This is my confession to Totse. I am 21 and me and a 16 year old girl from the Internet have fallen in love with each other.

We met on Yahoo almost 7 months ago, and by some kind of a miracle, my family has to take a trip up north almost right through the town she lives in. In 3 weeks I'll get to meet her for the first time, and for this I can really say I'm happy for the first time in quite a while.

This girl is simply amazing..she knows what I'm feeling and even what I'm thinking do much its almost scary. She means the world to me, and I love her more than life itself. I know, someone will likely make a 'pedophile' crack in this thread. I don't really care..I don't love her for her body, I love her for her heart, and if thats too hard a concept to understand, I'm sorry.

I've been told by people how its not possible to love (I mean really, truely love) someone over the Net. I've had people tell me 'You know what, its not going to last, theres no way it can'.

Well you know what? It IS. Anyone on this board that knows me even slightly knows I don't lie. I'd rather kill myself than walk out on this girl, no matter what shes going through or how bad an effect it would have on me to get involved.

Does anyone on here think I'm wrong for this? If you do that's fine, but I just have to know how can love between two very sincere people be wrong? Shes my heart and soul, and I love her, and always will.

Here is a link to her picture. Forgive me, but I don't know how to work the IMG tags just yet.

http://www.ii2.org/image.php?img=530486



[This message has been edited by Vampire Archimiel (edited 02-22-2004).]

Who's to say what's right and wrong? The only opinion you should be concerned with is that of her parents, and maybe the law if things go that way.

Try to be realistic, though. Sixteen year olds are rarely self-realized and still have a bit of growing and changing to do. You fit the picture now, but in 6 months you might not. And you yourself may still have some evolving to do; I don't know you, but 21-year-olds are still on the tender side.

Follow your heart for now, but don't be terribly disappointed if things don't work out down the road.

What I find beautiful about it Cindy, is we're alreadyc hanging and evolving. But instead of growing away from each other, we're actually seemingly to grow with each other

I don't know how long she will want me in her life, but I'll be here for her as long as she wants me to, and I know I'll never get tired of her.

A lot of times, girls have more confidence on the internet and will say more then they would in real life. Thats one reasons why I'm against internet relations for my self. It's more real if my only source of communication to the girl is the phone or in person.

that picture link is being slow as hell...

quote:Originally posted by Vampire Archimiel:

...we're already changing and evolving. But instead of growing away from each other, we're actually seemingly to grow with each other...

That's lovely, so more power to you! Far more meaningful than some "mature couples" (in their 30s!!) that I know.

Hehe... I am... the girl in the story. Oh I feel so special. Anyways, yeah I'm new here :P I guess you guys know a little about me... I've got blueish hair mwaha and I'm 16.

I like to draw people and fantacy art, computerised images, play piano, and inline aggressive. I'm planning on getting my GED this year, and then I want to go into the millitary but I've got time to think about all this :P Well take care

I'm sorry the pic is taking so long to load Mem.

Hi Angela, I know you planned to register here, but didn't know you did it so quickly.

Da Piccle Nine verkel!!! ya

loooooood loooooooood mutta beeech!!!

Seriosly though, theres nothing wrong, one of my good friends is 32 and hes engaged to a 24 year old... as long as its not peadofilla it should be ok... and well for the internet part... its no fuckin different, its just like you met someone once , added you to msn (etc) and then you figured out who they are... unless its a fat bald 59 year old guy that likes cyber from small boys... thats besides the point... Love is Love, dont fuck it up.

My only advice is and I'm not trying to be a smartass either...try it out & see what happens but don't have sex with her until she's at least 18...

Sorry but it had to be said...

I find nothing wrong with one partner being older than the other. But I don't agree with internet relationships.

Better to give it a go then not because of half-formed, half-hearted worries about age and the Internet.

And 16's old enough. Age of consent in the UK. Everyone with an intelligent mind is constantly changing right through their twenties. Being 16 myself, I'd like to think I’m more adult than child mentally, abet inexperienced about the world

Dump the juvie. She will be a problem once she starts being influenced her slut friends. See the world man, for pete's sake. Wait until your 30+ before allowing yourself to fall in love, because by then, hopefully you will be able to weed out the good from the frauds.

Well we can tell you don't like her just for her looks.

^ oohhh, snap!

it doesn't matter what other people think, just do what comes naturally to you. just be careful of laws and stuff like that. and don't be surprised if you both still do a lot of changing and it ends up not working, but yeah, you're changing closer together, so that's good.

i dont think the age thing really matters, but i dont think too highly of internet relationships. how can you have a relationship with someone without physical contact? i dont even mean sex or anything, i mean hugging, cuddling, etc. but then again, my oppinion doesnt really matter, its all about how you feel.

it shouldnt matter that much. i know some 20 year olds and older that are fucking some hot ass 16 year olds around here. If you 2 like eachother then it shouldnt matter.

I looked at her picture and by her face she doesnt seem too much like my type but if she was any way sluttish I'd let her suck my dick.



Good luck though, knowing she is 16, you two live far way from eachother let me tell you that she probably talks to other guys all the time.

Are there people that say its wrong, that you know on a real-life basis?

If there isn't and you know some people will think it is wrong, then deep down you do not love this girl. You have doubt in you that it is right for even putting this question up. Love is a sure thing. People can fall our of love but true love never dies.

You have doubts in yourself.

[sorry if I am repeating I only read his post and the first sentence of deadly cindys.]

Jesus Christ, she's ugly.

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What the hell are you babbling about?

Pedophilia is an extremely sensitive topic nowadays. Nowhere in his post does he sound unsure of what he feels, just what the reaction to it will be.

Anyway. I hear what you're saying about growing together, but that doesn't mean you won't slide apart over time. I hope it doesn't happen, really, but you've got more than age working against you. The distance between you two is going to result in very different experiences, ones which you won't share and thus will only affect one of you. That's what's going to be the biggest potential negative, the fact that you two will not be able to have a direct, positive effect on each other, no matter how many hours a day you might spend online talking.

It's good that you're meeting in person. There's nothing wrong with finding someone online, but even the best-looking situations are fraught with pitfalls. Many of those can be negated or lessened quite a bit by seeing each other face-to-face. That's the next step- worry about other shit, like the right and wrong of it, later.

Edit: The arrow was for Geranium, but I suppose it can apply to Local Hero's post too. WTF guys, not everyone can be a supermodel. She's normal, dear god, the horror..

[This message has been edited by Spiffy McBang (edited 02-22-2004).]

There's nothing wrong with age difference relationships damnit!!

The only issue is what 'other people' think, and if you like each other that much,why give a toss what 'other people' think?



Good luck to both of you. And purple hair. o_O

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

There's nothing wrong with age difference relationships damnit!!

The only issue is what 'other people' think, and if you like each other that much,why give a toss what 'other people' think?



Good luck to both of you. And purple hair. o_O

What other people think may be VERY important. It may land someone in jail, although maybe not in this particular case.

im 16 and im totally deeply in love with a 14 year old

not even close to as drastic but im getting alot of shit from my friends for it.

i kinda almost know how you feel. but you didnt go lookin to fall in love with a 16 year old. you went and fell in love with a girl.

my dad said, and i guess this might apply to you,

If you let her go because of an age difference, you will regret it for the rest of your life.

That diferance isnt a huge one man, my parents are like 12 years apart, 5 years wont mean as much when your both in you fourtys :P...

And cindy 16 years olds have absolutly zero growing to do :P

~H

Hey, good for you if you've got that whole true love thing going on. That's all fine and dandy. And fuck the age difference or whatever. No one will care in a few years anyway. My only issue is that you've picked this girl. Not to be mean, but her online personality is like that of a 12 year old. Anyone who uses the stupid :P things should be shot. And the mwaha didn't help. I know you're not asking for my opinion on what type of girl she is, but I thought I would offer it anyway. It's just that if you're falling for chicks who act like this online, there might be something wrong with you. Not because she's 16, but because she acts like she's 12. Just my opinion. And she gives a death look for pictures. Why not look bright and nice instead of evil?

Damn. Don't mean to be mean. There is a girl like this at my school. That draws on her face with markers too. Does stupid shit. Got her ass beat 2 weeks ago and her ear rings pulled out all in the same fight.

Any girl that puts shit on her face other than make up. Needs counseling. That goes for all piercings but eye brow piercings.



http://www.ii2.org/image.php?img=527177

^ WTF?

quote:Originally posted by Geranium:



Any girl that puts shit on her face other than make up. Needs counseling. That goes for all piercings but eye brow piercings.



Yeah, anyone who isn't you must be seriously fucked up. After all, who would want a piece of metal in their face? Oh yeah, people with eyebrow piercings. That's cool because plenty of people do that. But doing the same thing to a different part of your face, man you must be fuckin' insane. Fuck. Because we all know the two aren't even remotely related. A barbell in your eyebrow is totally different from one in your lip or nose because.... well, just trust me it is.

Right and wrong are vauge concepts at best. It's all shades of grey. In your particular case, I'd go with it being OK, 16 is plenty old on her end of things in a lot of states. Though I'll say this, as for as mental maturity goes though, I've known ten year olds more mature than most 16 year olds.

When I was 18 I has something going with this girl who was 13 years old. Yeah I knew it was 'wrong', and I'd be lying if I said I didn't obsess over it. It was one of those things where neither of us actualy said anything or did anything overt about the mutual attraction. But we had a lot of great talks and spent a lot of time together. Oddly, just like my ex, she was a witch named Sarah too.

My point, ages in relationships are mostly arbitrary, but if you care about the law or what people will think you should take into account which is more important. The relationship or approval.

To those who thought the age difference was ok: Thank you, I appreciate hearing support from other Totse members.

To those who thought I shouldn't place too much love in her and vice versa because we might grow apart: I understand your concerns. I likewise have considered this, but I would rather put my faith in her and go with it than not. And we're not intending on marrying each other or anything, we're just really really close friends who share a deep, soul-mate style love for each other.

And to those who made remarks about her being an ugly girl: I understand why you feel this way. If all my other girlfriends had penises bigger than my own, I suppose a real female would seem ugly to me too.

quote:Originally posted by Heiko Palm:

Dump the juvie. She will be a problem once she starts being influenced her slut friends.

I resent that! First of all we're not "dating" so he cant exactly "dump" me, and about the slut friends, I have maybe 2 friends that I ever get to see. Lack of friends is due to the combination of homeschooling and being a freak (florecent hair, gothy clothes and so on) wich doesnt bother me. Anyhow neither of my friends are sluts. I choose not to be friends with people like that. And annother thing... I dont put up with nasty and improper judgement. And someone called me immature for this text face :P wich I've seen many many people use, but if you ask me, Such judgements like the one from Heiko are 5 times as immature.

quote:Originally posted by Local Hero:

Jesus Christ, she's ugly.

Glad I'm not the only one with that opinion on that picture. My friend thought it was one of my better ones, but that's probably because she likes the hair. I must say, that is one evil/angry look on my face. Sorry but I cant stand leaving you with my worst pic. This one's a little better: <A HREF="http://img.ii2.org/z/q/zqlgrt_b.jpg">http://img.ii2.org/z/q/zqlgrt_b.jpg" width="90" height="90 (http://img.ii2.org/z/q/zqlgrt_b.jpg" width="90" height="90)</A> &lt;/A&gt;

quote:Originally posted by 8abs10fingers:

Good luck though, knowing she is 16, you two live far way from eachother let me tell you that she probably talks to other guys all the time.

Sadly, like I said before I know very few people. Besides, the guys I do get to talk to around here are all a little on the weird side. There have been guys in the past I knew that were pretty darn cool but no one has ever been like Archimiel. A million good words could describe him, and I cant say the same for anyone else. Till I met him I had it set in my head that I wasnt interested in guys. I'm still not... unless we're talking Archimiel of course.

Sorry about the editing, one of the codes had a mistake.

[This message has been edited by Berrith (edited 02-23-2004).]

That was very sweet Angela. You can tell them my real name, it doesn't bother me.

Forgive me Totse, I'm not trying to turn S&A into a soap oprea(sp?), I'm truely not. I don't have doubts about wether its right or not, I just wanted you peoples opinion because I hear it a little from others. Angela (Berrith) may grow tired of me in a week, she may do it in a year, she may never do it. And if she does, it was meant to be that way, but it will never change how I feel about her.

Thank you, for letting my rant to you guys.

Have you read Mackoffet's posts? He had his own extended online romance story going, and he should have met her by now. Hopefully he'll post the results soon.

Hope all turns out well for y'all. Angela seems brighter than the average girl!

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

Have you read Mackoffet's posts? He had his own extended online romance story going, and he should have met her by now. Hopefully he'll post the results soon.

Hope all turns out well for y'all. Angela seems brighter than the average girl!

She really is Cindy, thank you for your encouragement.

quote:Originally posted by Vampire Archimiel:

To those who thought the age difference was ok: Thank you, I appreciate hearing support from other Totse members.

To those who thought I shouldn't place too much love in her and vice versa because we might grow apart: I understand your concerns. I likewise have considered this, but I would rather put my faith in her and go with it than not. And we're not intending on marrying each other or anything, we're just really really close friends who share a deep, soul-mate style love for each other.

Don't throw that away.

quote:Originally posted by Prometheus:

My point, ages in relationships are mostly arbitrary, but if you care about the law or what people will think you should take into account which is more important. The relationship or approval.

It's not just approval. As you were stating yourself, the law as well could be something you better reckon with. "Don't care about the law" doesn't seem the best advice, IMHO. I am not a law enforcing agency, I don't mean to say "you have to obey the law", but one better thinks twice.

quote:Originally posted by Berrith:

Sadly, like I said before I know very few people. Besides, the guys I do get to talk to around here are all a little on the weird side. There have been guys in the past I knew that were pretty darn cool but no one has ever been like Archimiel. A million good words could describe him, and I cant say the same for anyone else. Till I met him I had it set in my head that I wasnt interested in guys. I'm still not... unless we're talking Archimiel of course.

Sorry about the editing, one of the codes had a mistake.

[This message has been edited by Berrith (edited 02-23-2004).]

I think you are cute. Never said you weren't. If he dumps you, I'll be your sugar daddy. "WARNING" I expect you to "satisfy" me at least 4 times a day (because you really are cute)and I love videotaping "sessions". Let Heiko take you to the land of "sexual deviance" while he goes to the "Land of the Convicted". ha ha ha ha .LMFAO. You are cute though.....You ever had a GI before my little strumpet? Think I'll go masturbate now! PS: I have been out on the desert waaaay too long!

One of my best friends, Lillian has a sister who is 17 and married to a guy who's 28. Lillian was always talking about the two of them and what a good couple they made, but I never really believed it till they moved back in with lillian's dad and I got to meet them for myself. They truely do make a cute couple. They met when she was 15 and got married when she was 16 with her father's written consent. Her mother would have had to agree too if she had any custody but to their luck she didnt. She would never have allowed it. Now dont get me wrong, this couple didnt influence me. I've known Matt longer than I've known them, but if one must question law and the approval of society, I'd say that this couple is a good example of the fact that given the circumstanses, things like this do work out. Dont forget about viewing it from my side. I have had to think about these things myself, but nothing will ever stop me from feeling the way I do about Matt even if there was something wrong with this in the eyes of the law or other people.

quote:Originally posted by Heiko Palm:

I think you are cute. Never said you weren't. If he dumps you, I'll be your sugar daddy. "WARNING" I expect you to "satisfy" me at least 4 times a day (because you really are cute)and I love videotaping "sessions". Let Heiko take you to the land of "sexual deviance" while he goes to the "Land of the Convicted". ha ha ha ha .LMFAO. You are cute though.....You ever had a GI before my little strumpet? Think I'll go masturbate now! PS: I have been out on the desert waaaay too long!

whoa ok I'm gonna go lean over the toilet for a few hours barfing now. See ya. PS: I've been very sheltered

Vampire don't fuck up. She seems smart. If you fuck up, I will be Angela's "Sugar Daddy"...........then it will be divorce #3 for me! lol lmfao! God this thread should be on Oprah or something......I am getting all fuzzy and warm inside.........I want to hug a teenage girl (he he) Okay, Okay, "BAD IDEA".

Ok, kids, pay no attention to Heiko. He's a rowdy GI with a 'tude!

Have you even checked the laws in your state, Angela? There might not even be an issue. Sixteen or under is the age of consent in over half the states in the USA.

accually, no I havnt. I'll go do that Thanks.

Goddamn thats a first, Cindy actually calmed my ass down. No Angela check the laws and do the right thing, hell I am still trying to figure out what the right thing is.

One more........you teen guys out there, make sure you go out with every so called "ugly" girl you can because it is the "ugly " girls that grow up to be so fine, that you will be begging to clean their asses after they take a dump!

I cant find anything. But it's ok I dont really care... even if such a relationship wasnt legal it (I repeat) wouldnt change how I feel about Matt. Nothing can.

http://www.ageofconsent.com/ageofconsent.htm

Scroll down to the States. It's great that you're both so dedicated. I just feel sorry for the young man who recently posted that his gf's mother had a restraining order placed on him for dating her daughter (she was 14 and he's 17, I think.) Totally different situation, but it never hurts to be armed with knowledge.

Am I the only one who has an issue with an adult who hooks up with kids online? Sure there are some exceptions to normal age barriers, but when a dude finds a kid online where you can easily find someone else and where you have to put in a ton of effort to even approach a relationship, something makes me think that guy has issues. And...any adult who travels a significant distance to have sex with a minor they meet online has major issues.

quote:Originally posted by Easy Going:

Am I the only one who has an issue with an adult who hooks up with kids online? Sure there are some exceptions to normal age barriers, but when a dude finds a kid online where you can easily find someone else and where you have to put in a ton of effort to even approach a relationship, something makes me think that guy has issues. And...any adult who travels a significant distance to have sex with a minor they meet online has major issues.

Some people are more complicated than others and the internet allows for more options beyond one's own immediate environment. Not everybody has a huge social milieu such as school or a workplace, and some people don't care for bars, nightclubs, or the typical gathering places that tend to attract very average minds. Angela even said she's homeschooled.

Nowhere in this thread is sex mentioned, but "love" is mentioned quite a few times. Perplexing why you threw that in there. And Vampire clearly stated he happens to have an opportunity to travel with his parents near where she lives. It's not like he's schlepping out there for a booty call.

How childish that you turn so many threads into an off-topic personal vendetta. Grow up.



[This message has been edited by deadlycindy (edited 02-23-2004).]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

She got ya EasyGoing! Why did you throw the word "sex" in there? As vile as my posts were, I didn't even use that word (or did I?) Hmmmmmmmm, come on, tell us why...we are all friends here! LMAO! You have had fantasies huh? Yeah, you have! You pervert! Hard drive full of kiddie porn, standing naked in the window playing with yourself while those teeny boppers walk to school. You should be ashamed of yourself. Dity old man, just plain filthy!

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

Nowhere in this thread is sex mentioned, but "love" is mentioned quite a few times. Perplexing why you threw that in there.

First, you posted the AOC chart which would not be an issue if sex was not. Any time an adult is involved in a relationship, I would assume sex was an issue unless it was specifically stated otherwise.

Second, I did not say vampire. I said any adult. I will give you one guess which adult with issues I was thinking of when I typed that. Hope that solves your "perplexing" issues for ya.



[This message has been edited by Easy Going (edited 02-23-2004).]

Oh, well, this thread is about Vampire and Angela, so I'm not sure why you felt the need to make an off-the-wall, off-topic remark. If you have grandstanding to do about adult behavior in general, start your own thread. Otherwise, try to stay on-topic.

Wow touchy! Anyone got a teenage girl I can spoil? No, .........oh well, nevermind. Cindy don't say it! LOL

I guess it isnt a popular opion but she *is* a very buetiful girl...

~H

im 33 and i meet up with 18 year old gitls of the net

quote:Originally posted by wizdum:

im 33 and i meet up with 18 year old gitls of the net

Gimme a high 5. Ain't nothing wrong with that! Turn one out for me okay?

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

How childish that you turn so many threads into an off-topic personal vendetta. Grow up.



Nice edit Cindy. My opinion was pretty conservative and not specifically directed at anyone. It is not my fault you overreacted to it.

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

Oh, well, this thread is about Vampire and Angela, so I'm not sure why you felt the need to make an off-the-wall, off-topic remark. If you have grandstanding to do about adult behavior in general, start your own thread. Otherwise, try to stay on-topic.

That is a pretty hard line stance on what is topical and what is not for someone who posted the age of consent chart in this thread and then said that I was wrong for bringing up the word “sex”.

Cindy, I am not out to get you. This is the second time in the last week you took one of my opinions as personal. I don’t make up new opinions to piss you off. If you disagree with what I say, feel free to have an intellectual debate. Just try to not get your panties in a bunch every time.

As for why I posted what I did, I think that it is generally a good idea for adults to leave the kids alone. When starting a relationship online, you must ask the age question up front. You don’t know if the person is 30 or 13 till you ask. You know that they are kids before real feelings are involved and you are not in circumstances to have to continue to interact with them unless you make a conscious effort to do so. The vast majority of adults would consider it strange for an adult to actively pursue flirting with a kid they just met. Right or wrong, it is just weird. If both people are normal, they should have not enough in common for that type of relationship. When I go hang out with my buddies, I don’t go out with 16 year old guys. We just are in different stages of life, so I don’t hang out with them even if it legal. There are some exceptions, but as a general rule, most adults would think an adult, who was dating a kid (someone under 18), was a loser, even if it was legal. There has to be some type of reason he is not involved with more mature people.

Sorry if my “general terms” are not topical. I don’t know the subjects of this thread personally so I cannot say if they are an exception or not. All I know is what I have seen in my life and my general opinions on the issue. Even in college, guys who dated HS girls were looked down on by all their peers. I guess my final opinion on people who do this is once you cross the kid/adult line, the presumption is against you and it is up to you to prove you are the exception that breaks the rule.



[This message has been edited by Easy Going (edited 02-24-2004).]

Oh well.......I still think Angela is cute. I crossed the line, I crossed the line...WOO HOO! Gimme my pervert badge, gimme my pervert badge! LMFAO

^There is nothing wrong with thinking she is cute. There is a Subway I always go to because it is in my parking lot at work, and one of the girls that works there started trying to flirt with me some. I asked her age and she is 17. She is very cute, but I steer all conversations to just being polite. For all I know she is more mature than me. But I do know she is a kid, so I am not going to get to know her well enough to find out the rest.

quote:Originally posted by Easy Going:

... I will give you one guess which adult with issues I was thinking of when I typed that. ...

[This message has been edited by Easy Going (edited 02-23-2004).]

Chily dog? Ok, which one where you thinking of then?



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I still don't understand the appeal of this chick. Everyone's talking about how smart she is and all that garbage. She doesn't sound like the sharpest tool in the shed, if you asked me. Someone please explain why you think she's at all worth spending time with

Aaaand maneuvering back on topic...

As long as her parents don't have any objection to her having a relationship with a 21 year old man she met over the internet there should be no problem. I don't know whether or not you've spoken with her parents on the topic yet but if I was in their position I think I would find myself a little bit sketched out by the idea. Not because 5 years is such a tremendous difference but because you're 21,legal, and she's 16, not.

Of course I have no idea whether you plan on escalating your relationship to a physical level higher than kissing or holding hand, etc. or whether you plan on refraining from said conduct until she is of consenting age, if she isn't already.

yeah that's it, if you can follow that.

good luck you two.

on a side note is this the first TOTSE couple?

Glitter, there is not a group of people that are right for everyone and a group that is wrong for everyone. There is someone for everyone.

quote:Originally posted by Easy Going:

^There is nothing wrong with thinking she is cute. There is a Subway I always go to because it is in my parking lot at work, and one of the girls that works there started trying to flirt with me some. I asked her age and she is 17. She is very cute, but I steer all conversations to just being polite. For all I know she is more mature than me. But I do know she is a kid, so I am not going to get to know her well enough to find out the rest.

For Christs sake Easy Going just take her out, buy yourself a few drinks and see what happens. No harm done man.

quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:

I still don't understand the appeal of this chick. Everyone's talking about how smart she is and all that garbage. She doesn't sound like the sharpest tool in the shed, if you asked me. Someone please explain why you think she's at all worth spending time with

She looks like she could be "Fun" hehe........Of course, my discretionary powers are quite null concerning this topic!

Glitter, you wish to know what appeal she has? I'll tell you.

You might be expecting me to start out with some bullshit about 'Oh shes so hot and pretty'. But thats not why shes appealing to me. Yes, I think she is a very beautiful girl, but that doesn't even count as to why I am attracted to her.

She appeals to me, because of the closeness we have developed in such a short amount of time. I've known her since June, and in the short time we've known each other she can sense my mood or emotions and there has been more than one time she's finished a sentence or told me what I was thinking (and vice-versa).

She is smart, and very sweet, to me and everyone she comes in contact with. Any of her friends I've ever talked to tell me how caring she is about everyone. Shes going on 17, but still has a child-like innocence (Not THAT kind of innocence H you pervert) that I find fascinating.

I'm not interested in trying to get into her pants or 'copping a feel'. I'm interested in her heart and soul, thats it, simple huh? A guy loves a girl for reasons other than her body and the sex she could offer. For some people (Not you Glitter) this seems to be a REALLY hard concept to understand.

The bottom line is this, wether my family or her family or whoever the fucks family looks on this as something bad, its really ok by me, it won't change a thing. But I DID want to get Totses opinion on the matter.

And I'm not sure if we're Totses first couple or not...

^^^^^^^^^^^^^Goddamn Vampire go on with your bad self. Really. Just remember, sometimes unfortunately, that there are laws regarding this. It may be love, but at the same time, if it really is love, time will only allow that love to grow even stronger. Easy does it man, easy does it. Sucks, yeah it does, but it is a reality in this day and age. Good luck man. PS: Keep her away from those "slut" types, and send them my way! He He

Hey, whoever said that shes ugly needs to shut his/her/it's fucking mouth. Honestly, you look fine. And vampire, best of wishes man, hope things turn out well. I mean, I myself and probably a good amount of the general population see nothing wrong with a few years difference, but sadly, the judicial system does. Statustory(sp?) rape is not something to fuck around with, and her parents could easily put a restraining order on you at a moments notice. Aside from that though man, I'm happy for yah.

[This message has been edited by Shotokan_Brawler (edited 02-24-2004).]

Alright, sounds pretty groovy to me. She sounded pretty immature/childish in her posts in this thread, but I'm not the one who's been talking to her since June.

Anyway, the age difference is no thing. When I was 13 I was dating a guy who was almost 18. No one really gave a fuck (given my parents didn't know about it) because they saw how good we were together. People really don't care too much after awhile. And the age difference isn't as big a deal with you guys as it was for me and the guy I was with. Like everyone has said, the distance and fact that you've only met online is more likely to tear you apart than the age thing. There was a guy I knew mostly online (though I met him in person before talking to him online) and I thought we were really close. I thought I knew him and loved him. But when I went and saw him, things were different. Not being physically around someone can be pretty difficult for a relationship. But fuck it, plenty of online matches do work out, so uh.. go in wit yo bad self.

i bet it's a 45 year old male, or, better yet, a cop. personally i would never meet anyone through the internet. my friend is 21 and he is dating a 17 year old. im 19 and im having sex with a 17 year old. but through the internet....i dont know about you...

quote:Originally posted by SBTlauien:

i bet it's a 45 year old male, or, better yet, a cop...

ME? A cop? LMAO well I've got a yahoo cam if you'd like to see that I'm accually me... that's the silliest thing I've ever heard. Matt's seen my cam too of course.

Again I iterate: Heiko Palm kicks ass.



That is all.

Heiko, Glitter, Shodokan, and everyone else who supports me on this, thank you so much for it. It means a lot to me, it really does.

And I cannot deny the fact I would ask her to go out with me if I lived closer, but sex and physical intimacy can wait, it is not so big a priority it cannot be waited on.

Thanks again,

-Matt

quote:Originally posted by Vampire Archimiel:

[B]

I'm not interested in trying to get into her pants or 'copping a feel'. I'm interested in her heart and soul, thats it, simple huh? B]

So your you want to take her heart out? No just messing. Id say this is perfectly ok as long as the girl is over 14 its ok and the guy can't be 30 either because thats kinda weird. And I don't see how anyone could say shes ugly, shes quiet beatiful not the hottest girl but cuter then just OK. And although im not for online realationships myself theres nothing wrong with it, and as for the law just don't go kissing/holding her in front of her parents or something unless they are cool with you because they could have you arrested for something im sure like intent to molest or something even though its only just kissing you are 5years older and some may think thats to much. Im 16 and my beloved is 13 going to be 14 this april and I haven't been criticised about the age difference although her step mom and dad are going to try to keep me away from her this summer(we met a year ago while I was visiting my family in FL) but they won't be able to stop me because I love her to much and its not a sexual thing, So I know what you mean by you want her heart and soul but seeing as shes 16 you should just realize ahead of time that her feelings might change for you and you may not have her so just cherish it now but realize that it will come to an end sometime even if it happens 20 years from now. Sorry for the rambling on. Anyone thats opposed to Vampire and that Berith girl loving each other can shove it and no offense Berith(sp) but the second picture makes you look like your around 13-14 for some reason.

quote:Originally posted by AprenticeChemist:

..... So your you want to take her heart out? No just messing. Id say this is perfectly ok as long as the girl is over 14 its ok and the guy can't be 30 either because thats kinda weird....



Who are you to say that this age is okay with that age,but that age is not okay with that other age?



Age doesent matter.

You've neither got devious plans to take advantage of the other in any way.



The Vampire dude isnt rich enough for the girl to be gold digging, and she's mature enough to know what she is doing.

They both are.

And I must say, she's got a hell of alot of courage,posting her picture like that, so respect to you. And Vampire dude, well, he likes DDR, he must be ok!

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

[B]

Who are you to say that this age is okay with that age,but that age is not okay with that other age?

Age doesent matter.

You've neither got devious plans to take advantage of the other in any way.

The Vampire dude isnt rich enough for the girl to be gold digging, and she's mature enough to know what she is doing.

They both are.

B]

That was just my own opinion if someone feels that they don't agree with my feelings towards the age difference thats fine I won't stop them. I just think its weird for a 30 year old to date a girl thats 16, and I didn't say him being with her was wrong.

Courage? Well now I wouldnt say that... my photos are all over the place. I dont see why I shouldnt... I dont have any stalkers or anything. I seem to do a good job of annoying people I dont like lmao. Thanks for your support everyone I appreciate it

There is nothing wrong as long as both partys are there of thier own free will, you as a older man should have the common sense to know if what you are doing is just for the sex, or whatever your reasons, that it cannot be a negative experiance for the younger girl.At that age, most kids are not ready to have a real positive relationship with an older man, and most dont know.

I thought I knew it all at 16, but then 18 hit and I thought I knew more, than 21, and so forth. I did not know shit at that age, and I had no clue how ignorant I was of the ways of the world.I really have not found out who I am, my identity as a human, you know, what I am about and stuff. That takes time and experiance,but I guess mistakes are a good teacher.But some mistakes you have to take care of for 18 years.

The older one should be honestly thinking about everything they are doing, realize that is a child and 21 aint to much older, maturity wise.Its a tuff call, but folks do what they want to, and no amount of advice can change that.

I was 18 and she was 28, my first "love" and she was a master at manipulation, and I had no clue.All I knew was how it felt to be with her and how it felt when I was not. That bitch used me, I am better for it now but it was a desparete time, I almost did some dumb shit that would have been permanent.But she left scars of a emotional type.

Now I am logical, gaurded, and do not get fooled by wemon, or anyone for that matter.Not when it comes to anything important.Man that bitch was jaded damaged goods.But if people honestly use thier brain,and not how they feel to make decisions for them, I think things would go different in the world.

I know man, I've seen a lot of that happen. If Angela (Berrith) doesn't know by now I'm not interested in her for her body, she needs a kick in the arse

I understand I'm the older one in this relationship, and that I am responsible for her emotional wellbeing. When we get the chance to meet in 2 weeks, during the little time we have I'll be responsible for her PHYSICAL wellbeing also, as it is my privilage (not obligation) to look after her.

We don't plan to just meet once. In a couple of years, when shes 18 or older, I want to come back and visit her again (Not for THAT). Who knows? We may end up a couple after all (if she'd be willing to have me)

quote:Originally posted by elf:

Well we can tell you don't like her just for her looks.

I'd hit it.

This is just sick. If your 21 or older then 18 period for that matter and out of high school and have to hit on girls in school your a pathetic loser.

You shouldn't just be ashamed of yourself but should be shot.

Yes girls make mistakes as she will use you as an example in her future when she is older.

Your a sick bastard who needs to get a fucking life.

I do not think your in love. Nobody in todays world even knows the damn meaning anymore, its if my penis fits in your pussy and it feels equally good WOW we are in love.

This whole thread makes me fucking sick sir and I have nothing more to say. No one to flame just my thoughts on this. Do what you want but from the first two paragraphs you made me sick and its no surprise why we have Man-Boy Organizations in this country who pry on younger children, yes those are for gays but soon there will be similar pedophile organizations of the likes and I wouldn't be surprised if there already are some.

Your relationship is illegal and if I found out where you lived I would call the local police long distance and have you arrested for the girls sake and yours.

ohh i know the girl in the pic, she's in my class!

no she's not, but i know a girl that looks alot like her..

ut if you truly like eachother then, "rock the boat baby!" (that didn't mean that you should have sex right away it just ment... ahh screw this, i'm tired!)

//Do'h!!!//

And for the record I find this whole *NEW* "age don't matter" bullshit to be just that BULLSHIT. Unless your in your 20's and up BOTH OF you then I could say that is more appropriate, but teens?

How dare a bastard such as yourself even make such a post regarding if what your doing is right.

A bastard is nothing but what you are. People call me a racist moron and I know DeadilyCindy hates me aswell, whether she agrees with me or not I know what your doing is wrong as what many say about me is usually right.

I am racist and YOU ARE WRONG.

quote:Originally posted by LSA King:

And for the record I find this whole *NEW* "age don't matter" bullshit to be just that BULLSHIT.

Idiot, age doesn't matter in this day and age, we do not create relationships to reproduce anymore, that is just a side-effect.

quote:Originally posted by LSA King:

Unless your in your 20's and up BOTH OF you then I could say that is more appropriate, but teens?

You and your kinds' close-minded way of thinking is what is the cause of so much pain in this world.

quote:Originally posted by LSA King:

How dare a bastard such as yourself even make such a post regarding if what your doing is right.

He "dares" to make this post because he isn't sure of himself, but rest assured, he is in the right. People like you are the reason people like him make posts like this though, your kind seem to feel that their beliefs are God's word, and most be beaten into every person they can.

quote:Originally posted by LSA King:

A bastard is nothing but what you are.

A bastard is a male child born without the parents being wed, I think you are using the incorrect word here, twit.

quote:Originally posted by LSA King:

People call me a racist moron

...Because you are a racist moron!

quote:Originally posted by LSA King:

and I know DeadilyCindy hates me aswell,

With good reason, you are a fucking idiot.

quote:Originally posted by LSA King:

whether she agrees with me or not I know what your doing is wrong

In your twisted way of thinking, it might be, thank Binary this guy has brains enough to think for himself.

quote:Originally posted by LSA King:

as what many say about me is usually right.

Yes, we all know you are a close-mined moron, live with it.

quote:Originally posted by LSA King:

I am racist and YOU ARE WRONG.

You just said, and I quote: "...as what many say about me is usually right...", so you called yourself a liar (but what do we expect from a moron like yourself).

Ok how is it sick for them to love each other. Hes not talking about fucking brains out here hes not even talking about fucking. Hes talking about just spending time with her no where does he really say is it ok for me to fuck this little girl. So shut up you rascist inconsiderate asshole. And do you think its ok for hugh hefnery to sleep with the play boy bunnies?

Edit- I forgot to mention men dating younger girls is definalty not new, before 30 year old men would marry 15-16 year old girls for a few purposes sex, and servetude so its not something new. Most of the stuff from today that is seen as wrong comes from ancient times like homosexuality, pedophilia(I think its wrong if the girl is under 13 because then they proboly arn't even going through puberty yet) and some other shit I can't think of.

[This message has been edited by AprenticeChemist (edited 02-28-2004).]

Dammit, deleted this since "LSA King" called a truce. I'm such a wuss.

[This message has been edited by deadlycindy (edited 02-28-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

This might explain LiSA's problem:

Found here: http://www.totse.com/bbs/Forum3/HTML/025076.html

Hahahaha, poor little LiSA, someone give it a hug.

quote:Originally posted by LSA King:

This is just sick. If your 21 or older then 18 period for that matter and out of high school and have to hit on girls in school your a pathetic loser.

You shouldn't just be ashamed of yourself but should be shot.

Yes girls make mistakes as she will use you as an example in her future when she is older.

Your a sick bastard who needs to get a fucking life.

I do not think your in love. Nobody in todays world even knows the damn meaning anymore, its if my penis fits in your pussy and it feels equally good WOW we are in love.

This whole thread makes me fucking sick sir and I have nothing more to say. No one to flame just my thoughts on this. Do what you want but from the first two paragraphs you made me sick and its no surprise why we have Man-Boy Organizations in this country who pry on younger children, yes those are for gays but soon there will be similar pedophile organizations of the likes and I wouldn't be surprised if there already are some.

Your relationship is illegal and if I found out where you lived I would call the local police long distance and have you arrested for the girls sake and yours.

LSA, I have been posting on Totse since last March, more than enough time to know what a fucking, brainless, racist wanna-be shitheaded asswipe you are. For your information, wether me and Angela ever so much as hold hands is irrelevant. ALL I want from her is love, not her body, not a piece of ass, just love (something you were, obviously, denied).

I do not (let me spell this out for you) I D O N O T C A R E A B O U T S E X W I T H H E R.

I am fully aware theres a 5 year age gap between me and her. NOBODY on this thread but you seems to give a shit. I love this girl for who she is, not what I can get out of her. The issue of us having sex hasen't even came up, so you sir can shut your hole, cluster fuck.

Oh by the way, the local police is the Early County Sheriffs Office in Blakely, Georgia

But for those who actually support my relationship with Angela, thank you, very much. All wittyness/sarcasm aside, I do appreciate it.

oh my god a 5 year difference is nothing (seriously)

quote:Originally posted by Berrith:

Courage? Well now I wouldnt say that... my photos are all over the place. I dont see why I shouldnt... I dont have any stalkers or anything. I seem to do a good job of annoying people I dont like lmao. Thanks for your support everyone I appreciate it

lol nice

same her dude; but i do it with frinds too

on a "superficial basis" if u know what if u catch my drift

its pretty fun- thats what friends r for(jopkinging around with)

jsut be sure to be serious when the situaion arises and u will be funnier to ur friends

and more fun--also for those who are looking fr a way to shop their friends they actually care; being more serious or caring as opposed to a jerk(joke wise) demonstrates a more caring friend

quote:Originally posted by fearthecubs:

oh my god a 5 year difference is nothing (seriously)

That is totally true man, look at Hugh Hefnery hes what 80 and the girls hes fucking are 24-30 thats a 50 year difference, shit those girls are young enough to be hes daughters if not his grand kids so 5 years isn't a hole lot. I can't belive I actully helped you out LSA King your just a rascist/fascist asshole.

quote:Originally posted by Jadoaus:

Better to give it a go then not because of half-formed, half-hearted worries about age and the Internet.

And 16's old enough. Age of consent in the UK. Everyone with an intelligent mind is constantly changing right through their twenties. Being 16 myself, I'd like to think I’m more adult than child mentally, abet inexperienced about the world



The man has a point - Im in the UK, and obviously I was 16... at some point, cant remember when tho....



On my side of the tlk:

My parents are odd tho - my dads 71 now, and my mums only 57- it shocks most people, and Im hoping it doesnt have an effect on a person I like - finding that their 14 years younger than me !! Thats like me going out with a 6 year old at the minute....nooooo way. Uh Uh!

If I can add to the controversy a bit...

I am not going to go as far as LSAKing, but even if there is no sex involved, it still seems a bit off to me. If I were to go out with a high school girl, every respectable adult I know would think less of me and for good reason too. Five years is not a big gap if they are five adult years, but things change too quickly in the teen years. A 16 year old has no business with an 11 year old or a 21 year old.

I am going to guess that the majority of the people responding in favor of this are teens themselves. I think I would have been in favor of it too when I was in high school. Teens do tend to think of themselves as adults. If you actually mature some when you get older, you will eventually see things a bit differently.

She is too white. And too young for you.

I'm 17, and i can't stand 16 year olds. She must be very mature. But i'd say, people do a LOT of changing after 16. Like you said, you're puttin in faith right now, but just be ready when you all out hate her later on.

~es

Oh guys, I could never hate/feel badly towards her. I know we're both young, her considerably younger than me, but like I've said several times before, I'm not looking for sex or marriage, just a deep intimate friendship, thats it. I'd never even consider pressuring Angela into something she didn't feel comfortable with.

quote:Originally posted by Vampire Archimiel:

Oh guys, I could never hate/feel badly towards her.

The fact that you are so sure about this when you have never met says a lot. I think I understand why you don't see the maturity gap.

quote:Originally posted by Guswut:

Hahahaha, poor little LiSA, someone give it a hug.





Well I am not even going to bother to reply to your dipshitted half-assed attempt to reply to me. You moron don't bring irrelevance from other threads here you idiot how hard is it for you to get through you thick skull?

However I am not saying its not wrong to love someone but honestly with a 50% divorce rate who the fuck here is to decide "What is love" let alone how far do you go.

Guswut claims age don't matter so should your daughter get fucked by me when she is in 7th grade, better to hit her before her period eh?

I am saying its sick that someone who is 3 years out of high school has to hit on high school girls to begin with unless the relationsihp started during high school.

5 years younger shit you know how I am glad I didn't do shit when I was 16 and then turned 18 between that time I grew up a bit more and wised up to peoples bullshit.

Don't forget everyone always says "Wow I didn't know my neighbor, babysitter, etc. would do that to my kid!". Perhaps because they come off innocent? You let this man evolve and you are not doing society a favor and you are rewarding this man for a crime so hideous your stomach revolts at when you hear of kids being raped.

Statutory RAPE buddy thats what its called.

Its illegal by law and that alone should close the book.



I am sad people still believe such "love" can take place in modern soceity or should I say "Modern America".

Once more I am blunt with my arguements by morons like Guswut would rather through illogical liberal arguements followed by flames then address such a serious issue.

Without blunt people like myself society would always be wearing there 'Blinders' and turn the other way as they always do.

You can agree with this man or not I care not but its illegal and you who support this in the name of love are supporting a crime not a feeling which is indescribable to begin with that love is blasphamy to such the feeling.

Oh and no for you sexual devients its not the feeling of an orgasm that isn't "love" either.

LSA king is merely screaming for attention,and is ruining what is a good topic. I advise ignorage of this cunt from now on.

+++++++++++++++++++++++++

Back on topic,

quote:Originally posted by fearthecubs:

oh my god a 5 year difference is nothing (seriously)



I agree with this.

5 years. Five years. Five years.

Is Nothing!

I recently got over a rather icky relationship with a 42 year old.

It was perfect. The only reason the relationship died was because of the fucking Meth.

Otherwise, we'd more than likely still be together.

quote:Originally posted by LSA King:

And for the record I find this whole *NEW* "age don't matter" bullshit to be just that BULLSHIT. Unless your in your 20's and up BOTH OF you then I could say that is more appropriate, but teens?

How dare a bastard such as yourself even make such a post regarding if what your doing is right.

A bastard is nothing but what you are. People call me a racist moron and I know DeadilyCindy hates me aswell, whether she agrees with me or not I know what your doing is wrong as what many say about me is usually right.

I am racist and YOU ARE WRONG.

Get over it. Here, have some strycnine! Seriously dude, relax, I don't agree with you but that's life. Teen girls are fun though.....seriously!

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

LSA king is merely screaming for attention,and is ruining what is a good topic. I advise ignorage of this cunt from now on.

+++++++++++++++++++++++++

Back on topic,





Screaming for attention? How, please explain this? I give a fuckless what he does I have just seen people be victomized by people like him two times two sisters.

Don't tell me I am fucking wrong when it has proven itself twice in my life that these people end up going the wrong way.

Sure its possible to have this 1920's young love but I highly doubt it is my fucking point so please put up or shut the fuck up.

quote:Originally posted by LSA King:



Screaming for attention? How, please explain this? I give a fuckless what he does I have just seen people be victomized by people like him two times two sisters.

Don't tell me I am fucking wrong when it has proven itself twice in my life that these people end up going the wrong way.

Sure its possible to have this 1920's young love but I highly doubt it is my fucking point so please put up or shut the fuck up.

LSA you want proof that it is indeed REAL love and not just an excuse for sex, is this what you want?

quote:Originally posted by LSA King:

And for the record I find this whole *NEW* "age don't matter" bullshit to be just that BULLSHIT. Unless your in your 20's and up BOTH OF you then I could say that is more appropriate, but teens?

How dare a bastard such as yourself even make such a post regarding if what your doing is right.

A bastard is nothing but what you are. People call me a racist moron and I know DeadilyCindy hates me aswell, whether she agrees with me or not I know what your doing is wrong as what many say about me is usually right.

I am racist and YOU ARE WRONG.

Did I say you could could talk after I pulled my cock out of your mouth "son"? Yeah I've made some mistakes ( letting my cum bounce off of your daddys knee and fall into a pile of dogshit........hence "your existence") But seriously, don't flame "Vampire" (the neighbors kid) just because you can't decide whether or not to be "Melanie" or a "Melvin"! Until then, open up and say "AAAAAAAAAH"

Other than that, LSA you are still ok.........Still trying to figure your ass out though...........Hmmmmmmmm. Drinks on me.

i fell in love with a 14 year old girl from the net.. to anyone that says its IMPOSSIBLE is full of shit...but they ARE right in the aspect that it most likely WONT last

im 17 BTW... so the age difference isnt so bad

oh yeah... my philosiphy for older dudes is (21-24 range) 16 is perfectly acceptable if you are going to bone the chick... but 16 is the absolute youngest a dude your age should bone (f*ck the 18 law!!!!)

speaking of which.... i think im still in love with her... heh... man i am so clueless as to what to do in love... *smacks himself*

"Age Ain't nothing but a number."

and prison ain't nothin' but an assraping waiting to happen.

quote:Originally posted by The Misfit:

and prison ain't nothin' but an assraping waiting to happen.

I love this line...may I use it.?

*Sighs* For the last time..this relationship isn't about sex...its about loving someone more than I ever thought possible..

I know a lot of you are saying it won't last...but I'm absolutely fucking determinded that it will....unless she chooses to let go, in which case I will.

And I get to see her in a week. For the first time in a VERY long time..I can say I'm happy.

well... the chick i love online im probably going to bone this summer if i get some cash... ahhh yeah... good times *raises his coke*

i didnt pollute her mind and get her horny for nothing god damnit!!!

hmm... i wonder how you break it to your ex that you still love them and want to be with them... after you have dumped them......... twice.................

Shit she's ugly!!!!

Sorry had to say that.

How the fuck could you love her unless you yourself were so mingin! (English Dialect)

God damn, some of you are really a bunch of fucking pricks. You know, even if it were all about sex, what the fuck difference does it make? But, as stated by Archie there, it's not. Good on him.

Hey Arch, don't you wish there were some programmable virus that you could spread around that would kill only those who you told it to? We could call it....FOX-DIE.

...Metal Gear Solid rules. Sorry, back on topic:

Again, good luck man, and I hope it all works out. Ignore all the idiots and feel no need to justify yourself or your intentions, and just enjoy love while it's being good to you. Hopefully it will remain so.

-Infrared

my relationship isnt all about sex... i really truely love this girl... and sex is a very welcome and pleasant attachment to the love =P

oh yeah... yesterday i decided to get back with her... so yay!

Jesse, good luck with your girl man, please remember to treat her good.

Infared, thanks man, you've always been a good friend to me on here.

Gsus, you sir, can go back to fucking your dad right in his urethra. To me, she is the most beautiful girl alive. I'm sorry all the girls you've ever had came with testicles, but thats not the case with me.

she isn't hot enough to go to prison over...

Ok dudes shut up about the sex and how good she looks. I personally think shes pretty hot thats just my opinion. And if your in love then looks doesn't matter fucktards if he loved her he wouldn't care what she looked like. And alot of your are stupid as hell I mean just because someone says they love another person doesn't mean they want to fuck them does it? Im sure most of you have told your mom and dad you love them does that mean you are going to have sex with them or want to? So then why should it be that differnt if he says he loves this girl?

THANK you Alchem. I'm glad people like you, Heiko, Infa, and a couple of others can see the fact I love this girl doesn't translate into "I want in her fucking pants right now".

quote:Originally posted by Heiko Palm:

I love this line...may I use it.?

as long as you give credit where credit is due my friend.

This thread just keeps coming back for more...

quote:Originally posted by The Misfit:

as long as you give credit where credit is due my friend.

This thread just keeps coming back for more...

I noticed.

quote:Originally posted by The Misfit:

as long as you give credit where credit is due my friend.

This thread just keeps coming back for more...

No problem........it is good though!

quote:Originally posted by Heiko Palm:

No problem........it is good though!

Thank you Heiko..I appreicate it.

wrong. burn in hell..

i don't give 2 fucks who disagree's with me.

it's wrong.

What's so wrong about this relationship?

Some of you really are stupid, if you think that Age really matters. Stupid, and probably virgins.

Speaking from experience, I recently had a relationship with a 42 year old, and there was no age problem. none.

Anyway.

Have you met her yet?

When are you going to?

quote:Originally posted by yoyobek:

What's so wrong about this relationship?

Some of you really are stupid, if you think that Age really matters. Stupid, and probably virgins.

Speaking from experience, I recently had a relationship with a 42 year old, and there was no age problem. none.

Anyway.

Have you met her yet?

When are you going to?



Yoyobek, I haven't met her yet, but get this: My familys going to North Carolina in May on a family vacation. Her mom and my mom agreed for both families to meet and get to know each other, so not only will I get to see her, but her parents and mine approve of it.

Go for it.

Thats great news man. And I think age does matter in some cases, like if the girl is under 13 and your like 30 then its just wrong to go out with her under 13 is pushing it if your over 20 because there is nothing you two would have in common mentally unless she was very advanced mentaly and in maturity. But congratulations.

meet up with the slut and fuck her brains out if she really means a lot to u.

die, this thread needs to fucking die. No offense to the happy couple but christ on an inverted cross this needs to stop.

quote:Originally posted by greyhat7:

meet up with the slut and fuck her brains out if she really means a lot to u.

Shut the fuck up asshat. For one, shes NOT a slut, and second, I don't want to 'fuck her brains out'. I want to marry her and be a good, honest, faithful husband, an area in which you will NEVER get to experience.

quote:Originally posted by Vampire Archimiel:

Shut the fuck up asshat. For one, shes NOT a slut, and second, I don't want to 'fuck her brains out'. I want to marry her and be a good, honest, faithful husband, an area in which you will NEVER get to experience.

pwned?

edit: forgot the "p" and put an "o"

[This message has been edited by prozak_jack (edited 04-07-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by prozak_jack:

pwned?

edit: forgot the "p" and put an "o"

[This message has been edited by prozak_jack (edited 04-07-2004).]

I appreciate it Prozak, but I'm not trying to own him. He did that himself by writing his dumbass reply. I know for some people, the concept of girls being more than a sex object is hard to grasp. This is why our 'friend' will never be laid by anything more than the newest item off the STD shelf.

quote:I don't love her for her body, I love her for her heart

You love her for her blood! Her bloooooood!

Im just fucking with you you fucking

vampire bastard you!

Well man if you love her and she loves you, then age doesn't matter.

&lt;Hans Moleman voice&gt;

We paid for bloooood!!

&lt;/Hans Moleman voice&gt;

Infrared, not to be a nazi code bitch, but it should have been:

&lt;voice speaker="Hans Moleman"&gt;

We paid for bloooood!!

&lt;voice&gt;

*blink blink*

Why won't this thread just die already? He loves her, she loves him, their parents approve, end o' fucking story.

*goes to sleep again*

Ah... to be 16 and know everything about everything again. I was the smartest person I knew... then I had kids. Ooops.

Berrith... damn, forgot your real name. Anyway, just ... give this time. I know, you KNOW WHAT YOU'RE DOING. I got it. But, please, just give it time. It's soooo much better with a little life under your belt. And for God's sake, don't join the military! If you're serious about pursuing this relationship, run as fast and as far as you can from the military!!!

Well I know that I met my fiancee over the net and I loved her to death before we ever met in person! The age thing is goint to be a problem though whether you like it or not. Not for everyonr but for a good few it will be and you and her need to decide if you want to put up with people taling etc.

Me and Angela (her real name) have already discussed the fact that some people may not approve of the age gap, and decided quite frankly, we don't give a shit. We're not planning on doing anything that could get us in legal trouble, and simply dating someone isn't a crime.

She decided against the military (Thank God..), because she knew I was totally against it, and because she realized it would interfere with any relationship we may have.

I know a lot of young girls like her think 'Ok, THIS is what I want, and I'm 150% positive on it!'. We've talked this one through also, which is why we're going to wait until after her 18th birthday to get REALLY serious about a wedding. Its something we both want, right now if possible, but common sense dictates we wait, and so we will.

On an unrelated note, I asked a psychic recently if we'd make it to the wedding at all. Her reply was....very interesting. If anyone wants it, ask.