Well im in a really fucked up situation and may have to risk a hole lot, possible jail time, to be with the girl I love with all my heart. Im just curious how much others would be ready to risk to be with their love if someone said they couldn't see them again. Ill tell my story right now im in love with this girl in florida(not a girl I met on internet we met last time I was visiting my family) and we both really liked eachother and kept in touch and over time it became love, well her parents were against me and her being together this summer from the begginng but now they found her diary(we planned to loose our virginity together) and said I can't see her and even told me Id rot in hell before I talk or see her again. I am going to talk to her this weekend and all so I was going to plan on what were going to do to be together. Right now im willing to drive there from Az, and bust her door down and take her away with me even if her dad tried to stop me, the only thing that will stop me from being with her again is a 12gauge shot gun but that would only delay it since my love is true. So what are you guys willing to do for your love?

"We started out like Romeo and Juliet but ended in tragedy." (Milhouse Van Houten)

Sorry, your story reminded me of that quote.

Keep in mind that once she's 18 she can do as she pleases. This will probably occur well before you "rot in hell".

But that wasn't your concern. I have nothing relevant to say, sorry again.

Girls still write in Diarys? I would never leave anything I didn't want my parents to see in my room. That is the first place they would look.

I also think it is fucked up that they would read her diary. Mind you if I was the parent of a girl I would read her diary, just to make sure she wasn't doing anything to harm herself.

But honestly, how old is she. If she is over 17 (or 16) then her parents shouldn't be all anal about it. I would be willing to bet they didn't wait untill they were married to lose the're virginity.

Tally the pros and the cons (and the jail time). If the pros outwiegh the cons, then do it. If the cons outwiegh the pros, then I would think about not doing it. Either way good luck.

Well I even told her step mom that shes a nosey bitch for reading it and cussed her out for being such a bitch to me(have to write her an apology so seeing my love is easier). My love is 14 im 16 I know you may say your to young to be in love but I didn't rush and just say I love you we knew each other a year before I realized I loved her. And her dad and step mom are very protective of her they didn't let her talk to me before they found out we were going to loose our virginity. Im just curious what lenghts others are willing to go to for their loved ones and the pros out weigh the cons by far pros Spend time with my beloved, happiness cons possible jail, possible fight with her dad, possible restraining order(could care less if they tried to enforce it), possible her parents move(id still find her)

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

"We started out like Romeo and Juliet but ended in tragedy." (Milhouse Van Houten)



Lmao nice quote you aimless wonder...

~H

quote:Originally posted by AprenticeChemist:

Well I even told her step mom that shes a nosey bitch for reading it and cussed her out for being such a bitch to me(have to write her an apology so seeing my love is easier). My love is 14 im 16 I know you may say your to young to be in love but I didn't rush and just say I love you we knew each other a year before I realized I loved her. And her dad and step mom are very protective of her they didn't let her talk to me before they found out we were going to loose our virginity. Im just curious what lenghts others are willing to go to for their loved ones and the pros out weigh the cons by far pros Spend time with my beloved, happiness cons possible jail, possible fight with her dad, possible restraining order(could care less if they tried to enforce it), possible her parents move(id still find her)

Id say go for the gusto, dont ever let law or parents turn you away from anything you ever want to do. It may sound kinda ignorant but its kinda how i have always been. Personaly cops scare the shit out of me and id never want to be on the wrong side of them, so be careful and always keep an eye out for the back exit...

But im sure you can see why they would be worried even if you dont agree with it. They dont think you can love somebody over a computer, they dont think your 16, and they dont like the idea of a penis inside their daughter. So before you make their fears worse by doing some stupid thing, ring the fucking doorbell and bring some roses for the mom and fucking talk with them, words will work wonders...

~H

Ok they know im 16 ive met her in person in the flesh we spent time together during the summer, her step mom and dad haven't met me but her real mom has so they know im not some creepy old guy but they some how think im going to ruin her life like I ruined mine but they don't know me so they wouldn't know if I ruined my life. Ok lets get off the subject of what im willing to do and post what you guys are willing to do I wasn't asking for advice since ive already made my mind up what im willing to do I just have to talk to her and find out what shes willing to risk for it to work. Im just curious about what others are willing to do in the name of love. Oh and I wasn't trying to be an asshole or say it in a mean way if anything I said came out that way. And its to late for roses seeing as I cussed her step mom out and called her a nosy bitch(will be sending her an apology for that) and either way her parents don't like me for some reason.



edit- and thanks to all those that support this

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^ Shit yeah (to Halifax). Something like this happened to me. Change step-mom to mom, diary to note, and age 16 and 14 to 13 and 11 (happened 2 years ago). Thats my version of the same situation.

First off, the whole cussing her out thing was DEFINITELY the wrong thing to do. Yes, in your eyes she might have been wrong for what she did, but she's STILL the mother and the only thing stopping you from seeing her now. I don't honestly think kissing ass is going to help you in this situation, seeing as how her mom was already being a bitch to you, now from now on she'll have a damn good reason.

This is why most people have trouble with in-laws, you have to GAIN her trust and respect, not force it. In my case, I already HAD her trust, so when she found out about the note, she trusted me enough to let me continue seeing her daughter, trusting that I wouldn't have sex with her.

I guess what I'm saying is, while she might have been wrong, you STILL didn't respect her decision as a parent. There's really no reason she should let you see her daughter.



Oh, and how much am I willing to risk for my beloved? I can't say. All I HAVE is my beloved.

[This message has been edited by ChubZero (edited 02-26-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by AprenticeChemist:

the only thing that will stop me from being with her again is a 12gauge shot gun but that would only delay it since my love is true.

Oh yeah, and while your love might be true, you sure as hell aren't bullet-proof. I know you were probably trying to be dramatic or something, but that's the dumbest thing I've heard all day.

quote:Originally posted by ChubZero:

Oh yeah, and while your love might be true, you sure as hell aren't bullet-proof. I know you were probably trying to be dramatic or something, but that's the dumbest thing I've heard all day.

I didn't mean id only be delyed by being shot I meant that I would leave and comeback another day. As for cussing the mom out she said she was disapointed in me and I cussed her out said I was sorry and that it wasn't her fault and was just in bad mood(found out I may never again see Beloved) and she has the balls to go and say well I dont care your still never going to talk/see her again and I lost it because at this point I didn't care what happended because I thought it was hopeless and wished for death thats the short and to the point version. And I had her real moms trust but since they found the diary I don't think shell trust me to much since I lied to her even though she was semi cool about us.

id take a bullet for my old girl staight out.

Man you are like a little me listen to my story its exactlly the same.

My now girlfriend/housewife/mother of my child used to life at home with her parents and they absolutely hated me for some reason. Just like the story the kid is goin on about that started this thread.

Anyways point being is all i wanted was to be with her 24/7 and start a life together without parents like hers.

Anyways what i did was take them from her parenst and she and my lil girl now live with me in our own place like our own family. I made my women realise having parents like hers inst fair on anyone especially her. There is overprotective and obsessive. The second option isnt good on the kid involved and maybe there wouldnt be so much drugs and violence if parents realised the effects they have on there children.

I risked everything and the safety of my own mother by having them stay at my place while her dad was looking for her.

Every penny i ever saved i put into our house and furniture and look were we are now. Happy and in love.

Go for it man Romeo and Juliet live stories and apparent in the movies but are real and we need to remember that.

Fuck whats the point of life if it isnt making a family and falling in love.

KILL HER PARENTS THATS WHAT I DID.

Well although I doubt you really killed your girls parents I would not be willing to do that because she still loves her dad. And im not homicidal I could barly hurt a fly(unless you hurt a loved one in which there would be great repremation/ vengence) so I know I could not kill. But if she agreed with me and felt the same way as I do I would throw my life away and run away with her forever.

Well you should do whatever your heart tells you to do, but before you do, consider this: She's 14. She's still growing and changing and she might break your heart. Oddly enough, when I was 14, I had a long distance relationship with a 16 year old, and after a while it got so we saw eachother too little, fought too much, and eventually another guy closer to home stole my heart. I felt horrible about it, but that's just the way it went. So before you risk too much, consider how much she might change and if it's worth it. Just my 2 cents.

-Krissy

Ok well it looks like im running away to be with her. Im not running away to just be with her theres other things but the main thing is ill be with her and I will have risked just about everything. Ill be leaving in a month or so since I still have to save some money up to fly down there and get on a stable path. Thanks for the imput and supports.

Sorry for bringing up this dead topic.