I dont know what to do. He went out with her but they are broken up now. I became good friends with her during that time and now we talk on the phone every night. I was the first person she called when they broke up. I've heard from her friends that she likes me, but she also likes these two other guys. I really like her and want to be with her but I have no idea what would happen with my friend then. I know he'd be mad about it, but I don't see why he has a reason to. They broke up, and it was mainly his idea too. So unless he gay like that, i dont see why i shouldnt ask her out. the only thing holding me back is what my friend would think. What do you think I should do? Just go ahead and ask her and hope my friend gets over it, or try to convince him to let me?

before you do it talk to him and tell him what you are planning on doing, and that you hope he is mature enought to still be your friend

Talk to your friend first man. The same thing happened to some friends of mine. It screws up the friendship most of the time, one way or another. Just make sure he's totally over her and there won't be any unresolved shit between them if they're ever around eachother. That's never fun.

Evil_Tree's definintion of girl friends and prospect girl friends- Girl friends and prospect girl friends need constant attention. You never leave them alone unless they ask you to. They choose what happens and you do not argue about it. If she doesn't like your friends, ditch her or your friends. There is no inbetween.

Evil_Tree's definition of friends- Friends (of both sexes) all ways have your ass backed up. Friends will kill for you, you will kill for friends. Friendship is like a heroin addiction or hotel california, you can leave at anytime but you'll allways find yourself crawling back. No matter what.



It's your choice. Friends are better than girlfriends and love and all that shit. Friends with benifits are the best. The chick is probably looking to use you to get back at your friend. Your a pawn in her game.

Don't let the Siren's calls draw you to your death...

Some chick from the Oddessy.

Things to consider:

- No matter what he says, he will be at least wierded out. He can't help it. And while your boys will stick by you, he may take it as a personal insult (it's against many versions of the "guy code," including my own) and not want to be your boy anymore.

- There's a reason your bro broke up with her. Think about what it was. You might be walking into a relationship with a nutjob. Remember, psycho women reveal their true selves once you're in their thrall, not before.

- Crass as it is... Bros Before Hos.

dont do it. seriously. she's most likely using you as a rebound-bitch or as a way of trying to piss your friend off. through your friend, hopefully, you will meet lots of girls. personally, i would never date a friends ex. i meet most of the girls i know through my friends and i dont want to lose them(my friends). you can always ask your friend if it's okay if you just fuck her and leave her to piss her off. the choice is yours but personally i wouldn't do it.

bro's before hoes.

wow thats exactly what happened to me. about 2 weeks later she made out with him at her birthday party. when i asked her the next morning whose girlfriend she was, she responded with "i dont know." im gonna have to say no for my advice on this one, definately.