Well, me and my gf have been going out for about a month now. We had sex last night for the first time(she was a virgin,i wasn't)and in all the lust and hornyness i didn't use a condom. I didn't cum, but I heard something about pre-ejaculation sperm or something. What's the chances shes pregnant? And yes, i know i'm an idiot for not using protection.

~es

Not likely. Actually shooting your load into a girl you only have a 12-25 percent chance of conception. Thats what i heard atleast. So precum *which i dont have...* Is pretty low. Still happens though.

First off, yes you are an idiot. but calling you that isn't going to help you.

As for the chances of her being pregnant they are small but it could still happen.that pre ejcauclation is usually 80-90 % semen, and the acidic enviroment of her pussy will kill most. But life does so love to kick people in the gutts.I suggest you tell your girlfriend to keep an eye on things. perhaps a doctors visit would be a good idea too.

But next time dont be such a fool and wrap up your tool.

edit:sorry for the spelling and grammer problems.

quote:Originally posted by chaotic raven:

First off, yes you are an idiot. but calling you that isn't going to help you.

As for the chances of her being pregnant they are small but it could still happen.that pre ejcauclation is usually 80-90 % semen, and the acidic enviroment of her pussy will kill most. But life does so love to kick people in the gutts.I suggest you tell your girlfriend to keep an eye on things. perhaps a doctors visit would be a good idea too.

But next time dont be such a fool and wrap up your tool.

edit:sorry for the spelling and grammer problems.

Don't worry, today i went and bought a big box of condoms.

Ya knocked her up right? I hope you did. But ya should've really cum in her, really sprayed those sugar walls. See, women give you that "look" after you really fuck them, cause they know when ya get them pregnant, yeah.....ha ha ha I like seeing that look in their eyes. Yeah, they know they have been bred!

Morning after pill. Go to a family planning clinic and get her to take it within 72 hours and you should be safe. It does cause a bit of moodiness and read the label! You can't drink after taking it(I learnt that the hard way when my boyfriend couldn't get me to wake up and take the second pill after drinking a naggin of vodka. Yes, I know, I'm a lightweight. At least it makes drinking cheaper. The anti-sickness tablets make you drowsy as fuck so be careful).

[This message has been edited by Purple Phreaxxx (edited 02-22-2004).]

Listen to purplephreaxx.. the morning after pill may seem a little extreme, considering the lowered chance of pregnancy, but you really don't want a kid! It's no big deal, and you should be able to get it cheap or free.

Your lucky if shes not pregnant. I have to be the most unlucky person alive right now (sexually speaking). Condum ripped, got her the morning after pill, and she is experiencing pregnancy symtoms (pink blood). I am fuckin scared right now. I dont know what to do.

cola, go to a doctor. Obviously bring her with you. You should go with her for moral support. It really is scary going to the doctor by yourself. Give her a big hug while you're waiting and reassure her that you'll be there for her no matter what the outcome(you better be. It wasn't just her fault that all this happened, it was equally yours. You are a coward if you abandon her with something like this to deal with.) Try be more careful in the future.

I'd recommend the pill, the injection or the patch. It's great not having to worry about anything but having a good time. The injection is 99.7% effective and the only thing safer would be getting your tubes tied, but even that can sometimes fail. Don't worry about going to family planning clinics and getting these things. If you're serious about each other and committed to one person only, hormonal contraceptives are great. Just make sure to trust each other before you do anything like that. Maybe go fifty-fifty on the payments for the doctor etc. Only downside is the come at the end...

Patch (http://www.orthoevra.com/about_ortho_evra/about_ortho_evra.html)

Injection (http://www.depoprovera.com/)

Different kinds of pills (http://www.plannedparenthood.org/bc/YOU_AND_PILL.HTM)

[This message has been edited by Purple Phreaxxx (edited 02-22-2004).]

I continualy am amazed that people can get so carried away that they forget to wrap the sausage. I understand being excited and anxious, several cases of being bare ass naked with my girlfriend on my bed making out and getting each other off, and every time things looked like they were going to go further I thought of the condom in my wallet. Every sigle time. How can people be so irresponsable?

quote:Originally posted by Purple Phreaxxx:

...The injection is 99.7% effective and the only thing safer would be getting your tubes tied, but even that can sometimes fail...

I'll vouch that this is painfully true. Good post, purple.

Kinda off-topic, but I was shocked to read that while the pill has over a 99% theoretical effectiveness, the actual effectiveness in practice is only around 92% due to user error. The most common error is not taking the pill properly at the same time each day. Damn sex, you'd think it's purpose was for reproduction or something.

quote:Originally posted by Purple Phreaxxx:

cola, go to a doctor. Obviously bring her with you. You should go with her for moral support. It really is scary going to the doctor by yourself. Give her a big hug while you're waiting and reassure her that you'll be there for her no matter what the outcome(you better be. It wasn't just her fault that all this happened, it was equally yours. You are a coward if you abandon her with something like this to deal with.) Try be more careful in the future.

I'd recommend the pill, the injection or the patch. It's great not having to worry about anything but having a good time. The injection is 99.7% effective and the only thing safer would be getting your tubes tied, but even that can sometimes fail. Don't worry about going to family planning clinics and getting these things. If you're serious about each other and committed to one person only, hormonal contraceptives are great. Just make sure to trust each other before you do anything like that. Maybe go fifty-fifty on the payments for the doctor etc. Only downside is the come at the end...

Patch (http://www.orthoevra.com/about_ortho_evra/about_ortho_evra.html)

Injection (http://www.depoprovera.com/)

Different kinds of pills (http://www.plannedparenthood.org/bc/YOU_AND_PILL.HTM)

[This message has been edited by Purple Phreaxxx (edited 02-22-2004).]

I am with her thru this all the way. But what happened was just kind of casual sex. I am not dating her, nor do I plan on it. We are both 16 (No drivers Licenses tho) and have yet to tell my parents. I am just hoping that those are just side effects from the morning after pill and she will be just fine. I know if anything my parents will be suprised but hopefully not mad because I did wrap it and I did get the morning after pill.

Ask her if she feels sick in a week.

A week after the fact or a week from now?

Clothes hangers work quite well in this situation...

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:



Kinda off-topic, but I was shocked to read that while the pill has over a 99% theoretical effectiveness, the actual effectiveness in practice is only around 92% due to user error. The most common error is not taking the pill properly at the same time each day. Damn sex, you'd think it's purpose was for reproduction or something.



hmmm, good to know, i pull out even though my girlfriend is on the pill so it's only precum that even has that little chance anyway. And i trust her to take the pill right.

OK HERERS THE DEAL

IT DOESNT MATTER WHAT THE STATISTICS ARE.

ASSUME IF YOU DONT USE A CONDOM OR IF IT BREAKS OR IF THERE IS EVEN A .01% CHANcE THAT YOU GOT A GIRL PREGNANT THAT SHE IS AND GET THE MORNING AFTER PILL OR SOMETHING.

quote:Originally posted by elite_dance:

Clothes hangers work quite well in this situation...

OMG have you seen that annimation on newgrounds, its about abortions its the funniest shit ever. got to newgrounds.com

It's just too bad totse has been overrun with immature idiots as shown in the posts above. It's ignorant 12 year olds like them that will eventually get it shut down.

Update:

Ok, I'm in the clear. She got the 72 hour pill on time so there's one less thing to worry about. Don't worry, now i got a shit load of condoms under my bed.

~es