Me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time last night, and I want to ask the girls how much it should hurt the first time. There wasn't much blood, but today it is still really painful. I don't know if he's given me an STD or anything either. Please fill me in, somebody.

You're probably okay... first time soreness. If he gave you an STD you wouldn't feel pain from it overnight hon... and if he used protection... well you know, not gonna preach to you about the obvious....

-Extant

So how much longer will it hurt for then?

What about the second time?

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Fnar!

Lmao, I can't believe I actually typed that... talk about asking for it.

It'll be sore every time until your hymen loosens up a bit.

It totally depends on you. As glitterpunk said, it's going to be a bit sore until your body loosens up. It wont take that long, and you shouldn't be hurting for more than a day or so, unless he is rather large and you are rather tight.

Nothing to do with this subject... but is your name anything to do with the band "The Hanging Tree" ?

no lol, just one of my great great grndfathers or something got hanged, and I found out a while ago and thought it was pretty cool... hanging tree is off the top of my head. Are they a good band then?