are girls the only ones that can be considered sluts? and how many guys does it actually take to be considered one? more than one in a day? doing it for money? what's the difference between a slut and a prostitute?

quote:Originally posted by MoReThAnStRaNge:

are girls the only ones that can be considered sluts? and how many guys does it actually take to be considered one? more than one in a day? doing it for money? what's the difference between a slut and a prostitute?

It's all arbitrary

shut up.

If every person's attitude was "It's all relative." or "It's all arbitrary." there's be no point in having forums!

I think there can be girl sluts and guy sluts.

It really depends on how they carry themselves, their state of mind, circumstances. Number has nothing to do with it as far as I'm concerned. Some people enjoy having sex. They don't hurt others in the process, they don't feed their partner all sorts of bullshit about love, they just have sex. That's not slutty.

What's slutty is opening your legs to any guy that wants to get some. What's slutty is having NO standards and sleeping with whoever is willing. What's slutty is having unprotected sex.

Having sex with more than one person in a day is borderline. There are few situations I can think of where that would not be slutty. One of those situations would be girl with a mental illness such as depression or someone with low self esteem.

You have to think though: What's exploring yourself as a sexual being and what's just being dirty? Some girls can participate in a threesome because it turns them on, it's a part of their sexual identity. That I would not consider being slutty. Having a threesome because that's the new trend is slutty.

It really comes down to one's state of mind and how one perceives sex.

Doing it for money and prostitution is a whole other ballpark.

There are women who become prostitutes because they are sluts. Then there are women who've become prostitutes, and therefore looked upon as being slutty.

[This message has been edited by MrMojoRisin (edited 02-22-2004).]

Exactly what Mojo said, but I'll add some more.



It isnt just about the image as he said, its how they carry theirselfs.

I find a girl a slut if she fucks alot guys, alot of people know about it, and she even talks about and brags how many time she has been fucked.

A girl who goes out to have some fun every once in a while, and has sex a couple times a month and keeps it to herself and isnt going around spreading details then that isnt a slut.

Its those girls that actually like talking about getting screwed, and if she'd have sex with just about any guy then yea its a slut.



Guys can be sluts too, but for a girl people think its different, and I think that explains it all.

In my opinion, a slut is one who engages in legal prostitution. Trading sex for physical goods other than cash under the guise of a 'relationship' or a one-night-stand. Thier goal may be getting smashed, but they have no value in sex so they'll give it up for some guy to buy her some drinks. If one does not value the act of sex, or is a slave to sex, then they are a slut; man or woman.

quote:Originally posted by Purple Phreaxxx:

shut up.



Agreed.