt let me see her, demands extra money(in addition to child support) when I do, and moved about 1500 miles away, without giving me any phone number or address, all the while telling my daughter I am not her Dad.



Trust me dude, if this girl ends up not pregnant, GET THE FUCK AWAY! Please learn from my fucked up life. I love my daughter, but it hurts so much not to see her or talk to her. You don't want that kind of pain.

quote:Originally posted by Guswut:

Not only is that a stupid idea, it also wouldn't work. No one would be able to punch themselves in the stomach hard enough to miscarriage the child, the human mind won't allow it at all.

[This message has been edited by Guswut (edited 02-29-2004).]

Although I can't say this from experience (and neither can you), I think one could will themselves to miscarriage their own child. We aren't robots. There aren't things we simply CAN'T do.

I think it just comes down to how much compassion you have for the child, and if it is even a child yet. If I was a girl, and there were no physical signs of preganancy (ie. my stomach wasn't big), I wouldn't care about trying to miscarriage the baby. Now, when the baby was starting to show signs of life...thats a different story (but it still depends on the compassion for the child.

Regardless, its a stupid idea when you could just get an abortion. BTW, can't miscarriages be potentially fatal to the mother?

quote:Originally posted by stupid noob:

Dude, a lot of young girls will say they are pregnant for the attention, to get a guy to stay with her, and marry her, or to try to save a relationship. I now have a 4 year old, because this bitch said she was pregnant, got me to stop using condoms, then got pregnant, cheated on me, and fucked with my head by saying it want my kid, or that it might be.

She went back and forth the whole pregnancy, until the baby was about 3 months old, then I ordered a paternity test, Shes mine, and now the bitch doesnt let me see her, demands extra money(in addition to child support) when I do, and moved about 1500 miles away, without giving me any phone number or address, all the while telling my daughter I am not her Dad.



Trust me dude, if this girl ends up not pregnant, GET THE FUCK AWAY! Please learn from my fucked up life. I love my daughter, but it hurts so much not to see her or talk to her. You don't want that kind of pain.

Dude that really sucks ass. But not all girls are heartless bitches that would do something so cruel as that. But if the girl is pregnet do a paternity test or what ever it is to see if its your if it is don't stay with the girl but don't just leave your kid alone you don't have to be together with the girl to support your kid pay child support as long as she allows you to see the kid. Good luck and hopefully for your sake shes just lieing/wrong.

Honestly, it's rare that a first-time pregnancy is so subtle that a female isn't absolutely certain something's amiss. Unless she is used to feeling sick all the time: extreme fatigue, dizziness, boobs that hurt like a motherfucker, sudden aversions to food normally enjoyed, terrible nausea and most likely, copious vomiting.