Well, I got the email address of the chick I've said I was gonna ask out ages ago. So I'm gonna go for it now and FINALLY ask her out. And I'm not gonna fuck around anymore. I'm gonna talk to her for a few days and then ask her. Anyone have any imput towards my stratergy?

I'd take lifejunkie's advice and ask her to the movies first. Then go from there.

Send her an email asking for her phone number. It's a lot more intimate than emailing. Good luck!

Stop pussy-footing about and get the chick to go on a date with you, man!

At least get her number!

Don't ask her out through an email, IM, or any other way of... that stuff. Phone her up, talk to her face to face, anything. Just not retarded "internet relationship" crap.

quote:Originally posted by guernica:

Don't ask her out through an email, IM, or any other way of... that stuff. Phone her up, talk to her face to face, anything. Just not retarded "internet relationship" crap.

Yeah, I made the mistake. I talked to a girl using text messages as opposed to calling her. I blew it.

I waiting for another "how 2 hack hotmail?" thread in NS&H....

Yeah, just whatever you do, ask her in person.

I'm in a similar situation but I haven't gotten her email yet.. :-( blah.

Seriously, e-mail is for pussies. I know from experience, I was once a pussy--or more of a pussy than I am now, rather.

OK, I'll talk to her a bit on MSN, then get her number and ask her out over the phone or something.

Pussy.

CHICKS HATE PUSSYS (unless they are dykes)

you need to do it in person!!

YOUR GOING TO EMAIL HER? OMG!! Guess what shes gonna say no... and if she says yes I give it 2 weeks. grow up.

to quote cruel intentions, "e-mail is for geeks and paedophiles. be romantic and write the girl a letter" or at the very least ask in person.

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by the way, i wasn't having a go at you. i have a lot of trouble getting the nerve up too. just trying to help.

[This message has been edited by CaptainBlackAdder (edited 02-21-2004).]

Some of you people really do talk a load of crap.

Email is a fine way of contacting and communicating with a girl.

It is personal enough so it's not distant and cold like Text Messaging is,and it's not so gooey and intimate you freeze up,start to stutter, and look like a gimp.

Email the girl,IM her, see how it goes from there.

The girl ime going out with at the moment is a girl that i startrd talking to in e-mails,but to my supprise she asked me out...

just lucky i guess

The internet is personal, have you not heard of cybersex?

People tend to say more on the internet...it all depends on how well you communicate...if you do it right...you can find out everythign there is to know about the person before you ever meet them....I know...I've met several wonderful people that way.

When will you damn kids learn? The internet is completely impersonal and synthetic.

If you're looking to meet someone who knows how to type what you want to read, then internet dating and/or relationships is for you.