K, heres the deal.

Before i started going out with my girlfriend, she was sort of involved with this other guy. Whenever i ask about it, it's kept hush hush. So, now during spring break, i'm going to Mexico. She's gonna be here all alone, and the bad part is that, she told me she promised to meet him.

Now, on msn, this guy always tells her they should go out, how cute she is, etc. This is worryin me like hell, because i don't want to return from my vacation and get the biggest shock of my life.

Additional info: We've been goin out for a month, we are very close, but she mentioned that "oh i dunno, i just like being around him, we have alot of fun"

Should i be worried? What should i do?

Umm.You said she met him on line?,what if this dude turns out to be like 40 or something and is a rapeist.

Well, if she's officially your gf and you two have an exclusive agreement, she's not off to a good start honoring it. She may not intend to seem so flakey, but she may not yet understand that she's putting herself in a situation where "possibilities" present themselves and it is likely something will happen. People who respect their partners don't mess with that shit. Either she's genuinely clueless or she's slightly malicious; in any case, she doesn't sound ready, willing, and/or able to respect a commitment.

Look dude...Take it from someone who's dealt with this shit before...Namely, uncle Psycho:

Don't worry about it.

If she did fuck you off for this other mother fucker then just sit back, drink a beer and say to yourself "Whatever man...If she wanted him all along then she's a dumbass!"

You learn to get over things with time my friend.

But then again, I doubt that she will.

I got a nice shock this morning that's eating away at me like tuberculosis though...See if you could deal with this!

I was laying in bed with my girl and she said that her friend flopped his cock out.

Then she said that it was bigger than mine, saw the look on my face and started saying "It's too big...Yours is just right!"

How in the name of God would you take that?!?!

Jeez I'm so insecure now!

To conclude; If you trust this chick enough then you'll know that she'll stay faithful to you.

And if she doesn't, screw her and get on with your life...As I said earlier...You get used to being used by women!!!

Good luck buddy!

quote:Originally posted by RedShift:

K, heres the deal.

Before i started going out with my girlfriend, she was sort of involved with this other guy. Whenever i ask about it, it's kept hush hush. So, now during spring break, i'm going to Mexico. She's gonna be here all alone, and the bad part is that, she told me she promised to meet him.

Now, on msn, this guy always tells her they should go out, how cute she is, etc. This is worryin me like hell, because i don't want to return from my vacation and get the biggest shock of my life.

Additional info: We've been goin out for a month, we are very close, but she mentioned that "oh i dunno, i just like being around him, we have alot of fun"

Should i be worried? What should i do?

Every chick in the world has and will continue to pull that shit. The whole "he's-just-a-friend-and-we-have-fun-stop-being-so-jealous-I-don't-have-to-take-this-I-am-in-control-of-everything" scenario.

You can never tell whether they actually like the guy or not, all you can do is deal with it because the bitch isn't going to let down. If you find out she's cheating, pull out the ol' Thompson and blow the shit out of the offending parties.

^^^

Abso..fucking..lutely.