I often find that my girlfriend and I just stand around akwardly. Like when say good bye we make out and all that good stuff, but when we are together normally rarely have any kind of physical contact. Putting my arm around just feels to fake. Keep in mind I am 17, and in highschool. So that is where most of our time together takes place.

It's kind of hard to mack on your woman in school. There are some exceptions; dances, club meetings, pep assemblies, and so on and so forth. You have tons of places to go and be alone, thats if you don't see each other outside of school very often. But if you have a car, license, insurance, and all that crap. This whole topic is irrelavent (sp? too lazy to look up) Because you need to have a little after school "help." Which I'm sure you're thinking "Hell yeah." If it's not that, I better have gotten close. lol

Yea this is how it was with my last girl. The only time we got together was at school since she could never do anything. So we would basicly just stand around when we were together but I had my arm around her while I was with her and would kiss her every now and then I didn't make out with her at school but its not always comfortable to make out with a girl/boy in front of others. What do you mean putting your arm around her feels fake? This makes like no sense to me.

Maybe your not talking enough? You should feel comfortable around your gf, otherwise it might fall apart, even if your in public, who gives a damn, the worst they can do is laugh, when really all they are is jelouse....

But if you like putting your arm around her, do it regardless of who is watching you. Your school mates will probably be jealous that they don't have a girl to put their arm(s) around.

The weird feeling goes away in time.

EDIT: Spliced Ice made a good point.

[This message has been edited by Joeb (edited 02-26-2004).]

slap her ass and bite her

Let your hand rest on her shoulder or buttock. Briefly and firmly. Damn young kids today. Tsk tsk tsk.