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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2004-02-24, 03:25
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SBTlauien 
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Girl Situation
okay, ill try to make this short instead of long like my other post.
i meet her on the night of Febuary 15. after the party, we messed around in my car. she sucked my dick, i ate her out, i fingered her, whe jerked me off, but we didn't have sex and neither of us had an orgasm.
my friend is now dating her best friend. but on friday wasn't dating her. my friend told me that she wanted to hang out with me again, so we all hung out on friday. we all played pool and then went into the woods to drink. my friend and his girl wondered off and had sex. me and my girl messed around but didn't have sex. later that night after dropping my friend off and his girl off, me and her ending up having sex.
the next day, saturday, we all hung out again. i had sex with her again.
the next day, sunday, i called her and talked to her for about 15 minutes.
now it's monday and im trying to figure out when to call her again. she is kindof grounded but her mom wants to meet me. should i give her a call tonight and see if she wants to sneak out and hang out(have sex) or should i wait until tommarrow and see if she wants me to meet her parents?
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#2
 2004-02-24, 03:29
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Re: Girl Situation
i should add this to it too. on friday night when my friend and his girl were about to leave into the woods to have sex. my friend heard my girl say 'he has a girlfriend' and at that time i did have a grilfriend. i broke up with her saturday during the day.
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#3
 2004-02-24, 03:35
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Re: Girl Situation
you should wait until tomorrow to see her, but maybe you should call her tonight to let her know that you don't have a girlfriend anymore.
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#4
 2004-02-24, 03:39
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Re: Girl Situation
but how could i call and say that? if she asked me, im just going to say that we broke up a while ago and thats what ill tell everyone else. im afraid that it i call tonight, she may start to think that i like her a lot and it may make her like me less. on the friday that we all hung out, my friends girl told him that she 'likes me likes me', what ever that means. im afraid that it'll change though.
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#5
 2004-02-24, 04:14
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Re: Girl Situation
reading she "likes me likes me" made my night. Thanks so much!
But you could always call her and say "by the way, i got the impression that you thought I had a girl friend" and then go on to explain that you were going to break up with her before you met her (no one can prove that you weren't) and meeting her made you realize that you were sure that things were over between the two of you. If you try to tell her that you had been broken up for a while you WILL get caught.
If she is grounded and her mother wants to meet you DO NOT try to get her to sneak out. If yall get caught the mother will never forgive you. Just call her tomorrow. She'll let you know if she wants you to meet her mom.
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#6
 2004-02-24, 04:19
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Re: Girl Situation
I refuse to help you, you cheating scumbag!
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#7
 2004-02-24, 04:23
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Re: Girl Situation
would it be better to just not say anything about it and wait until she asked. some guy that i kindof know came into my work today and asked me if i was still with my girlfriend and for some reason, i have a feeling that she sent him in. i dont know what to do.
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#8
 2004-02-24, 04:28
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Re: Girl Situation
My friend, you are quite the player.
You met a new girl and fucked here twice in under a week, and you had a girlfriend at the same time!
You are my idol.
Good Job!
[This message has been edited by Cytract (edited 02-24-2004).]
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#9
 2004-02-24, 05:23
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Re: Girl Situation
quote:Originally posted by Cytract:
My friend, you are quite the player.
You met a new girl and fucked here twice in under a week, and you had a girlfriend at the same time!
You are my idol.
Good Job!
[This message has been edited by Cytract (edited 02-24-2004).]
im not though. even though this has happened before... i just want a girlfriend. a good girlfriend. but i keep on losing them and move on.
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#10
 2004-02-25, 04:48
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Re: Girl Situation
alright, i called her house at 7:30pm and her brother(i think) answered, i asked if she was there and he said no, so i asked if he would tell her that i called and he said okay. then i said bye and he said bye. it is now 8:30pm and she has not called back yet. how many days should i wait until calling her back? what if she never calls me back? should i call her? what do i do?
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#11
 2004-02-25, 05:15
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Re: Girl Situation
if she doesn't return your call in a day or two, you have two choices. You could nosy around and try to figure out if she like likes you for sure by what others say. Or you could just call her again. *better idea* If you are worried about seeming clingy, just invite her somewhere. It doesn't even have to be a date, just hanging out with some friends or something. That way, she will let you know if she is interested or not by her response, and if she is, you get to spend a day with her. Its delightful either way. Good luck!
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#12
 2004-02-25, 10:56
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Re: Girl Situation
quote:Originally posted by aloneandbroken:
if she doesn't return your call in a day or two, you have two choices. You could nosy around and try to figure out if she like likes you for sure by what others say. Or you could just call her again. *better idea* If you are worried about seeming clingy, just invite her somewhere. It doesn't even have to be a date, just hanging out with some friends or something. That way, she will let you know if she is interested or not by her response, and if she is, you get to spend a day with her. Its delightful either way. Good luck!
cool cool. she didn't call me back tonight, so i am thinking, what if i just wait for a call from her. tonight i hung out with a friend(guy), an old friend(girl) from high school and whatnot and two new kids that i just meet. we went to a little get-to-gather and drank. shit went down, my friend ending up having shit with some other guy and i guess he ending up punching one of the new kids that i met. ill just wait for her to call and if she doesn't, then, i guess it wont work out, oh well, there are other girls out there. i dont know what to do with this new girl. to tell you all the truth(since i have been drinking), there are little things about her that i dont like, even with the sex. i wont go back to my ex though, this is a promise to all of you at totse, no joke, no going back to the ex. im sick of cheating on her and feeling bad about it. i rather just have a one night stand and feel single. im hanging out with the same people tommarow night, so maybe ill see the girl i know from high school there, even though i kind-of like her, i feel like she would be a good friend rather than a girlfriend. but if i had the chance, i would probley date her. but i dont know what's going on with this new girl. i have to admit, i hate this shit, i rather have a girlfriend and end all of this internet-adice-bullshit, i feel like a loser doing this. alright, ill end my post. i had to to back space probley about 34 times to fix errors, there goes, 38 times, no joke. alright, im done.
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#13
 2004-02-26, 06:18
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Re: Girl Situation
i think she called me tonight. but the number on my called id didn't match the two that she gave me. the last name was hers. i couldn't call her back because i was with friends all day. im going to call the number tommarrow and talk to her and see if she wants to hang out.
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#14
 2004-02-26, 06:44
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Re: Girl Situation
My advice to you is to play it cool. If she let you fuck her, shes going to call you. You're just showing her how much she can control you. (amount of effort you put into contacting her and such) Unless this girl is a complete whore she has some feelings for you. Let her play hard to get and kick it solo for a few days. She'll call, dont worry. She let you bone her, twice! In a short span of time, when you had a woman. She wants your nuts hardcore. Just remember to say "Come to butt-head" but make sure and replace butt-head with your real name. Theres nothing smoother than that. I offer you my best advice, besides the whole butt-head thing that is.
I really need to proofread before posting.
[This message has been edited by Der Führer (edited 02-26-2004).]
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#15
 2004-02-26, 13:01
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Re: Girl Situation
Der Führer, i dont come here a whole lot(ususally i come here after drinking and before going to bed, which is why i am here tonight), this is all i do on the internet, but, you have just gave me the advice that i have been looking for. now... should i call her or not? she called me today and my friend told me tonight that she was working when i called. should i call her tommarrow or wait until she calls again? i dont really care, i might be going to college and my mom said that she'll pay for it all. im sure girls will be there(i always seem them were i work, they flirt a lot) and ill probley hook up with one there.
but... should i continue anything with this new girl? i would date her but id have to know what she is like. there are little things about her that i dont like already, but i would still date her.
and then there's this girl that i've known since high school, she is cool. i rather be good friends with her than date her, because it could destroy everything, but i would probley end up dating her.
im sorry, im not trying to start shit or act like an idiot. to tell all the truth, i drank tonight and smoked some crystal. now, this is the first time in like 3 weeks that i have done it. i probley wont do it for a couple of weeks. im not trying to brag about the girls and shit. when i smoke this shit, it makes me talk(and type, a lot). in person, im cool. i know from the shit that happened tonight, im cool.
also, some married girl is flirting with me at my work. and some other girl that i work with that has a boyfriend, i think i could get something there.
but anyways. i should eat, but i probley wont, and wont sleep. ill post, maybe, soon?
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#16
 2004-02-27, 10:46
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Re: Girl Situation
so, honestly, i've drank a good amount tonight and im good. but, i talked to my friend tonight and he said that he is "fine hanging out with me and my girl and then dropping him and his girl off at his parents house and then me and my girl going out and doing wht ever we want". now, i have no problem with sex on every friday and satudray night(later at night, because these girls have to sneak out and find a party) except that i have to miss out on parties. i wouldn't mind giving up the weekend parties to have a relationship with a girl that cares. so, tommarrow, im going to call her and see if she wants to hang out and if she does, then ill hang out with her, but, if she doesn't, then im finding a party. so...fuck...ill post tomarrow, after i call her. late all~
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#17
 2004-02-29, 02:49
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Re: Girl Situation
it's good right now. she called me on wednesday, thursday, and on friday. i called her back on friday and we ended up hanging out. we had sex too. we hung out from like 12:00am to 8:00am. i asked her if she wanted to hang out tonight and she said yes. so, i am hanging out with her again tonight. im just about to call her and find out what's going on tonight.
also, i got my taxes back, and im going to buy a ball of coke. tonight is going to rock.
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#18
 2004-03-01, 00:42
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Re: Girl Situation
didn't get the coke tonight, just got to do one line. we hung out and later had sex. when i dropped her off, she said that i should call her and i asked when and she said that she would be home all day, so i told her that i would call her.
does anyone think that this girl likes me?
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#19
 2004-03-01, 05:45
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quote:Originally posted by SBTlauien:
didn't get the coke tonight, just got to do one line. we hung out and later had sex. when i dropped her off, she said that i should call her and i asked when and she said that she would be home all day, so i told her that i would call her.
does anyone think that this girl likes me?
No shit, you don't say!!!
Of course she likes you, otherwise she wouldn't be calling you and still be having sex with you. I'd give you more advice, but i don't like the whole coke deal you seem to have going.
~es
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#20
 2004-03-01, 09:01
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Re: Girl Situation
yeah, this coke shit is going to fuck me over, i know it.
ill add in more details about the girl...
it seems like everytime we get together, like we are just hanging out and not together(we are not together officially). then when everyone is gone, i make a move and we have sex, and then after the sex, ill treat her like a girlfriend...like cuddling and a kiss good-bye.
im figuring that she likes me. but im not sure if i want to make it official. i dont want to end up cheating on her, even though i probley wouldn't. i just need to know what she wants.
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#21
 2004-03-02, 12:12
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Re: Girl Situation
alright, i think i may have fucked it up tonight. i was shrooming with a friend and a friends house and this girl(i kind of know her) calls my friend(the one that i was shrooming with) and asked him if she could speak with me. my friend handed me the phone and the girl told me that my girl wanted to sneak out tonight and hang out and mentioned pool. i told her to call back in 10 minutes and she said that she would tell my girl to call me in 10 minutes and i said okay. 10 minutes later, my girl called and said that she wanted to hang out and play pool and whatnot and i said that i didn't want to leave, because i was on shrooms and i didn't want to drive. she seemed a little bit sad and i asked what she is doing tommarrow and she said that she doesn't know. then the conversation came to an end. im hoping that she didn't feel like i was just not trying to hang out with her. im going to call her tommarrow and see what she is doing. any advice?
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#22
 2004-03-08, 03:22
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Re: Girl Situation
i found out last night that she likes me a lot and wants to date me. im going to asked her out but i have to wait until we are together again.
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#23
 2004-03-08, 03:48
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Re: Girl Situation
Sorry I haven't been around to help. (Stupid binges) But it seems you've got everything under control. Good for you, rail that shit.
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#24
 2004-03-16, 07:38
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Re: Girl Situation
alright, we started dating on saturday and we have hung out everyday since then and im high now. but my question is, would it be considered cheating if i had kissed a girl a week before we started dating but were having sex at the time?
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#25
 2004-03-17, 06:44
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Re: Girl Situation
what does this this mean?
last night i meet her at a bowling ally with her friend that is dating my friend, another friend of hers(that i kind of know), and two other guys(never seen them in my life). so we were just talking on the phone together and she said that one of the guys(from the bowling ally) is going to have a party at his house because his parents are leaving and he asked if she could get out of her house(she is grounded) and come to her party and she said that she isn't sure if she could get out and at this point i didn't say anything until she said "are you still there?", and i said "yes" and changed the subject. could she have been trying to ask if i wanted to go to his party? or is she trying to say "i like him more"? i have no clue.
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#26
 2004-03-23, 06:43
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Re: Girl Situation
were dating now. and she's going to sneak out and hang out with me tonight, but the party we were going to go to got busted because my dumbass friend called my house from it and left a message saying that they were all doing lines and my mom heard it and called the cops and got the party busted. i dont know what were going to do. i cant believe that my mom did that...
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