well, i just did it. broke up with her. i said i'd keep you updated so this is the update.

im kinda depressed right now, but not as sad as i should be. in a few days i'll probably be worse, you know, when it sets in...

she took it really hard, i figured she would. she said she never cared about anyone like she does for me, and that no one ever hurt her so bad. i feel bad about hurting her like that, but i guess it had to be done... well im off to sulk.

EDIT: the previous thread http://www.totse.com/bbs/Forum4/HTML/006305.html

[This message has been edited by EyeSore (edited 02-24-2004).]

in the long run...well, you know...

good luck man

Sorry man. That sucks. Again,, it will be better for you in the long run.

Truthfully, even if it seems as though you hurt her, you have helped her. You haven't lead her on as you could have done, You haven't used her, and she has learned to appreciate love (The more your heart has hurt, the less you take love for granted.

Odds are I read the previous thread, but can't remember it off hand. Link?

The pain will fade. The trouble now is, can you stay broken up?

I have a wretched habit of forgetting (more underminding) why I broke up with "them" in the first place after a couple days of reminiscing and missing them. Then I get back with them, only to have all those reasons flood back after a day or two. It's vicious cycle.

^^ yea i do that too.... im going to try not to this time. i hate that. i know exactly what you mean though.

I broke up with my significant other on Valentine's Day, I'm going through it now. (Except it's kind of hard to ignore why I broke up with him.. raging fuckin psycho.) *mumble mumble*

Maybe we should start a support group.

You guys dont need a support group. I think you get pretty good support from each other and other members. Or at least thats how it seems. When ever i read someones problem here(serious problems not some idiot kids problem)people seem to try and help.

Anyways, she may be hurting now, so may you, it may get worse, but hang in there and always look at the bright side of things..it will get better..better then it was before..