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Old 2004-02-25, 07:52
8abs10fingers 8abs10fingers is offline
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I hunged out with a girl I liked tonight and whos very pretty.



I always wanna make a move, try something to get closer but as always she had 2 friends with her and I feel kind of akward doing that shit in front of them.



Should I even feel akward? i like the girl alot, we even flirt alot and hide it, or i think we do.

She'll be talking to me, and I'll be looking directly into her eyes, and she'll stare directly back into mine for awhile and i love that moment.

what can i do to make the move or know she wants me to make a move ? ?

EDITED --

more importantly i do feel this girl alot. i know she is waiting for a move. i see the obvious signs, but why is she having her friends with her all the time? me and her use to hang out and it'd be just us.

she knows i want her, i make it clear. i look and stare at her body all the time in front of her. HECK i can even see from the corner of my eye her occasionally looking/staring at me!

how can i go about putting the move on this girl?

i try to get her and me alone all the time, even asked her to see a movie 2mrw and that i'd pay for everything, and she said "can -insert name here- come" who is a girl friend of hers, who i may add is bi and gets it on with girls.

[This message has been edited by 8abs10fingers (edited 02-25-2004).]
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Old 2004-02-25, 09:07
Trippy_McGee Trippy_McGee is offline
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Jesus christ!

*hangs self*
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Old 2004-02-25, 09:08
Trippy_McGee Trippy_McGee is offline
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quote:Originally posted by 8abs10fingers:

who i may add is bi and gets it on with girls.

Bi and gets it on with girls???? My my, that's a strange combination.

*hangs self further*
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Old 2004-02-25, 10:10
8abs10fingers 8abs10fingers is offline
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yes i should of left it with bi, obviously by stating she is bi you know she'd get it on with girls.



once again no help for the man with 8abs and 10fingers.
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Old 2004-02-25, 10:37
SilentKill SilentKill is offline
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quote:Originally posted by 8abs10fingers:

I hunged out with a girl

Hung Out.



quote:i try to get her and me alone all the time, even asked her to see a movie 2mrw and that i'd pay for everything, and she

2mrw isn't a word.

Guys always pay for the girl, it's just how it goes. Don't think you're anything special by being all so Macho and Brave buy paying for her movie wich is only a few dollars.
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Old 2004-02-25, 10:45
8abs10fingers 8abs10fingers is offline
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i did not think i was being macho by paying for the movie. she asked if i could. yes i know thats how it usually is, guy pay for girl. which is 4.50$.



ok so you seem to of gotten me on my bad grammar.
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Old 2004-02-25, 11:14
SilentKill SilentKill is offline
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Ok man, it's cool.

Best thing to to is be or pretend to be drunk , therefor you can make moves and blame it on the alcohol if she doesn't hook up with you.. it works like a charm

as you wont ruin it ... as much...
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Old 2004-02-25, 11:27
CatharticWeek CatharticWeek is offline
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quote:Originally posted by Trippy_McGee:

Jesus christ!

*hangs self*

No, I believe it's "hunged self".
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Old 2004-02-25, 14:01
Trippy_McGee Trippy_McGee is offline
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quote:Originally posted by SilentKill:

Best thing to to is be or pretend to be drunk ,

You should do that 24/7. Hopefully people will assume you're an alcoholic instead of wondering whether you're really dumb, or slightly retarded.
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Old 2004-02-25, 16:50
8abs10fingers 8abs10fingers is offline
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The acting drunk thing is a so-so idea.



I'd rather just act myself, cause in a matter of time it'll happen.



Just wish she'd leave her friends behind one time.
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Old 2004-02-26, 01:58
jojabr jojabr is offline
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...

You're sure she's straight?

If she always wants to hang out with her bi friend, then, you know.. well you might not.

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Old 2004-02-26, 02:53
The Misfit The Misfit is offline
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you aska girl to out on a date and she brings her bisexual friend along...where's the problem?

If you want to make a move on this girl you just need to figure out how to get her alone, since i don't know you're schedule that's about as much advice as i can give. Except...maybe she likes you but is nervous about being alone with you etc. etc.

ninjas
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Old 2004-02-26, 03:53
Corrupt Civilian Corrupt Civilian is offline
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quote:Originally posted by 8abs10fingers:

I hunged out with a girl I liked tonight and whos very pretty.



I always wanna make a move, try something to get closer but as always she had 2 friends with her and I feel kind of akward doing that shit in front of them.



Should I even feel akward? i like the girl alot, we even flirt alot and hide it, or i think we do.

She'll be talking to me, and I'll be looking directly into her eyes, and she'll stare directly back into mine for awhile and i love that moment.

what can i do to make the move or know she wants me to make a move ? ?

EDITED --

more importantly i do feel this girl alot. i know she is waiting for a move. i see the obvious signs, but why is she having her friends with her all the time? me and her use to hang out and it'd be just us.

she knows i want her, i make it clear. i look and stare at her body all the time in front of her. HECK i can even see from the corner of my eye her occasionally looking/staring at me!

how can i go about putting the move on this girl?

i try to get her and me alone all the time, even asked her to see a movie 2mrw and that i'd pay for everything, and she said "can -insert name here- come" who is a girl friend of hers, who i may add is bi and gets it on with girls.

[This message has been edited by 8abs10fingers (edited 02-25-2004).]

Man...your story sounds interesting actually. I kinda wanna be in your shoes so I can try some stuff.

Anyway, to try to answer your question let's begin.

The main points of your post are as follows:

1. She's pretty and you hang out with her.

2. It's awkward to ask her out in front of others. You're unsure about things.

3. She makes eye contact with you.

4. You don't know how to make a move.

5. She likes to have her friends around.

6. You think she knows you want her and she possibly wants you.

7. You've attempted to get a date with her but she brings up her girl friends.

Seems you need to steal her away from her girlies for a couple minutes, go off and make her laugh, then casually ask her if she wants to go see a movie or something this weekend. If she makes a interjection about her friend coming along, make a joke about having two chicks at the same time or something.

You know how to do this! Play it smooth and don't compromise. You run the show and since she wants you, you got the advantage. Sweep in for the kill!
 
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